10 razones por las que te pidió el número pero no te ha llamado
I bet there isn’t a single girl who didn’t ask herself at some point that famous question: Why hasn’t he called?
Cien escenarios en tu cabeza y ni una sola respuesta.
You try hard to find a reasonable excuse for his behavior just because you like him a lot and because you still hope that he will eventually call. But, that doesn’t happen.
¿Por qué? ¿Por qué los chicos tienen esta tendencia a ask for a girl’s number ¿sólo para no llamarla?
Well, perhaps someone has stolen his phone or your number somehow mysteriously disappeared from his cell phone…or perhaps not? Let’s not fool ourselves.
En realidad, hay unas cuantas razones por las que un chico se atrevería a pedirte tu número y luego evitaría llamarte como a la peste.
To be exact, there are 10 reasons why he asked for your number but hasn’t called you yet!
Olvidó cuál eras
The night/day he met you, he gave his number to plenty of other girls as well, and now he’s having difficulties remembering which one you were.
Sí, hay chicos cuya principal prioridad es dar su número a tantas chicas como puedan (o a quien conozcan) y, como consecuencia, se olvidan de cuál es el tuyo.
And if that is the case, it is good that they didn’t call after all.
He’s waiting for a few days to call
A algunos les gusta esperar un poco antes de llamar.
Deciden esperar unos días y, durante ese tiempo, procesan todo en sus cabezas y piensan en sus planteamientos.
These guys don’t like to rush, and they are all about taking it slowly.
Esperan el momento perfecto para ponerse en contacto contigo, y lo único que tienes que hacer es darles tiempo.
He’s busy pursuing other priorities (or women)
One of the biggest reasons why he didn’t call you is perhaps because he is too busy pursuing other goals or other women.
He’s doing that because obviously, he has other top priorities at the moment or because es un mujeriego y tiene la necesidad de estar en contacto con muchas mujeres, lo que significa que simplemente no es capaz de dedicar su tiempo a una sola mujer.
In that case, you shouldn’t wait for his call either.
Te has precipitado
You had an amazing time together, he asked for your number, and he still hasn’t called you?
Puede que el afecto sea unilateral o que estuvieras demasiado borracho y hayas malinterpretado las pistas de su afecto por ti.
Perhaps you jumped the gun, and now you’re expecting him to call you, but even that night it was obvious that he wouldn’t.
Quiere que tú des el primer paso
He’s not that confident when it comes to texting girls or calling them, and that is why he expects you to make the first move.
Now, it would be much easier if men had the courage to tell women this…but then it would mean that they would have to call you to tell you.
Es realmente difícil diferenciar entre un chico que no está interesado y el que está esperando a que tú des el primer paso.
But, if you notice that he’s way too shy around you, then it is probably the second.
No es el momento adecuado
He has other serious things going on in his life (which doesn’t include chasing other women).
Maybe he’s still grieving over his past relationship, and he needs some time to process all of it.
Se retrasa en llamarte porque no es el momento adecuado, pero lo hará en cuanto se aclare.
He’s afraid of commitment
When he asked for your number, it definitely seemed like a good idea, but once he got home, he realized that he’s afraid of commitment.
Pasó horas dándole vueltas a lo que pasaría si te hubiera llamado.
He doesn’t want to be the initiator of anything because he’s obviously not ready for anything. He’s a commitment phobe hasta el núcleo.
He’s not sure how you feel about him
He’s a little bit insecure when it comes to how you feel about him, and that is why he still hasn’t called you.
He’s afraid of potential rejection or similar, and that is why he waits for some signal or reassurance of your affection for him.
He’s not into you
He asked for your number just for the sake of asking, but in reality, he’s not that into you.
Or even worse, you’re just his alternative. Maybe one day he will call you only when he realizes that he has no one, and by then it will be too late.
If he’s not into you, you should certainly not waste your time on waiting for him to call you.
He’s married
Cuando le conociste, buscaste todas las pistas que toda chica busca cuando conoce a un chico nuevo.
You checked whether he was wearing a ring and, of course, he wasn’t. But, this doesn’t mean that he isn’t married.
La mayoría de hombres casados hoy propensos a la infidelidad se quitan los anillos cuando están a punto de perseguir a otras mujeres y, al día siguiente, se los vuelven a poner como si nada hubiera pasado.
Lame, I know. So, if he didn’t call you yet, you should actually be thankful for that.
