5 frases de ruptura brutalmente sinceras para dejarle para siempre

Sometimes when you’re eager romper con someone, the lines are so blurred that you just don’t know if he REALLY got the picture.

De alguna manera siempre acaba gravitando hacia ti.

You may not want to break up in the first place, but you’re mature enough to know that is simply isn’t working any longer.

Sabes en tu corazón que debes poner fin a esto por el bien de tu cordura.

You’re not good for each other anymore.

You’re both clinging to a relationship that’s no longer there, but you’re desperately trying to recreate it into what it used to be.

Only, it’s not working and you’re suffering like hell.

There’s still lots of love there. You still want to see his face each morning.

But it’s become toxic and you can’t do this to yourself anymore.

So how do you break up with the guy you don’t really want to break up with?

How do you convince him that it’s over for GOOD this time and not sound like you’re trying to convince yourself of that?

It’s hard. Breaking up really does take its toll on you.

But sometimes, you just have to put on your grown-up pants and do the thing you’re dreading because you know it’s the best thing in the long run.

In a few weeks, you’ll be halfway on your healing path.

You’ll be able to look back at this moment and be grateful that you had the courage to leave the man who was causing you so much hurt, even though you todavía lo amaba.

He aquí 5 ejemplos brutalmente honestos líneas de ruptura que no dejará nada al azar.

He will finally understand that you are serious about this and he’ll be on his way.

(And with time, I promise it’s going to be okay for you too.)

1. “I don’t like the person I’ve become when I’m with you.”

This one goes straight to the gut. It’s raw, honest, and it paints a crystal clear picture.

Por mucho que le sigas deseando, este amor te ha convertido en alguien a quien ya no reconoces.

And you don’t like it.

You don’t know how it got to this point and you’re so saddened that it’s come this far, but in order to be that girl you used to be, you need to distance yourself from him.

Don’t be afraid to be brutally honest.

Soon, it’ll end up being your saving grace.

2. “I am doing what I know in my heart is right for me.”

This is it. And don’t sway from this.

Don’t let him convince you that HE is the one who’s adecuado para usted.

Eso sólo lo decides tú.

And if you feel it in your bones that this is not good for you anymore, you’ve got your right to break it off.

It doesn’t mean he’s a bad person.

It doesn’t mean he seeks to do you harm.

Simplemente significa que la unidad de vosotros dos como pareja romántica ya no os sirve de nada.

You desperately wish it would, but you don’t want to lie to yourself or to him for one second longer.

It’s over and you’re out.

3. “I’m begging you – don’t call me anymore, we’re done.”

Romper siempre es un asco porque sabes que una noche de borrachera bastará para que a tu pareja le parezca apropiado llamarte a las 2 de la mañana y rogarte que vuelvas con él.

Sabes que es muy probable que esto ocurra, y probablemente ya ha ocurrido en el pasado.

And by saying this, you are letting him know that you’re not okay with that.

You don’t want to be the bitch who breaks his drunken heart again for a second time over the phone.

Te haría tanto daño a ti como a él.

Y necesitas que no te ponga en esa situación nunca más.

4. “I am not in love with you anymore.”

You don’t want to hurt him, it’s the last thing on your mind.

Pero NECESITAS que sepa que esta vez lo dices en serio.

Even if there are some residual feelings there, it’s better to just rip off the band aid and make it clear.

He’ll be hurt and you’ll be suffering in silence, but this is what needs to happen for him to not make this any harder than it has to be.

Necesitas que esta relación termine porque la toxicidad de la misma se ha vuelto demasiado de manejar.

El amor simplemente no es suficiente y te has dado cuenta dolorosamente de ello con él.

5. “I don’t see a future with you by my side.”

Perhaps you’re just on opposite paths? Perhaps your hopes and dreams don’t collide?

And as much as you would love to be compatible with him, you’re just not.

Él quiere centrarse en el trabajo y viajar al extranjero y tú quieres seguir cerca de tu familia y ser mamá en un futuro no muy lejano.

Tú quieres compaginar el trabajo con la paternidad y él está muy convencido de que su mujer debe ser ama de casa.

Todas estas son cuestiones realmente serias que hay que abordar a tiempo.

You can’t just bury them and hope they never resurface.

They will, and it will suck. Show him that you’re only trying to save you both from future pain.

Your ideas for what awaits are completely different and it’s simply not possible to make it work anymore.