20 sinais poderosos de atração masculina (ele está interessado ou não?)

I bet it’s happened to you before. You liked someone, but you didn’t want to make the first move and you could swear that he was interessado em si também, mas nunca aconteceu nada.

Afinal de contas, devemos ser capazes de perceber se um rapaz gosta de nós, certo?

You were just too scared to do something about it because you didn’t know how to spot those obvious signs of attraction.

Bem, embora existam muitas formas de determinar o poder sinais de atração masculina they’re not always that easy to interpret.

A maioria das pessoas tira conclusões apenas da forma como essa pessoa especial actua e da sua sinais de linguagem corporal.

No entanto, existem também sinais clássicos you can positively interpret that don’t have to do anything with their body language but with their attitude and the things they say and do.

Estamos aqui para explicar ambos e discernir todos os sinais fáceis de ignorar de que este rapaz gosta de si.

10 Body Language Signs That Say He’s Interested

Here we’re going to discuss powerful sinais de atração masculina que podem ser exibidos de uma forma física.

Since there are more ways to show you how he feels (we’ll get to that in the second part) right now, we’ll focus our attention on the signs that you can see and possibly feel.

It’s all about his body language, eye contact, and all those obvious signs that if you pay close attention, you’ll easily notice.

It’s in the way he acts around you (fidgeting, leaning in, being a flirt, and barely catching his breath).

Down below, you’ll be able to read more about each one and see what might’ve been right in front of your eyes the entire time.

Eis algumas características físicas sinais de atração that will give you the reassurance you’ve been dying to get (roughly translated: Here’s how you know that he’s got a crush on you!)

1. As pupilas dilatam-se

It’s scientifically proven that dilated pupils are the reaction of our brain when we see something we like.

Ficamos entusiasmados e esse entusiasmo é fisicamente visível.

Por isso, da próxima vez que falar com a sua paixão, não se esqueça de olhar atentamente para os olhos dele, mas tente ser subtil.

You don’t want him to think you are a freaky psycho waiting to attack.

This could be a good sign of his interest toward you. He can’t control it.

He can’t stop it. It’s a natural reaction that will either take place or not. Either way, you’ll get the message loud and clear.

Hopefully, it’s the one you’ve been secretly hoping for.

2. Contacto visual prolongado

Portanto, não apenas o contacto visual, mas um contacto que dure um pouco mais do que quando olhamos acidentalmente para alguém e os nossos olhos se encontram com os da pessoa.

There is nothing accidental about this eye encounter. It’s planned and it lasts longer, maybe even long enough to make you feel awkward, so you look away from him.

Also, studies have shown that when a guy is interested in a girl, he will try to glance at her when he thinks she’s not looking.

Mas quando ela o vê a olhar, ele deve prolongar o contacto visual para que ela saiba que ele a vê como mais do que apenas uma amiga.

So you can be sure that if he doesn’t look away the same second you catch him looking at you, he probably wants something more and this is how he’s letting you know.

3. Ele lambe os lábios

Some men do this unintentionally and it’s a real sign of attraction. Imagine a scenario where you bump into him and you talk for a few minutes.

While you’re talking, you see him glancing at your lips and licking his. That’s a true physical sign he likes you because his brain is sending information to his body.

Depois de ver os seus lábios, ele tem uma necessidade insaciável de os beijar, por isso o seu cérebro envia essa informação para o seu corpo e o seu corpo reage com uma lambidela.

Talk about a powerful sign of male attraction, right? Bonus points if you return the favor. That’s the chemistry that won’t go unnoticed.

Lips are one of the most sensual parts of a person’s body. You can only imagine what he plans on doing with them once you’re his.

4. Ele levanta as sobrancelhas

O seu subconsciente desempenha o papel principal nesta situação. Se um homem está a falar consigo e gosta de si, a mente dele vai reproduzir essa informação na sua cabeça vezes sem conta.

He may ignore the fact he likes you, maybe because he doesn’t want to show you or is scared to show you, but his subconscious mind will do all the work for him.

So the next time you see him raising his eyebrows while he’s talking to you, you can be sure that’s one of those sinais poderosos de atração masculina.

And the funny thing is, guys are mostly not even aware that they’re doing this.

So basically, you’ll know that he’s into you due to this entirely subconscious sign on his part. Pretty neat!

5. Ele respira fundo

Usually, it’s completely normal that men take deeper breaths than women – it’s the way biology works – but there’s another reason why men take deep breaths when they’re in the presence of a woman.

