12 sinais de que ele superou totalmente a ex (mesmo que você ache que não)

Namoras com um rapaz que acabou recentemente uma relação e que te permite manter a amizade com a sua ex?

Muitas vezes suspeita e pergunta-se se ele já esqueceu realmente a ex ou se he’s using you to get over her (que é, de longe, o pior cenário possível)?

I feel you. Starting a new relationship knowing that your partner is still in touch with his ex and not being sure if he’s ever gotten over her is really frustrating. However, not all hope is lost!

There are actually some tell-tale signs to pay attention to where you can determine whether or not he’s totally over his ex-girlfriend.

Acabaram-se os enigmas, as frustrações, os pensamentos excessivos!

Make him so obsessed he forgets about every girl before you – CLIQUE AQUI.

The only thing you need to do to solve the mystery is to keep reading the following signs that are sure indicators he’s totally over his ex (even if you think he’s not)!

He’s happy for his ex

 

One of the biggest indicators that he’s totalmente acima da sua ex is if he’s genuinely happy for her.

Preste atenção à linguagem corporal e à reação dele quando ouve que algo de bom lhe aconteceu ou quando a vê feliz com outro homem.

If he doesn’t start showing signs of jealousy all of a sudden or get lost in his thoughts, it means he’s happy for her and that he is totally over her!

Quebra todas as formas de comunicação com a ex

Todos nós precisamos de um certo tempo para nós próprios depois de uma separação e cortar todas as formas de comunicação com os ex é a forma mais rápida de os ultrapassar.

If you notice that he rarely texts her (except when he really needs something) and that he’s deleted her from all social media, this is a huge sign that he’s ready to move on.

Mas, se ele parece estar a passar imenso tempo a persegui-la em todas as redes sociais, a gostar de todas as fotografias dela e a enviar-lhe mensagens de texto com frequência, saiba que ele ainda está apegado a ela e que vai precisar de mais tempo para trabalhar nisso, a fim de a esquecer.

Ele raramente fala sobre ela

Quando falamos de alguém (especialmente quando o fazemos frequentemente), isso significa que essa pessoa está constantemente na nossa mente.

So, if he seldom talks about her, it means he’s definitely not thinking about her!

He’s redirected his thoughts from his breakup and relação passada, and that is why he never mentions her because she’s no longer a part of his life. She’s become the past and he’s moved on.

Ele deita fora as recordações dela

Quando acabamos com alguém, só então nos apercebemos de quantas coisas e memórias se acumularam durante todo esse tempo.

If you see that he still has a collection of memorabilia of his ex and he’s not intending on getting rid of them, then he’s probably not ready to let go yet.

Mas, se ele deitar fora todas as memórias que teve com ela, isso significa que decidiu solenemente e de todo o coração descartar o seu passado e começar um novo capítulo.

Ele rotula-se como um homem solteiro

Quando acabou de o conhecer, tente lembrar-se do que ele lhe disse sobre a sua vida amorosa.

Did he declare himself as a single man or was he stuttering and desperately trying to find the words to describe the hoping-to-get-back-together-with-my-ex situation he’s in?

If he labels himself as a single man on every social media and in person, you can be sure that he’s totally over her!

He’s ready to start another relationship (with you)

If he shows determination that he’s ready to start a new relationship without making you doubt his decisions, then you can be sure he’s no longer attached to his ex.

Quando um homem não está pronto para começar outra relação, ele vai constantemente confundir-vos com o facto de ele ser indeciso em relação a tudo, por isso presta atenção a isso.

Ele irradia energia positiva

 

Only when you’re one hundred percent over your past decisions and relationships, can you be truly happy, which is seen in the type of energy you’re exuding when being around other people.

So, if he’s as happy as a clam when spending time with you and he seems relaxed about everything, it is a good sign that he’s over her.

Ele nunca te chama acidentalmente pelo nome dela

Another sign that he’s not on his mind is if he never accidentally calls you by her name.

He’s not doing it because he’s not focused on his past; he’s living in the present and thus focuses on the things happening now.

He never accidentally calls you by her name because he’s pretty much deleted it from his mind.

Fala do seu passado sem se emocionar

 

Another important sign when it comes to being sure that he’s gotten over his ex is if he talks about his past without getting emotional or distant.

This means that he’s comfortable about talking about his past because nothing bothers him about it.

He’s accepted things as they are and he’s ready to start living a new life without his ex on his mind.

He’s not rushing into anything

 

When we’re desperate to get over someone, we sometimes subconsciously rush into another relationship – not because we’re genuinely interested in them, but only for the sake of forgetting our ex.

If he’s taking things slowly with you, it means he wants to get to know you better and he’s not forcing himself to saltar para uma nova relação apenas para esquecer a anterior.

He’s an open book with you

Se lhe perguntares sobre o seu passado, ele diz-te tudo como é.

He doesn’t tell you that he would rather not talk about it or that he needs some time to think about it.

He tells you exactly as things were and he doesn’t try to hide anything. He’s like an open book with you and you can feel it in your guts, too.

He isn’t hesitant 

Quando um homem ainda não consegue largar a sua ex, também não poderá falar sobre o seu futuro porque ele ainda espera secretamente que ela entre no filme.

But, if he talks to you about the future with ease and he’s excited about his future plans and goals, it means he’s totally over her and past events.

O passado dele não o impede de se divertir consigo no presente e de desejar passar os seus dias futuros consigo.

It means he’s determined to make a commitment with you and stick to his decision, no matter what.