7 maneras de vengarte de tu ex

Cuando te hieren, lo primero que pasa es que te cabreas. Lo romperías como una ramita si pudieras.

You can’t comprehend why things had to happen the way they did.

¿Por qué tuvo que romperte el corazón y pisotearlo, y luego dejarlo a un lado de la carretera?

No tienes ni idea de qué te ha golpeado y por qué te sientes como te sientes. Con toda esa rabia eres incapaz de ver que que te dejen es algo bueno.

You don’t understand that he gave you another oportunidad de encontrar el amor verdaderoque deshacerte de él es lo mejor que te podía haber pasado.

So you ache for revenge—oh that sweet, sweet revenge.

I’m not talking about keying his car or stalking him because that is disturbing really.

Revenge is good, but only when that revenge doesn’t take you down to his level or mess with your head.

Let’s say that I’m talking about healthy revenge, the kind that makes you feel better by doing nothing harmful to him directly.

Echa un vistazo a algunas de las formas en que puedes vengarte de él, pero tomando el camino más fácil, dejando tu orgullo y tu ego intactos:

Sigue adelante con tu vida

Tienes que olvidarle y seguir adelante con tu vida. Da pasos valientes hacia tu futuro y asegúrate de que él lo sepa.

Don’t give him the satisfaction to see that you’re hurting because he left you. Don’t give him a reason to think that he was the most important thing in your life, even if he was.

He doesn’t deserve that because he left you, with sin cierre. Actuaba como un niño y no como un hombre.

La mejor venganza que puedes tener es asegurarte de que sigues adelante y de que lo estás haciendo bien, ¡y él lo sabe!

El karma obra milagros

You practically don’t have to do anything. Let go of the mind games and cunning plans because they won’t do you any good.

They will only make you feel satisfied for a moment, but when you cool off, you’ll become bitter and sad once again.

Let karma do her thing. If he deserves to be punished, he will be and you don’t have to do anything about it.

You know what they say: ‘What goes around, comes back around’. He will get his, just wait and see.

It’s time for a rockin’ figure

Entrena. Haz ejercicio siempre que tengas tiempo.

Not only is it good for your health, but it’s the best way to blow off steam and induce that feeling of relaxation like nothing can touch you.

On the plus side, you’ll get your body into perfect shape and you won’t have to do anything from then on.

At the slightest glimpse of you and your stunning figure, he’ll be sorry he ever left you, but by then, it’ll be too late.

Don’t say anything at all

I know that you want to scream at him and that you’re frustrated, but believe me, sometimes it’s just best to say nothing and take the high road.

Simplemente, ignóralo. Si te ha engañado, probablemente sea un narcisista y no hay nada que los narcisistas odien más que ser ignorados.

You’ll hit the bullseye if you give him the silent treatment.

En lugar de venganza, trae de vuelta a tu antiguo yo

En lugar de vengarte, centra tu energía en curarte y mejorar.

Because if you focus on him and ways to get revenge, you won’t have enough energy left to get yourself back on your own two feet.

Olvídate de él y céntrate en ti, en mejorar, en curar tu corazón roto y en recuperar tu autoestima.

It is in our nature to want to get even and not everyone can resist it, but believe me, it’s so much more satisfying and better for you to put yourself before him and move on.

Hagan juntos lo que querían hacer

Your life doesn’t have to stop once you are not together. Do the things that you were planning on doing with him, but do them all alone.

Si querías hacer un viaje pero habéis roto, hazlo por tu cuenta.

Créeme, un poco de soledad y en algún lugar lejos de la gente que te conoce es algo que te beneficiará.

You need to clear your mind and accept what has happened. You’re not going to manage that by sobbing at home and planning vengeance on him.

Escribe lo que te ha pasado

You don’t have to be a writer to be able to write. Just take a piece of paper and get your emotions, your anger, frustration, and sadness out… write it all down.

Let those emotions out and write them down. They don’t have to be connected and your story doesn’t have to make any sense. The only purpose of this is to let it all out.

You’ll feel better, you’ll see and who knows, maybe you will discover a long-hidden writing talent and you’ll thank the idiot who hurt you, manipulado y te dejó solo.