Como fazer com que ele te queira: 31 Proven Ways To Get Him Hooked

Está a pensar como faz com que ele te deseje? Ou como fazer com que ele sinta a sua falta and want you back? Today you’ll learn everything you need to know about a arte de o fazer perseguir-te e colam-se a ti como cola!

Let me guess what’s going on in your head right now: “If I text him first, he’ll probably think of me as desperate.

If I put him on a pedestal, he’ll probably take me for granted. Seriously, will anyone tell me o que os homens querem numa mulher?”

Ainda não há muito tempo, estava a pensar nas mesmas coisas e a fazer-me as mesmas perguntas.

I’ve realized that my biggest mistake was pressuring and “begging” um homem para reparar em mim, o que é um enorme desinteresse em todos os sentidos do seu significado.

I’ve learned the hard way that a única maneira de faz com que ele te deseje é dar-lhe algum espaço para o conquistar! Os homens apaixonam-se por mulheres que têm medo de perder.

Os homens ADORAM mulheres confiantes que sabem o que querem e que nunca se contentam com menos do que merecem.
Know what you want, and you’ll make him want you!

Show him that you’re um tipo de mulher única na vida, and you’ll faz com que ele te deseje!

Stop overthinking things and realize that you don’t need to be perfect to fit the definition of his dream girl.

Don’t beg for respect and appreciation, but demand it. Don’t try hard to hide your imperfections, but embrace them. Be a challenge, and that’s how you’ll faz com que ele te persiga!

Atraí-lo como um íman: 21 segredos sobre como fazer com que ele a queira muito

Ser despreocupado

I don’t know about you ladies, but I know for sure that I DON’T need a man to make me happy. Do you know why? Because I am happy with or without him.

Agir despreocupadamente tem tudo a ver com estar contente consigo própria e não precisar de um homem para se sentir completa. Quando ele vir isso, vai vê-la como um desafio. Estará pronto a fazer tudo para a conquistar.

Now, being carefree is not about acting like you don’t care. It’s about desfrutar da sua vida e fazer o que o faz feliz.

As raparigas despreocupadas e descontraídas são as mais interessantes de se ter por perto.

You could look like a model on the cover of a magazine, but if he senses that you’re having difficulties living your life and being who you are, he will not chase you.

Impressione-o com a sua inteligência e criatividade

Sim, todos sabemos que os homens são criaturas visuais, mas há outras formas de os impressionar para além da sua aparência. Acredita em mim. Nenhum homem consegue ficar indiferente a uma mulher espirituosa, encantadora e criativa.

Impressione um homem com a sua inteligência e criatividade, e ele ficará colado a si como se fosse cola.

He will enjoy your every conversation (virtual or face-to-face), and he will do his best to make you realize that he’s the one for you.

Again, good looks may attract him, but it’s your personality that will keep him hooked. Contradict him, have powerful arguments, tease him, and be creative in every field and you’ll make him want you BADLY.

Permita que ele o entretenha

Girls often forget that it’s not their job to keep their men entertained. Of course, this doesn’t mean that they should never crack a joke and make men laugh, but it means they shouldn’t try too hard.

Instead, allow him to entertain you. Yup, let him make you laugh, and he’ll be determined to become the only man who’ll ever make you laugh (maybe I’ve exaggerated it a little bit, but you get the idea).

Compliment his great sense of humor, and you’ll make him feel special for being capable of making you laugh.

Remember that guys are really sensitive about this. A girl enjoying their company is every guy’s biggest achievement!

Estabelecer limites

Independentemente de querer fazer com que o seu ex o queira de volta ou de querer atrair alguém novo, lembre-se de estabelecer sempre limites. O que é que isto significa?

It means that you shouldn’t let them take you for granted or that you go out of your way only to please them.

Setting boundaries will show them that you’re a strong, independent woman, and you won’t tolerate disrespect or him mistreating you.

If he does something you’re not okay with, make sure to let him know. Don’t make him think that you’ll always be there for him no matter what and no matter how he treats you.