Elas respiram fundo enquanto falam consigo porque isso ajuda-as a endireitarem-se e a alargarem os ombros, o que, obviamente, as ajuda a parecerem mais atraentes.

So if he’s literally fighting to catch his breath, you can assume he is interested in you.

Guys have that macho need to always look their masculine best, so they’ll resort to any type of way to get them there.

Por isso, da próxima vez que o vir a respirar fundo, considere isso um sinal óbvio (por mais disparatado que seja) da atração que ele sente por si.

6. Ele toca-te

Not creepy touching, but nice touching – “accidental” touching.

This is one version of a body language sign that usually means he likes you, especially if he touches you on your knee or shoulder “unknowingly.”

However, this time we’re also talking about preening, which is when he touches his shoulders and arms, runs his hand through his hair, and tugs at his ears.

Significa que ele gosta de si e quer estar bem para si, para a impressionar. O contacto físico é uma coisa poderosa.

When a person you’re really into touches you, feelings rush through your body that you didn’t even know existed.

O toque, quando vem da pessoa certa, é o sinal mais poderoso de atração masculina que existe.

You’re both going to feel the sensation that simply overcomes you and makes you aware of the incredible chemistry between you.

7. Ele inclina-se para ti

You can’t explain it but it’s just a sign of attraction and  tensão sensual he can’t resist.

This generally isn’t a real body language sign that he likes you, but it shows he is interested in you and wants to hear what you have to say.

Take yourself for example. When you’re around people you’re close to and whose opinion you’re interested in, you’re likely to lean toward them, even if totally subconsciously.

It’s a natural reaction. Those with whom you feel a strong pull make you want to lean in closer.

So if you’ve noticed this guy getting closer to you inch by inch, you know what the deal is.

He wouldn’t be doing it if he didn’t feel a strong pull toward you.

As I said, physical attraction is something you can hardly fight. When you feel it, you act accordingly in the presence of that person (whether you’re aware of it or not).

8. Ele aponta os dedos dos pés na tua direção

You’ve probably heard about this one. It’s very easy to approach this matter from a purely logical side.

Se ele apontar os pés na sua direção, isso significa que gosta de si, mas o momento em que aponta os pés é crucial.

If you’re talking to him or touching him on his shoulder – actually showing any signs that you like him – and his feet point in another direction, then he’s probably no longer interested in you.

But if you’re doing all of the aforementioned, and he points his toes toward you, it’s an obvious sign of reciprocal feelings.

All on its own, it doesn’t necessarily guarantee you a wild carnal attraction, but it’s a good enough start.

Along with all the other signs, it’s a good reason for you to start making physical contact and explore this uncharted territory.

9. Ele toca na garganta

This sign is tricky because it’s done by two kinds of guys: honest ones and dishonest ones.

Se o considerarmos como um bom sinal, a investigação demonstrou que tocar na garganta significa mostrar vulnerabilidade.

So if he’s willing to be vulnerable in front of you, that’s a sign of attraction.

But if he’s a bonafide jerk, then him touching his throat means he’s lying. So before jumping to any conclusions, read the rest of the signs before making any decisions.

If your guy exhibits some of the other signs that I’ve mentioned, then this is definitely a good thing. On its own, however, it doesn’t hold much merit.

10. Ele caminha ao teu lado

Pode olhar para a forma como ele caminha de uma perspetiva psicológica e descobrir muitas coisas interessantes sobre os seus sentimentos por si.

Se ele andar à sua frente, isso significa que está mais preocupado consigo próprio do que consigo e é provavelmente muito egoísta.

But if he walks by your side, he cares for you and sees you as his equal, and that’s the direction in which you want to go.

It’s very simple and reassuring. Walking by your side, following your pace and not rushing ahead or slowing down for no apparent reason shows you that he’s comfortable right where he is.

Seguir o seu exemplo e ver onde o leva.

10 sinais não físicos de atração masculina

Now that we’ve covered the physical aspects of male attraction, let’s delve into a different side to this whole thing.

Other than showing it with his body and gaze, there are other ways a guy will show you he’s got a crush on you.

Como, perguntar-se-ão?

Através do seu comportamento e tendências quando está na sua presença.

Here, I won’t be talking about how his leaning in means that he’s into you, here, we’ll see what his behavior uncovers about his intentions.

It’s in the way he talks and how he reacts to certain things regarding you. It’s in the things he notices that not many do, and how nervous he gets when it’s just the two of you.

