¿Está celoso? 10 señales sutiles de que esconde sus celos

¿Está bien si paso la noche con amigos? ¿Se enfadará mi novio si acepto la petición de follow que me acaba de hacer ese chico al que conozco desde hace años?

¿Está celoso cuando hablo con otros chicos? ¿Se siente amenazado por el hecho de que puede perderme?

¿Se enfadará si llego tarde esta noche? ¿O me estoy imaginando cosas?

These are all the questions no girl should be asking herself. However, these and similar things have been running through your head lately and you simply can’t avoid them.

Your gut is telling you that your boyfriend is extremely jealous but to be frank, he has never told you anything straightforwardly so now you are not sure whether you’re exaggerating or if he is really a possessive control-freak.

Ningún hombre se limitará a mostrar o admitir que es un tipo celoso . It’s a nasty personality trait that can be very dangerous, especially for the sake of your relationship.

Por suerte para ti, hay formas de entrar en las cámaras secretas de su mente que ni siquiera él sabe que existen. Con Su obsesión secreta you’ll get yourself in a place where you never again have to wonder what he’s thinking.

Let’s face it, all guys get jealous in some situations. Nevertheless, there is a huge difference between cute jealous behavior and possessiveness .

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is to think about things such as, ” He is jealous for me because he loves me too much.” Remember that jealousy is never a sign of love—it is a sign of a man’s insecurity and his attempt to control you.

Si su hombre muestra signos tempranos de celos , puede destruir su relación desde el principio porque los celos muy fácilmente se convierte en posesividad y puede convertirlo en un monstruo.

So, are there any proven signs that he is a jealous boyfriend that you can discover despite the fact he’s hiding them? No one can be sure.

Todo depende de cómo lo mires y de cómo interpretes su comportamiento.

It’s possible that sometimes you get the wrong impression and accuse him, even though he is not guilty.

Truth be told, men always send mixed signals and you never know what they are actually thinking about and you’re left with no choice other than to guess what goes around in their head.

Guiones de encaprichamiento te ayudarán a leer cada pequeña pista que te den y a utilizarla en tu beneficio.

Nunca te lo dirán directamente, sino que intentarán ocultarlo y enviarán mensajes sutiles que deberás leer.

Por qué ¿los chicos se ponen celosos? y por qué hacer chicos ocultar sus celos?

– They want to hide their weaknesses and baja autoestima

– Women want strong men who aren’t easily threatened

– They don’t want to show their emotions

– They don’t want to be rejected because of their comportamiento celoso

– They are insecure and compare themselves to your ex novios

Jealousy makes us do things we wouldn’t normally do and this is especially true for guys.

Cuando están en una relación, pueden llegar a ser extremadamente posesivos y la razón detrás de esto es que son simplemente un idiota o son muy inseguros.

Cuando consiguen emocionalmente apegado to someone, they are afraid that they are not good enough for that person and that’s why they begin to play a game of control and jealousy.

Relacionado: Señales de obsesión: 10 señales de que es peligrosamente obsesivo y no está enamorado

If your guy is reasonable, the best thing you can do in this situation is to let him know that you aren’t going anywhere, that you love him and that he doesn’t have to worry.

Assure him that if you ever have a problem or some unresolved issues in your relationship, he is going to be the first person you’re going to talk to.

Entenderá que sólo tienes que hablarle amablemente. Sin embargo, si es del tipo celoso, nunca cambiará.

You’re never going to have any space or time to yourself. You’re always going to be questioned when you get back home and he’s never going to trust you.

Anyway, it’s so hard to recognize the red flags that he is the jealous type because he hides it all the time. Men are very confusing creatures.

When they were kids, they punched and poked girls because they didn’t know how to express that they liked them.

The same goes for this—they’d rather get all passive-aggressive than admit that they have a problem.

They act like they don’t care about you and then they say they love you. Who can keep up with this confusing behavior?

Don’t worry, keep reading to clear all the doubts you’ve had so far and see whether he’s really jealous or if you are maybe overreacting.

Véase también: 10 maneras efectivas de poner celoso a un chico y que te desee más

¿Es celoso signos

If you’re looking for a list signs he is jealous , here they are. Also, if you want to do a ” Is he jealous?” quiz , you’re in the right place—just follow the points mentioned below and if you can associate your boyfriend with more than half of them, you have more than enough proven signs he is jealous and possessive .