Also, don’t make excuses for his behavior. Expect him to explain himself and apologize for his actions. If he doesn’t, then you know he’s not worthy of being with you (and he’ll know that as well).

Cuidar de si mental e fisicamente

I understand. When you really like someone, you can’t help but think about them 24/7, focus only on their needs, and daydream about being with them when you’re not.

Tudo isto pode levá-la a negligenciar as suas próprias necessidades. Quando deixar de dar prioridade a si própria, ele começará a tomá-la por garantida.

Don’t EVER forget to put your well-being in first place no matter how much you like him. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically.

Meditate, hit the gym, go for a walk, read a good book… Don’t let negative things and people drain you. Taking care of yourself means investing in your own happiness.

Recordar as seguintes palavras: Nenhum homem resiste a uma mulher que transpira confiança e se sente bem na sua própria pele!

Ser ambicioso

Tem algum passatempo interessante? Quais são as suas paixões? Se precisa de mais tempo para pensar nas respostas a estas duas perguntas, então algo tem de mudar.

Pense em todas as coisas que gosta de fazer na vida. Quais são as coisas que fazem os seus olhos brilhar de alegria quando fala delas? Pois bem, são essas coisas que o vão atrair.

Nada é mais poderoso do que uma mulher ambiciosa, pronta a conquistar o mundo e a fazer qualquer coisa (está bem, não é bem qualquer coisa) para atingir os seus objectivos e tornar os seus sonhos realidade.

Dizem que somos o que pensamos. Os nossos pensamentos representam os nossos desejos. Os nossos desejos transformam-se em acções e as acções em realizações.

Todos os homens querem conquistar uma mulher ambiciosa, apaixonada e bem-sucedida, porque sabem que é preciso muita habilidade para o conseguir! E esta é a resposta à sua pergunta: Como é que o fazes desejar-te?

Ser misterioso

Um erro comum que muitas raparigas cometem quando se trata de rapazes é revelar demasiada informação sobre si próprias.

Com isso, quero dizer contar-lhes tudo, desde a sua comida favorita até às suas memórias engraçadas de infância.

It’s okay to share a few things with a guy you like because how else would you get to know each other, right? But you shouldn’t overdo it.

Here’s one of the most helpful dicas para o manter interessado em si para sempre: Remain mysterious. Give him information about you bit by bit, but don’t serve it all at once to him on a plate.

Don’t share every single detail from your life with him. I understand that you may feel the urge to share everything with him, but still, don’t do it if you want to make him chase you!

He won’t be that interested in the things you’re sharing with him, but he’ll get excited about all the things you’re about to share with him in the future. That is how you’ll deixá-lo viciado.

Faça-o sentir-se como seu protetor

Remember all those movies where a guy protects his girl from her enemies and helps her deal with life’s hardships?

Isto não é uma coincidência, porque acontece tanto na vida real como nos filmes (embora nos filmes a sua atitude protetora seja muitas vezes exagerada).

The thing is, every guy wants to know that he’s capable of protecting you! Men LOVE it when you make them feel like they can take care of you and protect you from all those villains and life’s challenges.

Dear ladies, all you need to do is allow them to do so. You need to make your guy feel like he’s your protector even though you’re perfectly capable of taking care of yourself.

By allowing him to show off his strength and help you out, he’ll feel powerful and useful. Through time he’ll become addicted to this feeling, i.e., he’ll become addicted to you.

Ser espontâneo e imprevisível

Recently a guy told me that he could never guess what I would do next. I asked him if he likes that about me, and he said, “Maybe.” We all know that maybe actually means yes, so I took that as a compliment.

If you want to win a guy’s heart and make him want you badly, then you need to learn the art of being spontaneous and unpredictable!

Why? (I’m warning you, I’m going to be brutally honest in the following few sentences): Because guys don’t like boring, generic girls who don’t know how to have fun or girls who take themselves too seriously.

They want to be with a girl who will make them feel alive and always make them wonder what she will do next. They don’t want to be with someone who is predictable in every aspect of their life.

You don’t need to be a reckless and untamed girl to be considered spontaneous and unpredictable. All you need to do is change your behavior and routine from time to time.

