10 señales de que estás en una relación con una mujer madura

If you’re a man who has had a lot of different women in relationships, because you’ve chased them, or if you’ve been in relationships with women who are anything but ordinary, you know that they were also drama queens or those rebellious kinds of girls.

You’ve probably now encountered a woman who is quite unusual, right? She needs no drama in her life and she is always there for you.

Everything feels so natural with her and you don’t know what’s happening because you’ve never seen a woman like her ever before.

Existe la posibilidad de que tú, amigo mío, estés por fin en una relación con una mujer madura y completa.

They are unique and a mature woman cannot compare to any other—she is in a league of her own.

Si estás buscando sentar la cabeza o simplemente empezar una relación con ella, verás que aporta un conjunto de experiencias totalmente nuevas y que una relación con ella no se parecerá a ninguna otra.

1. Entiende

She’s empathetic and she has the right amount of understanding for everything. If you’ve had a bad day, she will do anything to make you feel better.

Intentará hablarte de todo lo que te ha estado molestando y por fin te sentirás seguro siendo vulnerable a su lado.

2. She isn’t afraid to speak her mind

A mature woman isn’t afraid to say anything that is on her mind because she believes in honesty and likes to make everything clear.

She knows that there is no need for sugar-coating things and that you deserve the truth—just like she does.

If you’re having an argument, she will most probably turn it into a conversation and you two will talk through whatever it is you were fighting about. She will make it work for both of you.

3. She’s loyal

There is no need to say this twice: She won’t cheat on you—ever. She’s much better than that.

4. Acabas teniendo conversaciones profundas

Si empiezas a hablar de tu día, probablemente encontrará alguna lección extraña en él y te sorprenderás de lo asombroso que funciona su cerebro.

She doesn’t want to have usual, everyday conversations with you; she wants to find out what is hiding in the deepest corners of your mind.

5. Desprecia el drama

No hay necesidad de dramatizar ni de quejarse, y ella lo sabe. Sabe que gritarte, chillarte o tirarte los trastos a la cabeza no es productivo.

That’s just destructive for your relationship. If you two ever have a problem, chances are she will solve it in a kind but still decisive way.

Sabe lo que quiere, pero también velará por tus necesidades.

6. She’s independent

Although she loves to spend time with you, she doesn’t need you to text her 24/7 or to always be around her.

She knows quite well how to handle things on her own, without anyone’s help.

You must know—she doesn’t need you in her life, she wants you there.

So she won’t ask you to help her out with every little thing or to constantly hang out with her, because there is no need for that.

Ambos necesitan su tiempo a solas.

7. She can’t be fooled twice

Una mujer madura de verdad es fuerte e independiente. Si la engañas una vez, puede que te deje escapar, pero hazlo una segunda vez y lo siguiente que sabrás es que estará haciendo las maletas y marchándose.

She doesn’t need someone who can’t appreciate and respect her.

8. Trabaja en sí misma

A mature woman knows that she’s not perfect but that doesn’t give her insecurities, but rather a canvas to work on.

Siempre trabajará en sí misma cuando se trate de su cuerpo, mente y alma.

She is never bored because she always knows that there is something that she would like to ‘upgrade’ on herself. She might read books, work out or something in-between.

9. Ama profundamente

You won’t have it easy with obtaining and keeping a mature woman because she doesn’t settle for anything less than she deserves.

That’s why when she decides to love you and give herself to you, you are a lucky man.

She will love you genuinely and deeply, with the kind of love that no one has ever seen because it’s on a whole new level.

She isn’t afraid that you will hurt her, because she knows that she chose right. And you better not disappoint her.

10. Da consejos increíbles

She will help you to not make any stupid decisions. She’s been through a lot in her life and she doesn’t want anyone to endure any pain, so she will help you find the right way to solve things without anyone getting hurt in the process.