7 señales a prueba de balas de que ya no te aprecia

¿Recuerdas los tiempos en que eras todo su mundo? Antes te colmaba de atenciones y se desvivía por ti, pero ahora ya no tanto. ¿Qué ha pasado, dónde se ha estropeado todo?

If you feel things are not like they used to be, he has probably lost interest in you but doesn’t know how to tell you.

Habéis perdido la chispa inicial que os unió. Cuando la química desaparece, no queda nada. Simplemente te dan por sentado.

Echa un vistazo a este enlace para saber más sobre cómo lidiar con el hecho de que te den por sentado, porque a mí también me ayudó mucho: Don’t be taken for granted

Don’t stick around in this kind of relationship because let’s face it, you deserve so much more than that.

Te mereces a alguien que te quiera por lo que eres, con defectos y todo.

You don’t deserve someone who will flee at the first sign of trouble. These men are nothing more than pure cowards unable to commit.

Signs he doesn’t appreciate you like he used to:

1. Nunca te pide consejo

That is probably because he doesn’t want your advice. Your opinion doesn’t matter to him that much.

He doesn’t feel you’re important enough to include you in his decision-making process.

He feels you are just not important and if you thought you could spend the rest of your life with him, you’re wrong because that life isn’t worth living, not with someone who doesn’t appreciate you at all.

2. He doesn’t listen when you talk

Every time you have got something to say, he tunes out because he simply doesn’t care about what you’re talking about.

Either he feels that you’re just not that interesting or he thinks nothing you say is important.

Either way, he’s being an asshole and you should leave him. Don’t waste your life thinking he will come around and dándole segundas oportunidades. Puedes hacerlo mucho mejor que eso.

3. You’re always at his disposal

Siempre tienes tiempo para él y para las cosas que necesita. Esto sería completamente normal si él hiciera lo mismo por ti.

It’s called love. People who love each other are ready to sacrifice their time if the other one needs them.

Lo dejan todo y corren a ayudar a su pareja, pero en tu caso, las cosas son un poco diferentes. Tú siempre haces cosas por él mientras que él nunca hace nada por ti. ¡Eso no está bien!

4. He never says thank you’

I’m not saying he should walk right behind you, appreciating every single move you make, I’m just saying he should have those two words packed together in his vocabulary.

He doesn’t appreciate the things you do, ergo he doesn’t respect you and the final result is that he doesn’t love you.

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who thinks of you as convenient and doesn’t love you, not even one bit?

5. Hace sus propios planes

You are not included in his plan-making. Maybe just at the last minute, if he had something planned but his friend canceled, then he’ll ask you and pretend like he was planning on asking you all along.

Well, he wasn’t. It’s just because he has no one to go with. Or what’s even worse, he assumes that you have all the time in the world, so he goes ahead and makes plans without consulting you and brings you in last-minute.

He doesn’t even ask you if you would you like to go wherever he is planning on going, he just says that you are going.

Don’t let anyone treat you that way. Don’t let anyone be in control de tu tiempo libre. Eso está mal.

6. Nunca recuerda las fechas especiales

If it’s your birthday or your anniversary, he won’t remember, let alone surprise you with something. That is how much he cares.

You may even get that crap talk about how every day is special and why should you celebrate that one with him, but don’t fall for it.

It’s just a lame-ass excuse for the fact he forgot because he simply doesn’t care.

7. He doesn’t give a damn about your feelings

This may be just pure selfishness but in this case, it’s selfishness wrapped together with not giving a damn about you.

He doesn’t care about your feelings or what makes you happy or sad.

Esos son los signos de una relación malsana, de la que de la que deberías salir lo antes posible. Take some advice and get out. It’s better to be single than sad.