No necesita un héroe. Sólo necesita a alguien que la quiera.

Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don’t have castles and fairies.

That because we’re not princesses.

We are strong girls who don’t need to be saved from anything. We are used to fighting for everything we want in life. And it’s okay.

We never even asked to be saved. We like who we are and that’s not going to change. We don’t need a prince who’s going to save us.

We don’t need a hero. We are our own heroes. We just need to be loved.

Ser una mujer alfa who has everything under control is not that easy. It’s actually pretty exhausting. We need to rest from time to time.

Without refueling, we couldn’t function this well. But even when we’re resting, our brains can’t stop working.

We constantly think of many things, such as reflecting on what we did in life or thinking about what to expect from it next. While imagining our future, it’s really hard to imagine someone next to us.

For some of us, it’s even impossible. A lot of guys we meet are intimidated by our personalities.

Simplemente quieren ser héroes para sus novias. Quieren sentir que son la solución a todos sus problemas.

Bueno, siento decírtelo, pero la verdad es que lo único que necesitamos es amor. You see that we’re not asking for much.

Sólo necesitamos un buen hombro sobre el que llorar cuando nos sentimos abrumados por todo. Necesitamos a alguien que nos coja de la mano y nos lleve a comer pizza.

We need guys who are happy to have us in their lives. We just want to be looked at like we’re masterpieces.

Let’s be real—that’s every girl’s dream.

Truth to be told, we are really busy. We work on ourselves all the time, and we won’t stop until we become what we truly want to be.

Algunos queremos ser médicos, otros quizá abrir una floristería y otros simplemente intentan ser más felices en la vida.

It doesn’t matter what the goal is. If you’re not ready to love your girlfriend and hold her hand through everything she’s planning on doing, then you should take a step back.

She’s ready to give you the support she expects from you. Necesita que seas un hombre de verdad con el que pueda contar.

She needs someone who’s going to laugh with her, cry with her, and take her places she’s never been to.

Necesita sentir esa chispa de amor de vez en cuando. Necesita sentirse viva.

Even strong women are sometimes weak. Sometimes they get overwhelmed with everything and then forget why are they doing what they’re doing.

Cuando tu novia llegue a este punto, debes saber cómo actuar. Debes abrazarla y decirle que todo va a ir bien.

That’s all she needs. Is she asking for too much? I don’t think so. But sometimes it’s hard for guys to give that to their girlfriends.

All these women are asking for is to be loved, but their men would rather be their heroes and make some great gestures without any meaning—not to mention that most of the guys would be the happiest if they got to play with girls’ feelings.

No hay mujer en este mundo que aceptaría este tipo de relación.

La conclusión es que if you’re not an macho alfano tienes nada que hacer con una mujer alfa. Si no eres tu propio héroe, como lo es ella, entonces puedes olvidarte de ella.

She will not settle for anything less than what she deserves. She’s not going to be your mum; she can’t take care of you like that.

She will be your lover and your best friend only if you’re willing to be hers.

This combination will guarantee you a happy relationship. If she thinks you’re not good enough for her, then you should respect her decision.

Pero, si estás listo para amarla como ella necesita ser amada, entonces prepárate para pasar el mejor momento de tu vida con ella.

ELLA NO NECESITA UN HÉROE. SÓLO NECESITA A ALGUIEN QUE LA QUIERA.

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