Por exemplo, don’t send him the same generic text messages over and over again, como O que andas a fazer?  Como é que está?

Seja criativo, envie-lhe um vídeo engraçado ou uma selfie engraçada, pergunte-lhe perguntas estimulantes que o faça pensar.

So, if you’re wondering how to make him want you over text, that’s how you do it, girl!

Dê-lhe algum espaço para sentir a sua falta

Don’t shower him with your undivided attention 24/7, don’t bombard him with one hundred text messages after the first date, don’t insist that he spends all of his free time with you.

Em vez disso, dê-lhe algum tempo sozinho para sentir a sua falta! Sim, sabia que os homens se apaixonam pela sua ausência e não pela sua presença?

They need more time to sort out their feelings, and they can’t do it in your presence. They need some space to figure out how they really feel about you.

If you give him that space, he’ll think of you as a true goddess and, best of all, you’ll fazê-lo pensar em si a toda a hora! Sim, leu bem.

Honestly, if you want a guy to miss you and only think about you, you need to give him some space and show him that you’re not needy or clingy.

Lembro-me de quando estava a perder a cabeça por causa de um homem e, quando finalmente lhe dei espaço pela primeira vez, senti-me verdadeiramente amada e apreciada.

Now I’m always extra careful about not spending too much time with someone I’m crazy about.

Estar confiante e confortável na sua própria pele

Sempre que penso em auto-confiança, imagino uma mulher a caminhar orgulhosamente pela rua com uma postura direita e uma aura sedutora que grita: I’m in love with myself!

Se um homem passar por uma mulher assim, vira imediatamente a cabeça e absorve a sua personalidade divina e cheia de autoestima.

Adivinha, tu também podes ser essa mulher, mas só se quiseres! No, you don’t need to wear heels or skirts to catch his attention.

You can wear pajamas if you want to as long as you’re wearing them with pride and confidence. Nine times out of ten, a guy will not even notice what a girl is wearing, but he will notice her attitude.

O meu conselho é: Don’t worry too much about what you’re wearing but pay attention to how you’re wearing it.

Also, don’t worry too much about what you’re talking to him about but how you’re doing it. You don’t need to always be right to be considered self-confident.

Admitting when you’re wrong is also a strong sign of self-confidence.

Manter o interesse e a paixão

You’re probably thinking to yourself: Stay interested in what? The answer is simple: Stay interested in life and all the small things around you.

Ao manter-se interessada, manter-se-á interessante, o que é a chave para captar e MANTER a atenção dele!

Gosta de desenhar, cantar ou brincar com o seu animal de estimação? Então tire uma fotografia do seu desenho e mostre-lha, ou faça um vídeo engraçado com o seu animal de estimação e publique-o.

O que quer que se faça é melhor do que não fazer nada. Don’t worry too much about how to make a man want you, but think about living your life to the fullest.

Continue a alimentar as suas paixões e relações com as pessoas mais próximas de si, continue a fazer coisas que significam muito para si, e ELE VAI reparar nisso.

He will see that you’re not a passive observer but an active participant in your life, which is the HOTTEST quality one can have.

Compreender o que o motiva

Acha que sabe o que ele quer neste momento? Se quer que ele a deseje, tem de saber exatamente o que se passa na cabeça dele.

Have you ever dealt with emotionally unavailable men? If he’s giving you mixed signals, then you know something is off, and he’s not ready to commit or open himself up to you.

Nesse caso, a pior coisa que pode fazer é continuar a pressioná-lo e exigir que ele se ligue a si.

You need to understand what makes him tick, and you’ll do that by finding the best approach that will naturally draw him to you.

If you know that he’s been hurt before or you notice a few signs of questões de confiançaé necessário aprender a arte de fazer com que um homem emocionalmente indisponível se apaixone convosco.

In other words, you need to give him some space, and he’ll come to you when he’s ready. He will appreciate your understanding and patience.

Em suma, tem de saber comunicar corretamente, e isso fará com que ele a deseje MUITO.

Ser investido (mas não demasiado)

I’m not a relationship expert, but I can tell you for sure that being too invested will only backfire on you (speaking from experience).

