7 razones por las que amar a una chica leal es la mejor decisión que jamás tomarás

Todos sabemos que la lealtad es importante, y muy posiblemente la cualidad más importante en una relación. Pero no todo el mundo es leal y no todo el mundo sabe lo que significa ser leal. Hay muchas relaciones en las que la pareja nunca fue técnicamente infiel, pero aun así la hizo sentir que no valía nada y que no era lo suficientemente buena.

Por eso, amar a una chica leal será la decisión de tu vida, porque ella sabe que ser leal significa mucho más que ser fiel.

Siempre te cubrirá las espaldas

Lo que pasa con las chicas leales es que saben que la lealtad significa algo más que no acostarse con nadie. Saben cómo duele ser la segunda opción, cómo duele estar enamorado de alguien que sólo se preocupa de sí mismo. Y nunca te dejará pasar por lo mismo.

Siempre que alguien hable mal de ti, ella estará ahí para ponerlo en su sitio. Siempre te cubrirá las espaldas, pase lo que pase. Y tener a alguien que sabes que te protegerá a ti y a tu nombre porque te quiere y no porque necesite algo de ti es el mejor regalo que el amor puede hacerte.

She will never make you her ‘almost’

Today, when every other relationship ends up being unlabeled or even labeled as ‘almost’, knowing that something like that cannot happen to you is a huge relief. She will never give you anything half-assed, because that’s just not who she is.

Cuando ama, ama de todo corazón, y cuando da su confianza a alguien, la da hasta el final. Cuando deja entrar a alguien, se asegura de que esté sano y salvo. Se asegura de que haya una sonrisa en su cara y paz en su mente. Y hará lo mismo por ti.

Guardará tus secretos

Even when people love us and swear their love to us, it’s hard to have trust in them. They can easily reveal our secrets just to make jokes or to keep the laughter going in the group. But you don’t ever have to worry about it with her.

She will keep them safe like they are her own and no matter how much of a rough patch you hit, she won’t bad-mouth you to her friends. You see, she knows why la lealtad es importante and to her it means keeping your relationship safe and healthy. It means that whatever shit you’re going through, you are going through it together. Not you two and a bunch of her friends.

Nunca te hará dudar de sus sentimientos o compromiso

Loyal people have real relationships and deeper communication with their friends and partners. And the science behind it is pretty simple—because of their loyalty and commitment, they hold nothing back. Even if the truth hurts, they will still share it with you, because that’s the right thing to do and that’s what the people they love deserve.

She will never let you go to bed wondering if you did something wrong or if she no longer loves you. She will never play games with you, because she knows that emotions are not there to be played with. She knows they are there to be cherished, taken care of and protected. And that’s exactly what she will do for you and with you. She will take the love you two have and guard it with her own life. Even if it means losing you to keep you safe, she will do it.

Ella siempre estará ahí para ti

Being loyal is so much more than just not going around fucking other people. Being loyal is much more than having eyes for just one person. It’s about being there for that person, it’s about knowing when to put your life on hold to help them with theirs. And it’s also about knowing when it’s time to let go.

Desvivirse por ayudarte en algo, renunciar a sus sueños para hacer realidad los tuyos, esas son las cosas que siempre hará por ti, sin que se lo pidas. Sin que le digas que lo necesitas. Pero no te equivoques, te dejará tirado en cuanto juegues con su confianza. Te echará de su vida en el momento en que ya no merezcas estar en ella.

Te motivará para que des lo mejor de ti y te levantará en tus peores momentos.

Being the best version of yourself seems so easy with her. It almost comes as easy as breathing, and that’s the best part about her. She knows how important your career and dreams are and she will never make you choose between them and her. Instead, she will be there to push you forward.

But even when you don’t succeed, she will still be there to pick you up and dust you off. She will be there to share the silence with you and listen to you when you are ready to talk about it. She will be there to share her strength and courage with you, the same as she shares her fears and weaknesses.

Nunca tendrás que dudar de su lealtad hacia ti.

Para ella, engañar no es una opción. Nunca lo fue y nunca lo será. Conoce demasiado bien el dolor de la decepción, el dolor de estar roto and cheated on. She knows that’s a hell on it own and she will never put you through it.

When she decides to love someone, there is no one else for her. When she chooses you, that will be the choice she will happily make every single day, as long as you are worthy of her making it. And even when you no longer are, she will still do it, because that’s loyalty to her. Being there for you when you need her the most, even if you don’t deserve it.