Las únicas 5 veces que es excusable dejar a alguien que te quiere de verdad

No hay nada más difícil que decidir si la persona a la que una vez amaste sigue siendo la persona adecuada para ti.

Saying goodbye is a painful emotional break, but love sometimes makes us blind and we can’t see the person for who he or she really is.

Las relaciones son difíciles de mantener, y ver sólo el lado bueno e ignorar las cosas que te inquietan sólo te llevará a la confusión y te hará sentir desgraciado.

Many times, we leave a relationship because we don’t feel loved anymore, we feel no affection from our partner, or one of you have been unfaithful.

Pero si tu pareja sigue realmente enamorada de ti y quiere continuar, sólo hay un puñado de excusas para dejar a esa persona y aquí tienes 5 de ellas:

Cuando ha perdido la confianza en su pareja

Many times this has been said, but it is still not enough—Trust is the foundation upon which all relationships are built. Si tienes problemas para confiar en la gente en general, then you’re doing something wrong.

If you don’t trust your partner because of some repeated things in the past, then it’s not likely that you’ll restore that trust.

Sin una pareja de confianza, una relación no vale nada y, por mucho que te quiera, tienes que seguir adelante.

Tu pareja no te trata bien

Being in love with you doesn’t mean that he is going to tratarte como te mereces. Maybe he doesn’t realize that and you should talk about it.

Talk it out and make sure you’re not being taken for granted. Many times people do exactly that and don’t value and respect the things they have.

Si incluso después de hablar de ello tu pareja se niega a tratarte con mucho respeto, a tratarte como te mereces, entonces la elección es bastante fácil de tomar.

Su pareja le ha engañado

Let’s face the truth—if your partner ever cheated on you and you gave him/her a second chance, you will most likely never truly move forward and forget what was done.

If you can’t live with that, no one would blame you for leaving your partner.

The partner doesn’t want to change

If you’re reading this article, then there is a high chance that you’re currently on the verge of breaking up with your partner. You’re not sure about leaving the person that clearly loves you, and you don’t really know how.

Piensa cuáles son los problemas. Preséntaselos a tu compañero e intenta resolverlos.

Si se niega a aceptar tus críticas, sugerencias y las cosas que te molestan, entonces puedes dejar esa relación sin sentimiento de culpa. Al menos sabrás que lo has intentado.

Sabes que nunca podrás devolver el amor

Your partner might love you with all of his heart but you know that you can’t be the person your partner deserves to be with. You will never be the one he always dreamed to be with and loved by.

People evolve and change all the time, and we’ve all witnessed cases in which people learned how to love someone, but you just know that will never happen.

A relationship needs to be carried out by both sides equally, and if it can’t—no matter how hard and painful it is—let it go.