I know how much you want him to like you back, but you shouldn’t try too hard to win him.

If you do that, then you’ll no longer be a challenge to him. He will think that he’s already won you, and now he no longer needs to make an effort.

Surprise him from time to time, compliment him, organize a romantic dinner, but don’t make him think that you’ll do it every day. Text him first sometimes but don’t be the one to always initiate conversation.

Be invested but don’t be too invested because he might lose interest.

Se quer dominar a arte de fazer com que ele a deseje, aprenda a encontrar um equilíbrio entre o seu afeto por ele e uma quantidade razoável de atenção e tempo que lhe deve dar.

Pedir-lhe ajuda ou assistência

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been the kind of woman to ask men for help or assistance. I’ve always been too stubborn, thinking that I can manage it and that I don’t need their help.

Perhaps I’ve seen it as a game of dominance, and I certainly didn’t want them to win. Boy, was I wrong. I didn’t realize one important thing: Os homens são aqueles que querem proteger-te.

I didn’t want to allow them to help me with things because I thought this would make me appear weak in their eyes.

Pelo contrário, se lhes pedir ajuda, estará a dar-lhes a oportunidade de se sentirem poderosos e úteis para si.

Os homens querem saber que são capazes de proteger a sua mulher e ajudá-la a lidar com as coisas.

If you tell a man that you have a problem, he will instantly stop doing whatever he’s doing and start thinking about solutions.

It’s in their nature to take care of their women, and all you need to do is allow them to act like superheroes because this will make them want you.

É isso que os motivará a continuar a impressioná-lo com as suas competências.

Tomar por vezes a iniciativa

Did you know that men LOVE women who take initiative from time to time? I’ll explain to you why.
Because this shows self-confidence and, let’s say, dominance.

Also, it shows him that you’re interested and invested.

Men don’t want to always be the ones suggesting or initiating things. If they see that a woman is doing nothing but only waiting for them to do everything, they will lose interest.

It’s the law of the universe. It’s how dating and relationships work. Okay, it’s not really the law of the universe, but it definitely should be.

A reciprocidade é a chave. If he’s always the one asking you on a date, surprise him by being the first one to ask him on a date for a change.

If he’s the one always initiating cuddling and steamy sessions (if you catch my drift), then change the roles and show him how bold and confident you are. Send mensagens de texto obscenas para ele ou escolher alguns destes coisas esquisitas para dizer ao seu namorado. Mostra-lhe o quanto o desejas pessoalmente. Confia em mim. Isso vai deixá-lo TOTALMENTE louco por ti.

Conhecer os seus amigos

Here’s one of the most helpful pieces of advice from me to you: If you want to make him want you, you need to make his friends like you as well.

Let me demonstrate this to you. Let’s say that you’re going to a party with your guy and his friends or just a casual hangout (pizza, movies).

Depois de irem para casa, certifique-se de que os amigos dele partilham com ele as impressões que têm de si (especialmente se for a primeira vez que o encontram).

If you haven’t made an effort to meet his friends and socialize with them, they will notice. A melhor maneira de conquistar os amigos dele é descontrair, divertir-se com eles e vê-los como seus amigos também.

Once your guy hears cool things about you (from his friends’ mouths), he will want you even more.

Ele ver-vos-á como material de namoradae os seus amigos terão provavelmente inveja dele por ter uma mulher tão inspiradora e divertida na sua vida.

Ser brincalhão

Se queres ganhar aquele tipo, tens de aprender como falar com um rapaz de uma forma divertida e lúdica, tanto virtualmente como no mundo real.

Quando se trata de enviar mensagens de texto, a melhor maneira de tornar as coisas interessantes é DESFRUTAR as mensagens de texto com ele.

If you yourself are bored with the texts you’re sending him and the overall conversation, then you know something needs to change. Then you know that you need to step up your game!

Apimente as coisas com emojis, GIFs ou memes divertidos e conte-lhe aquela situação engraçada no trabalho. Seja criativo.

The goal here is to make him want MORE texts from you where he’ll read them with excitement because he’ll never know what you’ll send next.

