11 segni che siete la sua priorità

Spesso ci chiediamo quale sia la nostra posizione nella vita di una persona e quanto questa tenga davvero a noi.

Nobody wants to be an option and somehow we’d all like to be a priority to the people who we care about the most.

Perché essere l'ultimo della lista di coloro che sono in cima alla vostra fa schifo.

In case you’re wondering where you stand in the life of certain people and how much you mean to them, we bring you 11 signs that will answer your question and show you if someone treats you like their priority.

1. He’s never late

Ci sono scuse legittime per i ritardi, ma a volte, se una persona è sempre in ritardo, questo vi dirà a che punto siete della sua lista di priorità; quindi non molto in alto, purtroppo.

When you’re important to someone, they’ll never leave you waiting for them and they’ll respect your time by trying to show up at the agreed time.

2. Ricorda le occasioni speciali

It’s not always about some enormous and expensive gifts, sometimes even the smallest ones can tell you how much you mean to them.

If they pay attention to important dates, if they never forget things that are important to you and if they always try to show up when you need them and they make an actual effort, it means you’re pretty important to them.

3. Non vi delude mai

If you’re important to someone then they’ll know what not to do in order to not make you sad or deluso.

If someone makes you feel bad and doesn’t even bother to acknowledge it or at least apologize, then I’m afraid you’re not that important to them.

But if someone is making an actual effort to meet your expectations and to make you happy, to do the things that you love, then you must keep in mind that you’re high on their priority list.

4. È sinceramente dispiaciuto quando sbagliano.

Quante volte vi è capitato di rovinare le cose senza volerlo? Che a causa di alcune circostanze, fate qualcosa che ferisce una persona che amate?

We’ve all been there, but messing up doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t care about you.

Se una persona combina un guaio ed è sinceramente dispiaciuta, se si scusa e fa di tutto per farsi perdonare, significa che apprezza la vostra presenza nella sua vita e vuole che continuiate a esserci.

5. Si impegna per soddisfare le vostre esigenze

When you’re high on someone’s priority list, you’ll notice that they impegnarsi per soddisfare le vostre esigenze.

Of course, it’s almost impossible to meet your needs all the time, but you’ll see how hard they’re trying.

If there is something that is bugging you and you speak about it, a person who truly cares for you will try to meet your needs and actually listen to what you’re saying.

6. Trova il tempo per voi

Dr. Steve Maraboli said: “When someone tells you they’re busy, it’s not a reflection of their schedule, but your spot in their schedule.”

Know that when someone is making a spot for you, regardless of how mad their schedule is or if they’re willing to pause whatever they’re doing just to hear you out, you’re pretty important to them.

7. Fa dei piani

Not only that they don’t bail on you last minute, but they also don’t make plans with you last minute.

Sometimes making plans last minute is something really spontaneous, but in most cases, it’s a sign you’re their last resort and everyone else has already bailed.

Se una persona fa dei piani con voi e li rispetta effettivamente senza annullarli all'ultimo minuto (cosa che purtroppo non si vede spesso), è ovvio che una persona segno che vi vogliono nella loro vita e vogliono mantenere i piani che hanno fatto con voi.

8. Presta attenzione a ciò che dice in una discussione

Non importa quanto sia accesa la vostra discussione o quanto sia importante l'argomento della vostra discussione, loro non dire qualcosa per ferirti deliberatamente.

They won’t use ugly words to bring you down or anything like that to make you feel bad about yourself.

Even though it’s hard to hold back in an argument, they always watch what they say and keep your feelings in mind.

9. Non lascia mai andare le cose così facilmente

In a heated argument or in an endless discussion, they never say, “Whatever.”

Non fanno mai sembrare che quello che provate o che sta succedendo sia irrilevante per loro.

And when you reply with just a short, “OK”, they never assume everything is okay.

They don’t let things go so easily and they always continue talking until the problem is completely solved.

They always want to make sure you’re really okay.

10. Vi sentite importanti per lui

Indipendentemente da chi siano e da cosa stiano facendo, sapete che niente e nessuno potrebbe sostituire il vostro posto nella loro vita.

They make sure you know you’re one of a kind and that you’re special to them.

You feel like an important part of their life and they’ve shown you that you’re not replaceable.

11. È sempre presente quando si ha bisogno di lui

You know you can count on them no matter what. They constantly tell you how much you mean to them and they’re in it till the end.

You know you’re someone’s priority when they answer your 2 a.m. call as fast as those 2 p.m. calls.