Before I give it all away, you can find out what I’m talking about below and see for yourself. So… Does he check any of these boxes?

11. Ele fala de si próprio

But in a good way! He isn’t full of himself or obnoxiously exhausting by blabbing about himself all the time.

Instead, he occasionally mentions a few of his qualities and the things he likes and doesn’t like.

Normalmente, ele fala dos seus aspectos positivos, o que é perfeitamente razoável, uma vez que gosta de si e quer que goste dele também.

Ele fala de si próprio porque quer que o vejam da melhor forma possível.

You can’t blame a guy for trying so hard, only to be noticed by you, right? It’s endearing and so sweet, really.

If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t bother because who cares what you think? He is who he is.

When he’s super into you, though, he’ll make sure to show you his best side (just like you would too).

12. He’s a good listener

So, there’s a big difference between guys who just act like they’re present while you’re talking to them and the ones who actually give a damn about what you have to say.

If you see that he is looking through you and not at you, he is probably just hearing murmurs and not paying attention to a single word you’re saying.

But when he actually participates in the conversation and shows interest in what you have to say, then that’s um sinal evidente de atração.

Guys tend to just lose your train of thought halfway because they can’t be bothered to listen to a girl go on about her girly stuff.

But when a guy actually listens and offers input, girl… you’ve got him hooked. You and I both know that men have selective hearing.

So this right here really proves how deeply he’s crushing on you.

13. Ele fica com ciúmes

Jealousy is good as long as it’s under control. A bit of jealousy shows you that the person likes you and is worried he might lose you.

But if this goes too far, it can show he’s possessivo e quer-te só para ele, o que, claro, não é uma coisa boa.

Se vir um lado possessivo nele, prepare-se, pois ele pode querer capturá-la e não a deixar respirar.

But if you see a hint of jealousy, it means he really cares for you and is just worried he might lose something he cherishes – you.

Jealousy is actually a really good sign of a guy’s affection, as long as it’s not overwhelmingly substantial.

It’s about caring who you spend time with when you’re not around him (is there another guy in your life?), wanting to be near you all the time, and feeling a hint of jealousy upon seeing a male friend talking to you (is he secretly into you as well?) and so many more little things!

It’s a really obvious sign and you know this is the case.

Guys don’t get jealous over girls they’re not into.

14. Ele quer passar mais tempo consigo

Se ele sacrifica o seu tempo livre para estar consigo, então pode ter a certeza absoluta de que ele gosta de si e quer estar consigo.

If he’s seeking your attention by asking you random questions, it means that he cares about your opinion and, therefore, you.

Se o vires a agarrar-se desesperadamente a qualquer tipo de conversa simplesmente para te manter por perto, este tipo está apaixonado por ti!

Passar tempo com alguém significa querer realmente estar perto dessa pessoa, sem qualquer outra razão que não seja desfrutar totalmente da sua presença.

And if your guy seems to always be around… you know what it means. Go get him, girl!

15. Ele age de forma diferente perto de si

You’ll get the best proof of this theory if you observe his behavior when he’s out with his friends or just surrounded by the people he loves.

If he acts differently around you than everybody else, then there’s something there.

If he’s nervous or less loud than usual, it means he changes his behavior around you because he is being careful not to blow your relationship.

E a parte mais fixe é que, provavelmente, ele fá-lo sem sequer o saber.

People change their way of speaking, walking, or simply standing, depending on who they’re around.

If there’s someone he wants to impress, he’ll instantly try to fix anything that might need fixing and change how he is, in order to give himself the best shot at you liking him back!

So don’t worry if you see him fidgeting around you or being an awkward flirt.

His body doesn’t know what to do with itself when you’re there as the feelings are too strong to be acting rationally.

16. Ele faz-lhe elogios

Os homens são criaturas visuais, ao contrário das mulheres. As mulheres gostam de se exprimir verbalmente, enquanto os homens se limitam a ver e a observar.

If he compliments you, it means that he’s been watching you and feels atraídos para ti, por isso quer dizer-te isso porque gosta de ti.

Ele quer fazer-te sentir bem para marcar alguns pontos contigo porque quer estar contigo.

Se receber um elogio de um amigo próximo, however, that probably isn’t a sign of attraction, but just a friendly input on acknowledging your good looks or something you did right.

It’s important to know the difference between a guy who has a crush on you and a friend simply complimenting you out of the kindness of his heart.