Manter as coisas interessantes e divertidas é um dos ingredientes mais importantes para que ele fique viciado em si.

Esqueça a ideia de se fazer de difícil e ignorar as mensagens dele durante três horas. Há tantas coisas brilhantes formas de o fazer correr atrás de si sem se fazer de difícile a minha preferida é sermos nós próprios autênticos.

Ser grato

Now you’re probably wondering: how will being thankful make him want you? Let me tell you how.

Let’s say that he does something nice for you or helps you with something. He’ll expect that you say thank you to him as a sign of appreciation for his effort and willingness to ‘be at your service.’

Isto fá-lo-á sentir-se importante e protetor em relação a si. Isso também o motivará a continuar a dar o seu melhor para o ajudar no futuro.

Muitas vezes esquecemo-nos de expressar a nossa gratidão tanto pelas pequenas como pelas grandes coisas. Por isso, lembre-se de agradecer, não só pelas grandes coisas, mas também por todas as pequenas coisas que ele faz por si.

Be thankful, and he’ll want to do more good things for you. Be thankful, and you’ll make him want you.

It’s as simple as that. Also, if you’re having difficulties practicing gratitude, here are some amazing citações de agradecimento para inspirar a gratidão durante todo o ano!

Desfrutar da vida

A woman who knows how to have fun alone, with her guy, or with her friends is a real jewel. Ask any man, and he’ll confirm this.

Let’s be real. Not a single person in the world enjoys being with someone who doesn’t know how to be in the moment and enjoy the little things in life.

If you’re wondering how to make him want you more or how to make him want you again, here’s a recipe for success: Vive a tua própria vida.

Have fun with your best friends, discover your passions, follow your heart, dance, and do whatever makes you happy (of course, if it’s not harmful to you or the people around you).

And that’s how you’ll make a man fall for you. He would kill to be with such an inspiring woman. He will want to spend every single minute with you because you know how to enjoy life.

Sabe como transformar cada momento numa recordação especial para os dias vindouros.

Seja VOCÊ

The media often bombards us with all that perfection, which is fake, of course. We begin to think that being something we’re not will bring us happiness and potentially attract that guy or girl we’re into.

Well, it won’t. The only way to win someone is to be you – an imperfect human being with a unique personality.

I’m happy to say that in my current relationship, I don’t have the urge to be anyone else but myself. My love life has always been a huge burden for me, but now I can say for sure that I’ve never been happier.

Depois de trabalhar a minha auto-confiança, já não me preocupo com o que os outros pensam de mim. Sinto-me livre para ser eu próprio.

I feel free to tell my partner ‘I love you’ whenever I want to or communicate without overthinking things.

O mundo está cheio de imitadores, por isso a forma mais fácil de se destacar da multidão é ser você mesmo. Don’t be perfect. Don’t be anything that others tell you that you should be.

Seja quem realmente é, e ele vai notar.

Se queres que ele te deseje, então evita fazer estas 10 coisas:

Don’t be too nice

Do yourself a favor and don’t be one of those girls who would do anything and everything to make their guy happy. Don’t be too nice.

Don’t just nod at every single comment and sentence of theirs. Have your own opinion on things, and don’t be afraid to contradict him.

THAT’S what will make him think that you’re a self-confident woman who knows how to express herself.

Uma relação saudável ou atrair alguém não tem a ver com ser demasiado simpático, mas sim com saber comunicar as suas ideias e sentimentos.

If you want to learn how to make him want you bad, you’ll need to be more flexible. You’ll need to fall in love with yourself (if you haven’t yet).

If you don’t trust me on this one, then trust these lyrics from one of Billie Eilish’s amazing songs:

“All the good girls go to hell

‘Cause even God herself has enemies

E quando a água começa a subir

And heaven’s out of sight

She’ll want the devil on her team…”

Let’s just say that being too nice is overrated, but being yourself and knowing how to express yourself in interesting ways is trending.

Don’t showcase clinginess or neediness

“I was waiting for you to call/text me, but you didn’t! Why do you always ignore me? I need you. I feel so lonely.”

