Sólo tu alma gemela no tendrá miedo de estas 7 cosas sobre ti
How many times have you heard that men don’t like mujeres fuertes?
Well, let me tell you something: it’s not that men don’t like strong women – weak men are actually scared of them.
They’re intimidated by the fact that this woman will see their flaws – that sooner or later, she’ll realize they’re not good for her.
Nevertheless, all of this changes when you meet the man who is meant to be yours, because he won’t have any of these fears.
Instead, he will be proud of your inner power and strength, and he’ll be aware that he’s hit the jackpot when you entered his life.
1. Sus puntos débiles
Una de las primeras cosas que ahuyentarán a los chicos que no merecen tu atención son tus elevados estándares.
En cuanto ven que eres una mujer que sabe lo que quiere, te declaran demasiado exigente con los hombres.
However, the right guy will never see things this way. He won’t be scared off by the fact that you have strong deal breakers on which you refuse to compromise.
In fact, he will be more than happy he’s found a woman with character who refuses to settle for less than she deserves.
Instead of running away from you, he’ll do everything it takes to meet your standards and will make an effort to impress you.
2. Su opinión
Otra cosa tu alma gemela won’t ever be scared of is you having your own opinion and attitudes.
Once this man enters your life, he’ll never try to win every argument with you, just out of fear that you might outsmart him.
Estará encantado de tener a alguien con quien mantener conversaciones significativas y alguien que ponga a prueba su visión del mundo.
Your intelligence won’t make him feel like he’s less of a man, it will challenge him and make him work on himself even more.
3. Su pasado
Un hombre maduro es consciente de que tuviste una vida antes que él. Sabe que probablemente amaste a alguien antes de que él apareciera y que tenéis una historia romántica.
However, this is not something he is afraid of. He won’t compare himself with your exes and he won’t be jealous of everything you had with them. He knows that is all a part of the past, while he is your present.
Once you meet your soulmate, he won’t drag your emotional baggage into your relationship, trying to force you to tell him all the details about your ex or making you swear you love him more than you’ve loved any man before him.
4. Su independencia
Hombres emocionalmente inestables fear women they can’t control and manipulate.
Les asusta saber que su novia eligió estar con ellos, pero que puede salir adelante sola, aunque ellos se alejen.
They are threatened by women who make it clear that they don’t need them and their life won’t end if they abandon them.
Women who don’t depend on them emotionally, financially, or in any other way possible.
Nevertheless, when you meet your soulmate, he’ll be proud that you’re una chica autosuficiente who doesn’t need anyone guiding her through life.
He’ll be happy that he found an equal partner and not some immature brat who will look at him as a father figure.
5. Su éxito
Your soulmate will never try to bring you down. He will never try to undermine your successes, and he’ll never even think of sabotaging you on your way up.
En cambio, te animará y apoyará en tus objetivos y te empujará hacia adelante con toda la fuerza que tiene.
Será el viento de tus alas y se sentirá orgulloso por cada hito pasas.
6. Sus amigos
I’m sure you’ve already dealt with guys who are jealous of your friends (and I’m talking about your amigos varones aquí en particular).
With guys who can’t stand having to share you with someone else and who want to become your everything as soon as you meet them.
If you have, you probably know how toxic this is. You’re aware that this is not a sign of a cute jealousy, it is them wanting to control you as much as possible and try to make you lose everyone who might open your eyes about their behavior.
Por el contrario, tu alma gemela nunca tendrá miedo de tus amigos.
He’ll know that you love him and them in completely different ways and he’ll never try to take their place.
7. Sus emociones
How many times have you heard a guy telling you that you’re too much for him to handle?
That your love burdens him and that you’re suffocating him with your emotions?
¿Cuántas veces un chico ha huido de ti en cuanto se ha dado cuenta de que sentías algo por él?
Bueno, puedes olvidarte de todo esto cuando conozcas a la persona adecuada.
Instead of being scared of the amount of love you’re showering him with, he’ll see how lucky he is for having such a girl who cares for him with all of her heart.
