10 razões pelas quais ele pediu o seu número mas não lhe ligou

I bet there isn’t a single girl who didn’t ask herself at some point that famous question: Why hasn’t he called?

Cem cenários na sua cabeça e nenhuma resposta.

You try hard to find a reasonable excuse for his behavior just because you like him a lot and because you still hope that he will eventually call. But, that doesn’t happen.

Porquê? Porque é que os homens têm esta tendência para ask for a girl’s number só para não lhe telefonar?

Well, perhaps someone has stolen his phone or your number somehow mysteriously disappeared from his cell phone…or perhaps not? Let’s not fool ourselves.

Na verdade, há algumas razões pelas quais um homem seria suficientemente corajoso para pedir o seu número e depois evitar telefonar-lhe como uma praga.

To be exact, there are 10 reasons why he asked for your number but hasn’t called you yet!

Ele esqueceu-se de qual era

The night/day he met you, he gave his number to plenty of other girls as well, and now he’s having difficulties remembering which one you were.

Sim, há rapazes cuja principal prioridade é dar o seu número ao maior número de raparigas possível (ou a quem quer que conheçam) e, como consequência, esquecem-se de qual é o seu número.

And if that is the case, it is good that they didn’t call after all.

He’s waiting for a few days to call

Há alguns tipos que gostam de esperar um pouco antes de telefonar.

Decidem esperar alguns dias e, durante esse tempo, processam tudo nas suas cabeças e pensam nas suas abordagens.

These guys don’t like to rush, and they are all about taking it slowly.

Eles esperam pelo momento perfeito para o contactar e a única coisa que tem de fazer é dar-lhes algum tempo.

He’s busy pursuing other priorities (or women)

One of the biggest reasons why he didn’t call you is perhaps because he is too busy pursuing other goals or other women.

He’s doing that because obviously, he has other top priorities at the moment or because ele é um mulherengo e tem vontade de manter contacto com muitas mulheres, o que significa que simplesmente não é capaz de dedicar o seu tempo a uma só mulher.

In that case, you shouldn’t wait for his call either.

Precipitou-se

You had an amazing time together, he asked for your number, and he still hasn’t called you?

Talvez o afeto seja unilateral ou estivesse demasiado embriagada e tenha interpretado mal as pistas do afeto dele por si.

Perhaps you jumped the gun, and now you’re expecting him to call you, but even that night it was obvious that he wouldn’t.

Ele quer que sejas tu a dar o primeiro passo

He’s not that confident when it comes to texting girls or calling them, and that is why he expects you to make the first move.

Now, it would be much easier if men had the courage to tell women this…but then it would mean that they would have to call you to tell you.

É realmente difícil distinguir entre um rapaz que não está interessado e aquele que está à espera que dê o primeiro passo.

But, if you notice that he’s way too shy around you, then it is probably the second.

O momento não é adequado

He has other serious things going on in his life (which doesn’t include chasing other women).

Maybe he’s still grieving over his past relationship, and he needs some time to process all of it.

Ele adia o telefonema porque não é o momento certo para o fazer, mas fá-lo-á de certeza assim que tiver a cabeça limpa.

He’s afraid of commitment

When he asked for your number, it definitely seemed like a good idea, but once he got home, he realized that he’s afraid of commitment.

Ele passou horas a pensar no que aconteceria se lhe telefonasse.

He doesn’t want to be the initiator of anything because he’s obviously not ready for anything. He’s a commitment phobe até ao núcleo.

He’s not sure how you feel about him

He’s a little bit insecure when it comes to how you feel about him, and that is why he still hasn’t called you.

He’s afraid of potential rejection or similar, and that is why he waits for some signal or reassurance of your affection for him.

He’s not into you

He asked for your number just for the sake of asking, but in reality, he’s not that into you.

Or even worse, you’re just his alternative. Maybe one day he will call you only when he realizes that he has no one, and by then it will be too late.

If he’s not into you, you should certainly not waste your time on waiting for him to call you.

He’s married

Quando o conheceu, procurou todas as pistas que todas as raparigas procuram quando conhecem um novo rapaz.

You checked whether he was wearing a ring and, of course, he wasn’t. But, this doesn’t mean that he isn’t married.

A maioria dos homens casados Hoje em dia, os que são propensos à infidelidade tiram as alianças quando estão prestes a perseguir outras mulheres e, no dia seguinte, voltam a colocá-las como se nada tivesse acontecido.

Lame, I know. So, if he didn’t call you yet, you should actually be thankful for that.