5 coisas que acontecem quando ela começa a sentir-se desvalorizada

Infelizmente, o que a maioria dos homens tende a esquecer é que o amor não existe sem respeito e apreço.

Don’t get me wrong—this doesn’t mean that you are required to put your girl on a pedestal just because she is a good girlfriend or that you have to be constantly grateful for every little thing she does for the sake of the relationship.

No entanto, também não é aceitável tomar todos os esforços dela como garantidos. Não é aceitável que a faça sentir-se usada e aproveitada.

Because if you do, these 5 things will happen, and you’ll be more sorry than ever.

Ela começa a pensar demais

Quando a tua namorada repara que estás tomá-la como garantida and that you don’t respect everything she’s been doing for you, the overthinking starts.

Com o passar do tempo, ela fica triste e as perguntas sobre a vossa relação dominam-na completamente.

Estará ela a imaginar coisas? Estará a pedir demasiado? Estará a ser ingrata?

Sem darmos por isso, ela começa a analisar todas as situações possíveis, perguntando-se onde é que as coisas correram mal.

Ela sente-se mal amada

When a girl sees that her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate her enough, she starts doubting his feelings for her.

She starts questioning all the love you’ve ever given her, wondering if everything was fake.

Estaria apenas a fingir ser alguém que não é desde o início? Tudo isto foi um jogo?

Were you just trying to get into her pants and into her heart? Did you change with time or did you actually show your true colors once you saw that you’d managed to win her over?

Are you not aware of the pain you’re causing her? Or are you’re doing it on purpose?

Is all this part of your manipulation to make her feel bad about herself? Or do you really think that she doesn’t deserve a little more respect and appreciation?

Is she in a one-sided relationship, where she is the only one investing her entire self, while you couldn’t care less?

Will she ever get back all the love she’s been giving you?

Ela questiona o seu valor

Por conseguinte, a fase seguinte consiste em questionar o seu valor.

Esta rapariga fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para que visses o quanto ela te ama. Ela deu-te todo o seu coração e esforçou-se ao máximo por ti.

E, de alguma forma, ela acabou por ser o único que está a tentar and the only one caring. So, why isn’t she enough?

Why don’t you see everything she did for you, and how much she’s given you? Why don’t you consider her worthy of your time, effort, and energy?

Passado algum tempo, ela começa mesmo a culpar-se pelo seu comportamento, perguntando-se se poderia ter feito algo para o evitar.

Ela é culpada? Ela fez algo de errado que o levou a tratá-la desta forma?

No entanto, a parte mais triste é que esta rapariga começa a pensar em si própria como não sendo suficientemente boa para ninguém neste mundo.

After all, if the guy who should be her life partner doesn’t consider her worthy of his appreciation, what could she expect from everyone else?

Deep down, she knows that she’s given you everything she had and more.

She knows she doesn’t have anything more to offer, but that is still obviously not enough. So, what is left for her to do?

But then she opens her eyes…

Well, I’ll tell you what is left for her to do: to take off her rose-colored glasses and finally see the eye-opening truth. And that is exactly what she’ll do!

After many inner struggles, this girl will finally realize the truth, and she will understand that you are the one who isn’t enough.

She will remember everything she invested in you without receiving anything in return, and for the first time ever, she’ll see you for what you really are: an ungrateful bastard and a selfish asshole.

She will see that you’re nothing more than an emotionally immature boy who tries to heal his insecurities by putting her down.

That you don’t know to recognize the true value of a woman and that you’re not worthy of her.

…And leaves you in the past

Alguns poderão dizer que ela vai demorar muito tempo a dar esse passo, mas, mais cedo ou mais tarde, essa rapariga vai acabar com o seu traseiro.

Ela vai parar assentamento por apenas as migalhas da tua atenção, e ela deixará de desperdiçar a vida à espera que te recomponhas.

This is something you never saw coming but guess what—the girl you never appreciated enough will turn her back on you and leave you in the past where you belong.

Yes, that is when you’ll probably start seeing her true worth, but it will be too late to make a difference.