11 sinais de que és a sua prioridade

Muitas vezes perguntamo-nos qual é o nosso lugar na vida de alguém e até que ponto essa pessoa gosta realmente de nós.

Nobody wants to be an option and somehow we’d all like to be a priority to the people who we care about the most.

Porque ser o último da lista dos que estão no topo da vossa é uma treta.

In case you’re wondering where you stand in the life of certain people and how much you mean to them, we bring you 11 signs that will answer your question and show you if someone treats you like their priority.

1. He’s never late

Há desculpas legítimas para chegar atrasado, mas, por vezes, se uma pessoa chega sempre atrasada, isso diz-lhe qual é o seu lugar na sua lista de prioridades; infelizmente, não é muito elevado.

When you’re important to someone, they’ll never leave you waiting for them and they’ll respect your time by trying to show up at the agreed time.

2. Ele lembra-se de ocasiões especiais

It’s not always about some enormous and expensive gifts, sometimes even the smallest ones can tell you how much you mean to them.

If they pay attention to important dates, if they never forget things that are important to you and if they always try to show up when you need them and they make an actual effort, it means you’re pretty important to them.

3. Ele nunca te desilude

If you’re important to someone then they’ll know what not to do in order to not make you sad or desiludido.

If someone makes you feel bad and doesn’t even bother to acknowledge it or at least apologize, then I’m afraid you’re not that important to them.

But if someone is making an actual effort to meet your expectations and to make you happy, to do the things that you love, then you must keep in mind that you’re high on their priority list.

4. Lamenta genuinamente quando eles fazem asneiras

Quantas vezes já lhe aconteceu estragar as coisas sem querer? Que, devido a algumas circunstâncias, fizeste algo que magoou uma pessoa que amas?

We’ve all been there, but messing up doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t care about you.

Se uma pessoa comete um erro e está genuinamente arrependida, se pede desculpa e se esforça para que a perdoe, isso significa que valoriza a sua presença na sua vida e que quer mantê-la lá.

5. Esforça-se por satisfazer as suas necessidades

When you’re high on someone’s priority list, you’ll notice that they esforçar-se por satisfazer as suas necessidades.

Of course, it’s almost impossible to meet your needs all the time, but you’ll see how hard they’re trying.

If there is something that is bugging you and you speak about it, a person who truly cares for you will try to meet your needs and actually listen to what you’re saying.

6. Ele arranja tempo para ti

Dr. Steve Maraboli said: “When someone tells you they’re busy, it’s not a reflection of their schedule, but your spot in their schedule.”

Know that when someone is making a spot for you, regardless of how mad their schedule is or if they’re willing to pause whatever they’re doing just to hear you out, you’re pretty important to them.

7. Ele faz planos

Not only that they don’t bail on you last minute, but they also don’t make plans with you last minute.

Sometimes making plans last minute is something really spontaneous, but in most cases, it’s a sign you’re their last resort and everyone else has already bailed.

Se uma pessoa faz planos consigo e cumpre esses planos sem os cancelar à última da hora (o que não é frequente, infelizmente), é óbvio que sinal de que o querem na sua vida e querem manter os planos que fizeram consigo.

8. Presta atenção ao que diz numa discussão

Por muito acesa que seja a vossa discussão ou independentemente do tema do vosso debate, eles nunca dizer algo para o magoar deliberadamente.

They won’t use ugly words to bring you down or anything like that to make you feel bad about yourself.

Even though it’s hard to hold back in an argument, they always watch what they say and keep your feelings in mind.

9. Ele nunca deixa as coisas passarem tão facilmente

In a heated argument or in an endless discussion, they never say, “Whatever.”

Nunca fazem parecer que o que sentimos ou o que se está a passar é irrelevante para eles.

And when you reply with just a short, “OK”, they never assume everything is okay.

They don’t let things go so easily and they always continue talking until the problem is completely solved.

They always want to make sure you’re really okay.

10. Sente-se importante para ele

Independentemente de quem sejam, do que estejam a fazer, sabemos que nada nem ninguém pode substituir o nosso lugar na vida deles.

They make sure you know you’re one of a kind and that you’re special to them.

You feel like an important part of their life and they’ve shown you that you’re not replaceable.

11. Ele está sempre presente quando precisamos dele

You know you can count on them no matter what. They constantly tell you how much you mean to them and they’re in it till the end.

You know you’re someone’s priority when they answer your 2 a.m. call as fast as those 2 p.m. calls.