When it comes from the guy you like, you’ll just be able to feel that there’s so much more there than a simple compliment. You need to be able to read between the lines.

17. He’s interested in the things you’re interested in

Try to mention a few things you like casually in conversation – for example, a band you like or your favorite singer.

If when you see him next he asks you to go to your favorite singer’s concert with him, you can definitely be sure he likes you and is attracted to you.

There’s something even better than this, and that’s if he actually grows to like something you like.

Então pode ter a certeza de que ele é interessado em si e quer ter algo mais consigo.

Quantas vezes tentaste convencer o teu melhor amigo que se recusava a dar uma oportunidade ao teu cantor preferido e que nunca tinha ouvido uma única canção?

But this guy will not only listen to one song, but he’ll also check out the entire album, give you a list of his favorite jams and ask you for more artists to check out! Who does that?

Um tipo que gosta de ti e quer estar nas tuas boas graças!

Take a hint. I’m sure the music you’re showing him is rad, but I bet there’s someone else he’s even more interested in than the artist in question.

18. Os amigos dele gozam com ele por tua causa

This sign of attraction is completely undeniable. If he likes you, he’ll definitely tell his friends all about it.

So the next time you’re among his friends, watch them closely, and if they tease him or make jokes at his expense, then you can be sure he likes you but just hasn’t told you about it yet.

This has always been a dead giveaway of a man’s affection.

Lembra-se, no liceu, de como o rapaz por quem tinha uma paixoneta (ou vice-versa) acabava sempre por ser gozado à sua volta e você sabia (e provavelmente odiava) que ele estava interessado em si.

Only now, as grown-ups, it’s a more mature version.

Now, you don’t want to turn invisible when this happens because now you know better!

19. Ele repara quando mudas de visual

Men don’t usually keep track of this. You can get a haircut or change the color of your hair and they won’t notice it, even if you were literally flaunting your new look in their faces.

But when you’ve been around a particular guy enough, and suddenly you changed your look, he’ll start noticing the changes.

A guy who likes you pays special attention to the way you look and behave, so any new changes won’t go unnoticed.

This is the clear sign that you’ve been looking for.

I bet your own dad wouldn’t notice if you got a buzz-cut (dads… am I right?) but a guy who instantly sees and comments on your new appearance, clearly has been paying close attention to you for a while.

20. Ele provoca-te de uma forma engraçada

When a guy teases you in a polite and honest way, it’s cute. It’s his way of making you understand that he likes you and has a esmagamento em si.

Ele quer ver a sua reação e que você o provoque para tornar as coisas mais interessantes.

Ele pode chamar-lhe alcunhas idiotas, fazer brincadeiras ou provocá-la com algo que detesta em si mesma, mas de uma forma engraçada e sedutora, sem comentários maldosos.

Ele só quer que reajas e o provoques. E o mais importante é que ele quer descobrir se existe alguma atração entre vocês os dois, porque do lado dele existe de certeza.

He’s throwing you a bone and if you’re smart, you’ll pick it up and reciprocate.

Explore the banter and see if it’s organic and natural. Being teased by a guy you like is one of the cutest (and most obvious) signs of male attraction.

Resumindo

Como pode ver, há muitas formas de descobrir se um rapaz gosta de si sem ter de lhe perguntar diretamente.

Pode ver isso através da linguagem corporal dele (ficar perto de si, inclinar-se), do contacto visual (ele olha para si e desvia imediatamente o olhar quando o apanha), e de tantas formas em que o comportamento dele será uma revelação imediata da sua paixão por si!

Take this professional advice in stride. Help yourself stop fidgeting around this guy and make physical contact to see if there’s a telltale sign of his interest.

Make sure you’re not invading his personal space because that can hurt his self-esteem.

Every guy handles their feelings toward a romantic interest in their own way, and if you’re dealing with a shy guy, it’s best to wait for a dead giveaway or clear signs of attraction to be certain before rushing into unknown waters.

Guys are peculiar beings and they’ll often wait for ages to act on their feelings because they don’t want to bite off more than they can chew.

Mas se vir o rapaz a agir de forma estranha à sua volta, a mostrar sinais invulgares de proteção e a estar sempre perto de si, dê-lhe uma oportunidade e dê o primeiro passo.

He’s giving you all the signals and now all you have to do is acknowledge them and show him that his point has been received loud and clear.

And now that you’ve finally got that out of the way, it’s time to get this show on the road!