If you’ve ever said some of these sentences or all of the above to a guy, from this day forward, stop doing that. Why? Because it SCREAMS clinginess and neediness.

Lembrem-se do que dissemos: You don’t need a guy to make you happy because you’re already happy on your own, and it’s up to him if he wants to join you or not. Either way, you’ll be just fine, and you’ll still have fun with or without him.

A namorada carente is every guy’s biggest nightmare because it makes them feel pressured. No one likes to feel that way. We all like to have a choice in life.

If your guy feels like he needs to be available for you 24/7, he won’t be happy about it.

But, if you give him some space and show him that you DON’T need him, he’ll be more than happy to join you. It’s just how things work.

Don’t play games

Do you think that playing games with him will make him want you? Think again. The only people who like playing games are players. If you don’t want to attract one, then it’s high time you stop playing games.

Se quiser atrair um homem de qualidade and establish a loving relationship, don’t play games but fazê-lo matar para ser seu namorado.

Don’t give him mixed signals or play hard to get. I mean, it’s okay to ignore him from time to time but don’t overdo it.

Em vez de jogar jogos, concentre-se em viver a sua melhor vida. Alimente o seu espírito aventureiro, mantenha-se ocupado e faça com que os seus perfis nas redes sociais pareçam excitantes.

By doing all that, he’ll notice that you’re a high-value woman, and he needs to make a serious effort to win you.

By doing that, he’ll see you as a challenge, and he’ll want to prove to you and the world that he’s worthy of being with you.

Of course, you’ll let him do just that.

When we put it like that, you will be playing games but without actually playing games. (I could write a few more complicated sentences at the moment, but I’ll stop myself right here because I don’t want to confuse you.)

Don’t make him your top priority

This one is closely connected with the first ‘Don’t be too nice’ sign. Don’t jump at his every word; don’t make excuses for him, and don’t break your own rules.

Don’t make him your top priority, and you’ll make him wonder why that is so. He will realize that you have so many exciting things happening in your life that you don’t have time to commit to him in full.

He’ll know that you appreciate yourself more than you appreciate him. Also, he’ll know that you love yourself more than him.

My dear friend, that’s called the art of fazendo-o sofrer por ti. Dê-lhe algum espaço para mostrar os seus dotes e para a encher de afeto.

Don’t be the only one trying hard to make things work. Demand respect and act in accordance with your boundaries.

Don’t pretend to be something you’re not

And don’t pretend to be something you’re not. No, he won’t like you more if you’re wearing flawless makeup, the perfect outfit, shoes, or whatnot.

He will not like you more if you pretend that you’re into things that you’re actually not. Don’t be afraid to be who you really are. Mostre-lhe como é genuína e bonita por dentro e por fora.

I have always been a little bit tomboyish, and I really don’t like wearing heels or anything girly like that. Even if I know that a guy likes girly girls, I don’t pretend that I’m one of them because I’m not.

I know that the right one for me will like me the way I am. He won’t mind my natural looks, weird sense of fashion, my flaws, and imperfections.

De facto, são estas as coisas que os homens acham atraentes em nós.

They don’t care about whether you’re wearing makeup or not as long as you feel confident in your own skin. That’s what makes you truly beautiful, and that’s what will make him want you.

Don’t be jealous

Está numa situação de longa duração relação de compromisso but have some serious trust issues? Or you’re just insecure by nature? Do you have trouble letting your guy hang out with other women (his female friends)?

Jealousy is one of the leading ‘romance destroyers.’ Don’t be one of those girls who freak out over every single text message a guy receives from other females.

Conheço uma rapariga assim e tenho pena do namorado dela porque ela vê todas as mulheres da vida dele como uma ameaça (porque o ex a traiu).

I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before her guy will decide not to tolerate such behavior anymore.

Se quer aprender a fazer com que ele a deseje, trabalhe a sua autoestima e enfrente todos os problemas subjacentes possíveis (se os houver). Trabalhe a sua autoestima e o seu amor-próprio.

Fall in love with yourself first, and he’ll fall in love with you. Don’t let his actions make you jealous or insecure (if there is no reason for that).

