13 razones por las que nunca deberías enviar desnudos, por mucho que él insista

Modern media has made it easy for guys to get what they want, and they certainly don’t give a fuck about the consequences. All they want is to see your cuerpo caliente and to have enough material to “contemplate”.

Enviar selfies desnudos es, sin duda, cada vez más popular, pero en realidad no es algo con lo que la mayoría de nosotros nos sintamos realmente cómodos.

Al fin y al cabo, eres tú quien debe pensar racionalmente y quien debe tomar una decisión sensata antes de subir y enviar tu foto desnuda.

Just because someone else is doing it, or because your boyfriend or some random guy is asking you to do it, doesn’t mean you should.

As a matter of fact, there are many reasons why you actually shouldn’t do it, and here are some of them!

1. Te preocupas por tu futuro

Let’s say that you really care about your future and that someday you expect to be a respected and important person in the company in which you might be working.

If your nudes somehow become public, it is really hard to erase them from other people’s minds, so your future might turn into a big battle of regret and moving on.

2. It’s about respect

If you don’t feel comfortable doing it, but he is insisting on you doing so, it means he doesn’t respect you.

Y seguro que te mereces que te aprecien y te respeten, right? So, why would you go out of your way to do something that you don’t really want to do in the first place?

Why blindly follow trends when you yourself know and can choose what’s best for you?

3. Lo más probable es que rompan

Let’s say that you’ve sent a couple of nudes to your boyfriend, and now you’re about to break up.

Supongo que lo primero que te vendría a la cabeza es la colección de tus desnudos en su teléfono y cómo deshacerte de ella.

Bueno, sólo podrías deshacerte de ellos si le robaras el teléfono, lo cual no es realmente razonable ni factible, ¿o sí?

4. You’re worth the wait

Remember that you’re worth the wait (especially if you’re having doubts about doing it).

Any guy who gives you ultimatums regarding this is a douchebag, and you shouldn’t waste your time on him.

You’re worthy of being with someone who will appreciate your choices and who will not have problems waiting to see your body in person instead of on a selfie.

5. Uno nunca es suficiente

Si decides enviar un selfie desnudo, recuerda que uno nunca será suficiente.

Querrá que lo hagas con diferentes atuendos, diferentes poses y demás.

Y también podría chantajearte fácilmente con tus fotos ya enviadas si decides no hacer lo que te pide (hmm).

(But, let’s assume that he’s not a psycho.)

6. You don’t want to

If you don’t want to do it, then you shouldn’t force yourself to believe that you should do it.

Tu cuerpo es tuyo y nadie tiene derecho a decirte lo que debes hacer con él.

Así que, si tu instinto te dice que no lo hagas, debes creerlo, y sólo debes escucharte a ti misma y no lo que quiera un cachondo.

7. You probably aren’t the only one he’s asking

Sí. Lo más probable es que un chico que te ha pedido que le envíes desnudos también haya hecho lo mismo con muchas otras chicas.

He’s probably collecting them like Pokemon cards to exchange with his friends and close people.

One thing is for sure—you can never trust people, especially strangers.

Véase también: 7 señales claras de que no puedes confiar en él 

8. Podría enseñárselas a sus amigos

Regardless whether he’s your boyfriend or someone you just met, you can never trust him that he will keep those pics only for himself and himself only.

And no matter if he’s sworn never to show them to anybody, you still cannot be one hundred percent sure that he will stay true to his promise.

9. Podría perder su teléfono

¡Oh, no! Incluso las personas más responsables pueden perder en algún momento su teléfono, o peor aún, alguien podría robárselo.

And you certainly don’t want your naked ass to be the first thing they see or to put your nudes on the Internet and ruin your life forever.

10. Internet es un lugar peligroso

Sí. Si de alguna manera tus desnudos acaban en Internet, es sólo cuestión de tiempo que alguien de tu gente cercana, amigos o familiares los vea.

Y esto es probablemente lo último de lo que hay que preocuparse.

The Internet is really a dangerous place where people can easily find your identity and even threaten to publish your nudes if you don’t do something they want you to do.

11. Podrías enviarlos accidentalmente a la persona equivocada

 

¿Cuántas veces has enviado accidentalmente tu mensaje a la persona equivocada? Eso pensaba yo.

And nothing will change when sending your nudes, so they could easily end up being sent to the wrong person—,your mother, father, brother or someone else you don’t really want to share them with.

12. If you don’t get an immediate response, you’ll freak out

Is there anything more annoying than waiting for someone’s response (especially when you share such sensitive content with them)?

So, if you don’t get una respuesta inmediata once you’ve send your nude, chances are you’ll freak out because you will start overthinking about his true intentions and lose your nerve.

But, if you don’t give a shit about it, then go for it!

13. La gente podría mirar tu teléfono

La gente es curiosa y, cuando le enseñas una foto tuya, enseguida quiere ver todas las demás.

Pretty much similar to the saying: “Give them a finger and they’ll take an arm.”

And once they see your nudes, you certainly can’t say that these pics appeared out of nowhere.

But, once again, if you really don’t give a fuck about any of this, then you go for it and good luck!