7 cosas con las que casi todas las mujeres pueden identificarse

¿Alguna vez le han roto el corazón? Si es así, sabrá que el desamor es uno de los sentimientos más devastadores que se pueden experimentar.

Y cuando ocurre, todo el mundo te dice que la tristeza y el dolor iniciales desaparecen con el tiempo. Y tienen razón.

Pero lo que nadie te dice es que el corazón hecho pedazos siempre deja cicatrices emocionales inborrables en todo tu ser. Nadie te dice que cada uno de tus desamores te cambia para siempre.

Even though every emotionally wounded woman deals with her pain differently, there are some things you’ll definitely relate to if you’ve ever had your heart broken and here are 7 of them.

1. You’ve lost faith in love

If you’ve been hurt too many times in the past, it is natural for you to stop believing in true love and for you to think it is nothing but a fairy tale.

You’ve simply lost all hope that someday you’ll meet a guy who will show you that no todos los hombres son iguales.

After all those heartbreaks, you’ve started thinking about love as something with an expiration date. You’ve lost hope that someday, you’ll find a man with whom you’ll want to spend the rest of your life and that you’ll find a man who will love you, no matter what.

2. Te niegas a llegar a un acuerdo

Some might think that all of the emotional pain you’ve been through has made you become too picky when it comes to men but the truth is that you just refuse to settle.

You don’t plan on wasting any more years of your life on guys who clearly don’t deserve you or on someone whom you don’t see yourself with.

Ahora sabes lo que quieres y nunca te conformarás con menos.

3. Abrazó su vida de soltero

Another thing that your heartbreaks havebrought you is the ability to completely embrace your single life. It’s not that you’ve become selfish—you’ve just learned to put yourself first and to enjoy every moment of your one-on-one time.

You learned that you are the only one who can make yourself happy and that you don’t need a man to do so. So, you’ve decided to permanecer soltera hasta que aparezca el hombre adecuado.

4. You don’t let people in

When you’ve had your heart broken in the past, it is natural that you lose trust in people.

Es natural que sientas la necesidad de proteger tu corazón y la única forma de hacerlo es ponerte en guardia y construir gruesos y altos muros emocionales a tu alrededor.

After everything you’ve been through, you assume that everyone who enters your life only has the intention of hurting you. So, you’ve become emotionally unavailable and you refuse to give people the chance to break your heart all over again.

5. Sólo confías en ti mismo

One of the things that hurts the most about every heartbreak is the fact that the person you loved the most betrayed you. And this is something you don’t want to go through ever again.

Por eso has decidido inconscientemente no esperar que nadie te cubra las espaldas. You’ve become self-sufficient and you’ve realized you are the only person you can rely on because this is the only way to save yourself from other disappointments.

6. La gente te ha llamado cínico

Have you ever heard comments about yourself saying that you’ve become too cynical, especially when it comes to love?

Well, if you have, this happened due to your heartbreaks and because you can’t force yourself to believe that others are in love.

It is simple—you’ve experienced a lot of emotional pain and one of the ways to deal with it was through cynical and sarcastic behavior and comments about your own and other people’s life and love situations.

El cinismo se ha convertido en tu mecanismo de defensa.

7. You’ve become numb

Cuando pasas por un infierno emocional, aprendes a vivir con la tristeza y se convierte en parte de ti. Llevas este dolor a todas partes y, con el tiempo, te acostumbras a él.

Con el tiempo, dejas de ser consciente de lo que sientes y te insensibilizas. Cuando estás roto, ya casi nada puede afectarte.

Aprendes a ignorar todos tus sentimientos, incluidos la tristeza y la felicidad, porque se ha convertido en la única forma que tienes de lidiar con todo el dolor que, de otro modo, te consumiría.