1. Hace pucheros cuando hablas de alguien

Si tienes una anécdota graciosa del trabajo o te ha pasado algo y ha involucrado a otra persona, (por ejemplo, tu compañero de trabajo o tu amigo ) and you talk about it to your boyfriend or husband but you speak with excitement, he won’t be glad to hear you talking about that.

Sometimes it doesn’t even matter whether it is about a guy or a girl, it’s just when it’s someone else and that is one of the first signs a el tipo es celoso.

He won’t tell you upfront but he will make faces and gasp (which are both clear body language signs he is jealous ) while you’re talking about that person and the situation you were in, as if you did a bad thing .

That is one of the clearest signs a guy is jealous but trying to hide it because he doesn’t want to seem too attached.

He doesn’t want to show it because he knows it’s disrespectful to you.

Sin embargo, como todo, estos celos pueden cruzar la línea y volverse extremadamente peligrosos.

2. Es demasiado dulce y encantador

Esto no es extraño si actúa así todo el tiempo, pero si no es del tipo romántico y de repente empieza a prestarte enormes cantidades de atención, puedes adivinar que algo va mal.

He’s probably asustado de perderte and that is why he’s calling you non-stop—to check up on you.

Tal vez has empezado un nuevo trabajo o has conocido a gente nueva, incluidos nuevos amigos varones, y ahora él se siente amenazado.

He won’t say it to your face because he doesn’t want to show his weakness.

He’ll try to hide it but his feelings will be stronger and they have to come out one way or another.

3. Él se hace el duro

If you see that he is acting strange all of a sudden for no particular reason, that he is more distant instead of talking to you upfront after you’ve done something he probably doesn’t like, these are some of the signs he is jealous but hiding it .

If you talked to another guy and he saw you and suspected something, he will pull away from you and close himself off and he will keep you at arm’s length.

One of the reasons for that is that he wants you to chase him and ‘win’ him over, so he can reclaim his sense of self-worth by making you prove to him that he is still in first place in your life.

He wants you to prove to him that you still love him and that you don’t care for that other guy.

So, if you chase him and push him into revealing why he’s acting strange, he will probably stop because he’ll see that he is being a jealous boyfriend for no reason.

He’ll realize that the other guy doesn’t mean anything to you and that you still love him.

4. Se hace el duro

One of the telltale signs that he is jealous but is hiding it is when he starts acting tough even though it’s not in his nature.

Su orgullo masculino empieza a hacer mella porque se siente amenazado y ve que su ya baja autoestima está a punto de quedar completamente aplastada.

He wants to fight anyone who takes a look at you (including your guy friends ) because he wants to show everyone that you’re his and no one else’s.

Esto también puede ser muy peligroso y un signo de celos enfermizos porque si lo lleva demasiado lejos, puedes pagar el precio por ello.

Puede empezar a prohibirte hacer cosas sólo por su inseguridad o incluso volverse violento.

He won’t trust you and will constantly have the feeling that you are hiding something from him.

Si sus celos cruzan esta línea, pueden convertirse en un comportamiento abusivo.

Watch out for it and if this happens, try to talk to him. If you can’t reason with him, leave him immediately because it will only get worse.

5. Se pone raro cuando sales sin él

Otra cosa que pone celoso a tu novio es que pases tiempo sin él.

Esto puede ser un arma de doble filo, porque nunca estarás segura de si actúa de forma extraña porque está celoso o porque está realmente triste porque saliste sin él.

Maybe he really loves spending time with you and misses you when you’re not around, so that is why he’s been texting and calling you all the time.

Sin embargo, si ve que actúa de forma posesiva and is questioning you a lot, then he is definitely just nervous because he is sure that you will do some bad things for your relationship—for example, flirt with other guys or even cheat on him while you’re gone.

Usually, this means he is acting strange because he is scared of losing you and he can’t watch over every move you make.

He can’t control where you go or what you do and that makes him anxious and scared that you’re going to meet someone new and leave him.

6. Simplemente aparece

Todas tenemos que tener algo de tiempo para nosotras mismas o cuando queremos salir con nuestras amigas sin que nuestro novio esté presente.

I mean it’s okay, you love each other, but sometimes you just need a break and if this is something your partner has a problem with, you should see it as a warning sign of jealousy .

Bueno, si tu novio simplemente aparece en los lugares a los que vas con tus amigas (especialmente cuando se trata de tus amigos chicos y compañeros de trabajo masculinos ), wouldn’t that be a bit suspicious?

Definitivamente sí, porque está claro que va a esos sitios a propósito para controlarte.

He is a jealous guy and doesn’t trust you, so he has to see with his own eyes that you aren’t doing anything bad.