If there’s anything I’ve learned so far, it’s the following: Os homens detestam drama. Stay away from that, and you’ll do just fine.

Don’t stalk him

No matter how curious you are about his life and what he’s doing at the moment, DON’T stalk him!

Seriously, just don’t. If you do, he’ll think of you as being a legit creep, which is the last thing you want him to think, right? Right.

Esta regra também se aplica às redes sociais. I know how tempting it is to spend half of the day going through his interesting posts and those cute selfies – been there, done that (and I’m not really proud of it).

Se passas metade do teu tempo a persegui-lo pessoalmente ou nas redes sociais, o que lhe vais dizer quando ele te fizer a seguinte pergunta: O que tem andado a fazer?

Will you tell him the truth (that you’ve been fantasizing about him and following his every move)?

That you know everything that’s going on in his life, that you’ve memorized every single outfit on his pics, and you know which colors match his face and aura perfectly?

Of course, you won’t say that. Why? Because it would be creepy.

So, don’t stalk him, but live your own life so that you have so many exciting things to tell him the next time he asks you: O que tem andado a fazer?

Dica extra: Mantenha a sua relação fora das redes sociais (you’ll thank me later).

Don’t overthink or analyze every single thing he says and does

Yes, you should definitely pay attention to his words and actions. Otherwise, how would you know that he’s into you or when something’s off, right?

But you shouldn’t overdo it because if you do, this will only make things worse. Pay attention to his body language, but don’t overthink it.

Don’t spend your nights trying to decipher that one little thing he did that annoyed you a lot.

I can assure you that he’s probably not even aware of any of that. I understand that it’s in our female nature to complicate things and overanalyze them.

We always think that there must be a legit reason behind every single action. And if we can’t find one, we’ll invent one just so that we have some material to overthink.

Se se convencer de que algo é verdade (mesmo que não seja), agirá de acordo com as suas crenças, o que só o deixará confuso.

Para facilitar a tarefa de pensar demasiado, eis alguns exemplos genuínos sinais de linguagem corporal que ele gosta de si em segredo:

• Ele está sempre virado para si.
• De repente, ele torna-se consciente da sua aparência.
• Ele toca-te sem querer.
• A sua voz muda.
• Tem as pupilas dilatadas e levanta as sobrancelhas.

Don’t text him or call him constantly (especially if he ignores you)

Interrogações como fazer com que ele te queira de volta em pouco tempo? Então esqueça envio duplo de mensagens de texto, constantemente a enviar-lhe mensagens ou a telefonar-lhe.

Permita-lhe viver a sua própria vida e dê-lhe algum espaço para pensar no que realmente quer.

Constantly demanding his attention will only let him know that you’re not living life to the fullest, which is not an attractive quality to have at all.

Think about all the exciting things you could do instead of thinking about him or texting him. Don’t put your life on hold just because you like that one guy.

Let him wonder what you’re doing at the moment. Give him some space for curiosity, and you’ll win him, and you’ll faz com que ele te deseje back in record time – the power of mystery.

Don’t put up with stuff you shouldn’t just because you like him

This rule applies to every single woman out there regardless of if you’re in a long-term relationship, if he’s your ex-boyfriend, or if you’re in uma relação à distância.

In other words, don’t be desperate! Don’t be willing to do anything to make him want you. If you’re not okay with something he does, let him know.

Don’t tolerate his bad behavior or lame excuses. You’re better than that. Once he sees that he can’t manipulate you because you’re not naive, he’ll be scared of losing you.

Yup, this will motivate him to be his best if he really cares about you. And if he doesn’t, there are plenty of other guys who will. I call this ‘the art of natural selection.’

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Relaxe e divirta-se!

Don’t worry too much about his body language, his words, or how to make him want you. Just have fun. Remember that dating and being in a relationship is a process that you should enjoy and não pensar demasiado.

Alguém me disse um dia: “97% of the things you worry about don’t even happen.” So, don’t worry about those things.

Preocupe-se com a sua felicidade, com o seu bem-estar e em passar tempo de qualidade com os seus entes queridos, e tudo o resto se encaixará.