10 sinais de que ele é um traidor em série (e não se importa com isso)

You know what they say—once a cheater, always a cheater. Sometimes, it’s not true, though, when you have the most amazing relationship that proves infidelity can actually strengthen it. But, mostly, it ends the relationship and he’s left to work on his behavior.

But what happens when he’s just fine with being an asshole? You get a serial cheater.

It could be because he loves the chase but not the catch. His self-esteem is so low, he needs it to boost his ego. Or he has simply accepted it as something that’s a part of him and has no intention of changing it.

Whatever the reason is, it’s messed up. Seriously, falling in love with a cheater is bad as it is but a serial cheater is a whole different level to it.

Por isso, para ver se o gajo está cheio de si, veja a lista abaixo!

You haven’t met any of his friends or family

Normalmente, trata-se de a sign that he’s not interested em mantê-lo por perto o tempo suficiente para o apresentar aos seus amigos ou familiares.

It could be because he’s afraid of commitment, because he’s hiding something from you or hiding you from someone.

It’s completely normal if you just started dating but if you’ve been in a relationship for more than a couple of months, that’s a red flag right there!

Detalhes vagos

If he’s trying to hide something, he will go out of his way to do it. You’ll basically have no idea where he is, with whom and for how long.

And when you ask him about his day, you’ll get nothing but undefined answers like, “Oh, just fine. Did some work stuff.” Like, no shit Sherlock, you did work stuff at work. Oh my God.

We’re not asking for specific details but a little bit of insight into your work and day would be nice, since someone actually cares about you enough to be interested in them.

Ele adora a perseguição

Se ele estava super interessado em si enquanto a perseguia, mas de repente ficou frio quando a apanhou, isso pode significar que ele simplesmente gosta mais da perseguição do que da presa. E também pode significar que ele já está a perseguir outra pessoa.

Unless he’s ready to talk about it and actually do something to fix it, let him go. He’s just another emotionally unavailable asshole you don’t need in your life.

He’s unavailable most of the time

No matter how busy he is, there are at least two minutes in his busy schedule for him to let you know that he’s fine and that he is thinking of you.

But if he’s offline most of the time and there’s always some work to do late at night, it could just be him looking for excuses to have some side action without you noticing.

Se o seu instinto lhe diz que algo está errado, talvez deva ouvi-lo e não comprar mais um dos seus linhas de treta.

Dá-te presentes e atenção

Cheaters usually use this to ease their conscience, because they know what they did was wrong. And if you notice that there is a certain pattern in his expressions of affection, maybe it’s time to listen to your gut a little bit better.

If he stays out late one night and there’s a whole week of him being the best boyfriend there ever was, only for this to be followed by another week of him being unavailable and working late, if this repeats on and on, you got yourself a serial cheater.

Ele é extremamente protetor do seu telemóvel

If he carries his phone with him everywhere he goes, and I mean literally everywhere, maybe it’s time you ask yourself why that is so.

Unless the lad is working for the CIA, there is no reason for him to carry his phone even when he’s going out to throw away the trash.

I mean, it only makes you all antsy and worried what the hell is on that phone that he’s so protective of.

And let me tell you, it can’t be a good thing. If he doesn’t trust you enough to leave his phone alone for like thirty seconds, there is a good reason for it.

Os amigos dele são uns parvalhões

And he seems like the sweetest boyfriend ever. Something is not adding up here. We spend time with people who are similar to us. If we are caring and gentle, there’s no way we can be best friends with someone who is an A-list asshole.

And if we’re not into that steady and calm life with our significant other, chances of us being best friends with a married couple who are the very definition of that life are really small.

A questão é que, se os amigos dele são idiotas e batoteiros que se gabam disso, há uma grande possibilidade de ele ser igual.

Alterações de humor

One week he’s the boyfriend of the year and the next he’s picking fights over everything.

Even the tiniest thing is bothering him enough to pick a fight. Mood swings can come from problems at work or health issues but if you recognized a few more signs from this list together with this one, it’s pretty clear why it’s happening.

A certa altura, estava a outra mulher

The chances of you two actually working out are one in a million. It’s simple for him actually. If he did it once, he can do it again.

And if he was able to find someone better than his ex, what’s stopping him from looking for someone better than you?

Ele nunca foi honesto sobre as suas traições no passado

If his friends or exes are the ones who told you about him being a cheater, that’s a huge, red flag right there.

A homem que se arrepende seriamente da sua traição O passado vai falar-vos disso e dizer-vos que foi a pior coisa que alguma vez fez.

Um homem a sério não lhe esconde nada, porque já sabe como a desonestidade dói. Mas se ele tentou esconder o que aconteceu e se há mais do que uma relação que terminou por causa da sua infidelidade, o que é que ainda está a fazer com ele?