This is so frustrating and you shouldn’t have to live this way, with the constant feeling that someone is keeping track of every move that you make. If he doesn’t get that he is crossing the line, leave him.

7. Hará que todo gire en torno al poder

If something makes your boyfriend jealous , he won’t talk to you about it and instead, he will start a power war.

He is so insecure and frustrated that he is deliberately going to destroy your sense of self-worth so he can win the power game and ‘restore’ order. All of a sudden, he will pout and create a fight out of every little thing .

Nothing special has to happen but he may just forbid you to do some things, such as having social media profiles (because he imagines that you flirt with other guys there or that you’ve been using it to stalk your ex boyfriend ) or ask you to give him your phone, just so he could see who you’ve been texting .

It is not that these things really bother him—he only wants to show you who is in charge and who has the control in a relationship.

Además, también quiere demostrarse a sí mismo que ocupa el primer lugar en tu vida y que le quieres lo suficiente como para hacer lo que él te diga.

Be honest—how many times has the sentence, “He isn’t jealous for me—he is jealous of me,” crossed your mind? How many times have you noticed that your partner is actually threatened by your strength and seen that he is doing everything he can to destroy it, so he could feel better about himself?

These are not men, these are boys who haven’t got a clue what life (and especially love) is.

Intenta evitar este tipo de hombres porque son maníacos en potencia y fanáticos del control que sólo necesitan un detonante para volverse locos y hacerte la vida imposible.

8. Quiere terminar las cosas entre ustedes dos

This doesn’t happen a lot but when it happens, you can’t recognize it as a sign of jealousy, as it’s so subtle that it disguises itself as something else. However, if you dig into the matter more deeply, you’ll see things more clearly and get what is going on.

Si quiere poner fin a la relación de repente sin motivo, debe ser algo que le avergüenza admitir.

Todos sabemos cuánto valoran los hombres la fuerza y evitan mostrar sus sentimientos en público, sobre todo el hecho de que son tan vulnerables como todos nosotros.

Well, he is possibly jealous of another man in your life because he is insecure and feels like he doesn’t deserve you.

That’s why he’ll break it off before he falls for you even harder and before you end up haciéndole daño.

9. Coquetea con otras mujeres

¿Intenta ponerme celosa? ¿Cuáles son las señales de que está intentando ponerme celosa?

How many times have you asked yourself these questions, wondering whether you’re just imagining things or you’re really seeing the signs he is trying to make you jealous ? If you’re trying to get an answer to the question, ” Why is he trying to make me jealous?”, psychology can give it to you—he is doing it to rebuild his broken ego.

No suele ser así, al menos no delante de ti, pero últimamente lo hace cada vez más.

Sigues notando banderas rojas en todas sus redes sociales, lo sorprendes enviando mensajes de texto e incluso lo ves mirando a otras chicas.

Este comportamiento contradice su personalidad y su forma de actuar habitual.

You have no other choice than to think that something is wrong but he keeps his mouth shut and doesn’t want to tell you anything.

Tal vez piense que están interesados en otra persona, así que intenta vengarse de ti flirteando con otras chicas.

Puedes ver mientras lo hace que en realidad no está tan interesado en ellas como en que puedas verle hablando con otras mujeres.

10. He sulks when you’re out

Even when the two of you go out, he may show tell tale signs of jealousy but he’ll try to hide them so his insecurity does not get too obvious.

For example, if you want to go out and he doesn’t feel like it, he will go anyway because he doesn’t want to let you go alone.

And once you go out, he’ll be in a bad mood and he’ll act like a baby.

He doesn’t want to do this, he doesn’t want to do that, he doesn’t want to go there… every little thing will bother him.

However, he’ll try to hide it because he doesn’t want to tell you directly that he only went out because he didn’t want to let you out of his sight.

The next step in ruining your night out by getting you home where it’s safe is sulking, which is a trick you shouldn’t fall for.

He is only doing this to get you home because he is worried that something or someone might be more interesting or fun than he is and he can’t take that.

Los celos son realmente una putada y pueden ser extremadamente peligrosos si cruzan la línea del comportamiento aceptable.

Even if you love that person so much, don’t tolerate being emotionally abused just because he is insecure and can’t handle it so he projects it onto you.

After all, jealousy and trust don’t go together. It’s only one or the other.

Donde hay celos, no hay confianza. Donde no hay confianza, no hay relación real .

It’s okay when it happens sometimes and in small amounts and it’s even cute but if it becomes a normal thing in your relationship, then you have a problem and you have to fix it, either by talking or by leaving.