10 sinais inconfundíveis de que ele ainda está apaixonado pela ex
O seu homem tem andado estranho ultimamente? Acha que a razão potencial pode ser o facto de ele ainda estar apaixonado pela ex?
One of the worst feelings in the world is suspecting the man you’re in love with might still be in love with someone else—his ex.
And if you feel that something’s not right in your relationship, chances are it’s the truth.
Apesar de nós, mulheres, termos a capacidade de saber intuitivamente quando as coisas não estão como deveriam estar, temos tendência a não ver alguns sinais óbvios ou inventar desculpas for our man’s behavior.
Por vezes, recusamo-nos a encarar a verdade, prolongando as nossas suspeitas e não fazendo nada a esse respeito.
Delaying the inevitable has never brought anything good to anyone, so it’s time to take a deep breath and start investigating!
It’s time for you to pay attention to his actions that will tell you if he’s still in love with his ex (or rather not) and the following 10 signs will be your guide.
10 signs he’s still in love with his ex
Tudo lhe faz lembrar a ex
Seja o que for que estejam a fazer ou a falar, ele lembra-se sempre da ex.
Vão beber um copo ou a um jantar romântico e, de alguma forma, ele encontra sempre algo que o faz lembrar dela (sem sequer tentar).
Being constantly occupied with reminders of his ex means he’s unable to stop thinking about her and enjoy spending time with you instead.
He’s unable to let go of his past and enjoy the present with you because he still has feelings for her.
Ele dá-lhe notícias antes de lhas dar a si
A ex dele é sempre a primeira a saber coisas sobre ele, porque ele partilha tudo com ela antes de o fazer consigo.
She knows about his plans more than you and you can’t understand why he would do such a thing.
A principal razão pela qual ele lhe dá constantemente informações actualizadas sobre a sua vida é porque ainda se sente ligado a ela.
Ele tem um desejo intenso de partilhar coisas com ela e de lhe pedir a sua opinião, porque ainda gosta dela.
Ele menciona-a enquanto tem intimidade consigo
Um dos sinais mais óbvios de que ele ainda está apaixonado pela ex é se ele a menciona mesmo quando tem intimidade consigo.
If you two are making out and he’s talking about some kinky things he experienced with her or similar, it is a huge red flag that he’s still in love with her.
When you’re over someone, you don’t bother thinking about them that much, let alone mentioning their name when you’re about to have some sexy time with your partner.
Ele persegue-a nas redes sociais
Ele gosta de todos os seus posts e fotos nas redes sociais e conversa com ela regularmente.
Embora seja normal continuar a ser amigo do seu ex depois de um ruturaNão é normal, persegui-los nas redes sociais e arranjar constantemente desculpas para lhes enviar mensagens.
If he’s doing it, it means he’s desperately trying to win her attention because he is unable to focus on anything other than her.
Ele age de forma estranha quando fala com ela
When he’s talking to his friends, he’s loud, he laughs and basically acts normally.
But when he’s talking to her (if they are still in contact), he starts acting weird immediately.
He changes the volume of his voice to ‘almost mute’ and makes sure to go to another room to talk to her quietly.
And after he’s finished, he becomes utterly distressed and confused.
He’s still in touch with her family members and friends
Manter-se em contacto with your ex’s family and friends is actually a positive thing.
But if he’s trying hard to stay in touch with all of her family members and friends by constantly texting them and spending lots of time with them (more than he spends with you), chances are he’s still in love with his ex and he’s desperately trying to be a part of her life.
Os familiares e amigos dela são as suas principais fontes para obter informações sobre a vida dela, os seus gostos e as coisas que ela faz em geral, porque (obviamente) ele ainda sente algo por ela.
The break-up wasn’t his choice
If the break-up wasn’t his choice, he might still be fighting hard to find closure.
Quando ele a menciona constantemente, sentindo-se confuso ao telefone com ela ou algo semelhante, está a passar por uma fase de arrependimento, sentindo-se culpado por não ter feito certas coisas.
He probably still thinks that had he done something differently, the break-up wouldn’t have occurred.
He’s constantly fighting his inner battles that are preventing him from seeing anything other than her.
Ele compara-te com ela
He doesn’t compare you to her in an obvious manner. He does it more discreetly.
Por exemplo, estão os dois a comer pizza e a ver um filme e, de repente, ele diz-lhe que a ex dele tem uma forma muito própria de comer pizza.
Ele faz isso porque, inconscientemente, sente falta da personalidade dela e, por isso, compara tudo o que faz com ela.
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Ele odeia-a
Se ele te disser que a odeia, não acredites nele. Odiar alguém não é a mesma coisa que estar-se nas tintas para alguém.
When you hate someone, you’re going through a whole different set of emotions that have nothing to do with real hate.
Hating means not being willing to accept something because it’s not the way you want it to be.
If he hates her, it means she’s still there in his heart and he hates the fact of not being able to erase her from his life or being able to be with her.
He calls you his ex’s name
Has he ever called you by his ex’s name? If yes, it’s not a big deal.
But is he constantly calling you by his ex’s name, making you think that he has amnesia or something?
If the answer is yes, he’s doing it because, again, she’s on his mind and no matter how hard he tried to think about something else, he simply fails every time.
