Being accepted for who we are, understood (even when we say something utterly stupid), and appreciated no matter what are basic human needs. They are things we all crave, no matter how confident and badass we are (or pretend to be)! We just need someone who sees all of our flaws and loves us for us –…
By being a good listener you create a safe place for him to open up to you and you learn how to trust each other and be each other’s best friend, which is incredibly important for your relationship to grow. When you keep things to yourself and communicate mostly via text messages, you create a…
If I’ve learned anything during my humble years and romantic endeavours, it’s this: Communication is the key to every healthy relationship (and basically to a healthy everything). When there is no communication, there is no honesty, there is no sharing the important parts of your life with your guy, and therefore, there is no connection. And of…
Let’s face it—we all swear sometimes and we all use inappropriate words from time to time. But if you don’t want to chase a guy away immediately, it is a good idea to be careful about your vocabulary, especially on the first date, because you don’t want to appear as rude.
Your social network profiles is another thing which most guys will judge you on, especially if the two of you are going out on a blind date. Before any guy goes out with you, it is probable that he will lurk through your profiles. He’ll try to make a conclusion about if you are obsessed with…
We all live busy lives and we all need to have enough respect for our time and other people’s time. It means that being late is definitely one of the things you shouldn’t do on the first date, or on any other. You may think that it will make you more interesting but trust me—it…
If you spend the entire date staring at your phone, the truth is that you will chase most guys away. It is one thing if you need to pick up an urgent phone call but it is something completely the opposite if you spend the entire night texting or posting status updates or photos of…
Otra cosa por la que muchos chicos te juzgarán es por cómo te comportas en un restaurante, especialmente con el personal. Si eres maleducada con los camareros o te crees por encima de ellos, te desanimarás.
One of the things guys will judge you on immediately is the way you talk. Do you interrupt him? Are you interested in what he has to say? Are you being too loud or too quiet? These are all the things most guys take into consideration, usually not being aware of it.
So, most guys probably won’t notice the brand of your clothing or something like that but they will definitely notice if you are over- or underdressed for an occasion. I know you want to leave a good impression but that definitely doesn’t mean you need to show him everything you’ve got to offer on the…