Si no te respeta, no te merece
This isn’t a story about me, it’s a story about every woman alive. We are underappreciated, misunderstood and disrespected by the men we think of as partners for life.
Those men think that disrespect isn’t such a huge deal but believe me, it’s the thing that can ruin a relationship forever.
My mother used to tell me that a man who doesn’t respect me automatically doesn’t deserve me. She was right.
La forma en que un hombre te abraza demuestra si te respeta. With a gentle touch, like he’s going to break you if he tries touching you roughly.
It feels like you’re so fragile in his hands and he has the power to turn you into pieces but te respeta and that’s when you know that he deserves you.
Puedes ver que te respeta en la forma en que te habla. When he talks with a gentle voice that doesn’t offend you in any way, shape or form.
When he lets you say what you have to say and doesn’t interrupt you.
Y, por supuesto, cuando te escucha. Recuerda cada detalle, lo que demuestra que te quiere y que... te merece.
Una señal de respeto es la cantidad de esfuerzo que pone en la relación.
When he respects you, nothing is too much for him to do, he’s not scared to climb a mountain to make you happy and to show you how much he cares for you.
Lo demuestra en las pequeñas cosas. Puede que él ni siquiera sea consciente de esas pequeñas cosas, pero tú seguro que sí.
Ves cómo te mira y cómo mira a otras mujeres. Ves cómo le brillan los ojos cuando te mira y cómo corre hacia ti para darte un solo abrazo o un beso.
Esas cosas que consideramos pequeñas son las que muestran el mayor respeto de todos. If he doesn’t respect you, he’ll break your boundaries.
The boundaries that say what you’re ready to do and how much you’re ready to give yourself to the relationship are starting to break because of the fact that he isn’t able to respect them.
He forces you, telling you that love says you should give in to your partner. If he does this, he doesn’t deserve you.
Respect means to know when it’s enough and when you should give your partner the space needed to think.
It’s not just about forcing what you think to be right but to hear their side of the story. Respetar es mucho más de lo que creemos que es.
It’s the fundamental thing that keeps every healthy relationship stable.
It’s what makes us fall in love with the other person even more and what keeps us going on the days when we think our relationship is falling apart.
When a man is able to respect the woman in his life, he’s able to conquer the world.
The man I’m with now shows me his respect by listening to me and always telling me how much he appreciates me.
He shows me that it’s all right to cry, because that’s who I am, and he respects me enough to love me without the need to cámbiame.
Isn’t that what a real man is all about? Knowing that you are able to break the heart of a woman but still choosing to love and respect her unconditionally?
A man who doesn’t respect a woman doesn’t deserve her. Not just her but any woman ever.
Because he’s not able to love or feel compassion. He’s not able to give her the life she deserves.
Faltarle al respeto significa romperla, pedazo a pedazo, y ninguna mujer se merece eso.
