Estas son 6 cosas que deberías saber antes de convertirte en su novio

Has conocido a una chica. Y supones que es igual que todas las demás que has conocido en tu vida. Pero créeme, estás más que equivocado.

Esta chica es única en su especie y esto es algo que debes tener en cuenta antes de pensar en convertirte en su novio.

1. She’s been through a lot

Lo primero que tienes que saber antes de pensar en salir con esta chica es que she’s been through a lot en su pasado. No te lo digo para asustarte, pero es algo que debes saber antes de iniciar una relación con ella.

Men in her past betrayed her, hurt her feelings and did everything in their power to cause her pain. She’s been used and taken advantage of more times than she can count.

A esta chica siempre la dieron por sentada y nunca la apreciaron lo suficiente. Le rompieron el corazón más de una vez y eso es algo con lo que tendrás que lidiar si quieres ser su novio.

No digo que tengas que pagar por todo lo que estos tipos le hacían, solo te digo que no seas igual que los demás.

2. Es insegura

All of the things that she’s been through changed the essence of who she is and made her a different person. All of these men made her wonder why she wasn’t enough and tried to convince her that everything that was wrong in their relationship was exclusively her fault.

They made her question all of her values and beliefs and shook her confidence. Instead of boosting her self-esteem, all of these guys manipulated her into thinking she wasn’t worthy enough and fed her insecurities because that made her a better victim for their abuse.

Esto le hizo cuestionarse no sólo su valía, sino también las intenciones de todos los que se acercaban a ella. Todo esto le causó grandes problemas de confianza y le hizo pensar mal de sí misma.

3. But it doesn’t mean she is weak

But all of this didn’t make her weak. These men broke her heart but they didn’t manage to break her and that is her biggest success. Although she doesn’t know it, everything that she’s been through actually made her stronger than she ever was.

She survived some things she thought she could never overcome. And although all of the men in her life changed her, they didn’t kill her spirit. Instead, she saw how powerful and strong she really is and she realized that there doesn’t exist anyone who could destroy her completely.

Now, she is ready to face all of life’s difficulties stronger than ever. That means that you shouldn’t even try to put her down or to abuse her in any way because trust me, that is something she won’t put up with.

4. She doesn’t ask for much

Another thing you need to know about this woman before you become her boyfriend is that she doesn’t ask for much. She doesn’t need anything material and she won’t expect expensive gifts and fancy dinners.

She won’t be possessive and will never try to control you nor will she try to invade your personal space or integrity. Instead, the only things she will ask for are your love and attention and she is not ready to settle for less than that.

And if you think that this is something you can’t give to her, maybe it’s time to walk away this instant.

5. Necesita paciencia

But just because she doesn’t ask for much, it doesn’t mean that you’ll have it easy with her. As you already know, she’s been through a lot and she lost trust in the people around her.

It means that you’ll have to be extremely patient to tear down the thick and high walls she’s been building for years. I won’t lie to you—it will take you a lot of energy, time and effort to get to this girl.

Y estoy aquí para decirles que será difícil de manejar y desafiante de tratar. Pero eso es lo que la distingue de todas las demás chicas y lo que la hace especial y única.

6. Ella te dará toda su

After everything you’ve found out, you probably think that this girl is too much for you to handle and that she is difícil de amar. Y no estoy aquí para tratar de demostrar que estás equivocado.

Yes, you will need to invest a lot of your time, energy and patience if you want to be with this girl. But trust me on one thing—she will definitely be worthy of everything.

If you treat her right, this girl will give you all of her. If you love and respect her enough, you will get even more in return. This woman will love you unconditionally, and you’ll see that she is more than worthy.