5 sinais de que o tipo com quem andas a sair é duvidoso e tem más intenções
Nesta altura da sua vida, já não tem tempo para jogadores, trapaceiros ou homens tóxicos.
You’re farto e cansado de não quer jogar jogos e perguntar-se quando é que o próximo tipo lhe vai partir o coração. Só queres amor, esforço e compromisso.
Mas porque é que é tão difícil encontrar um bom rapaz hoje em dia? Terão sido todos engolidos pelo mar? Por vezes, parece mesmo que sim.
But if there’s any consolation in all of this, you can at least nip it in the bud with the next guy, before he gets to partir o teu coração.
You can’t change toxic people and make them change their bad ways but you sure as hell can see through their bullshit in time and get the hell out before it’s too late.
I know it’s not a lot but it’s something. Guys rarely change but luckily the same goes for their shitty habits and tendencies.
So I’ve come up with foolproof ways for you to see if you’re dealing with yet another asshole and help you make a run for it if need be.
So let’s start. Here are the 5 most obvious signs the guy you’re seeing is up to no good e deves ir embora agora mesmo.
Ele parece estar emocionalmente vazio
Por vezes, it feels like you’re dating an actual robot… He seems void of any emotion and doesn’t appear to be bothered by it.
Nada consegue obter uma reação dele e é tão indiferente a tudo o que se faz.
Deixem-me contar-vos um pequeno segredo. As pessoas que parecem assim não passam de jogadores que estão simplesmente a tentar esconder as suas acções de merda, não deixando transparecer qualquer emoção ou reação.
He is protecting himself and his lies by acting so aloof. Luckily, you’re all caught up now and you can safely say, “Next!”
A sua reputação precede-o
You’ve heard stories about him on occasion but you haven’t really given them much thought.
It’s easier to ignore the bad signs than to accept that you’re dealing with yet another loser with bad intentions.
But if it’s true that you’ve heard some stuff about him from more than one person, then it’s probably the truth.
Players have a reputation and it’s hard to get away from it. If he’s known to hit it and quit it and treats girls like commodities, you best start believing it.
A não ser que queira ser apenas mais uma marca no cinto dele, abra os olhos a todos os maus sinais e escolha acreditar neles.
It’s highly likely that it will happen to you, so I suggest you get ahead of this and don’t let him hurt you any more than he already has.
Ele parece ser capaz de mentir com tanta facilidade
You’ve caught him in a lie many a time but he always knew exactly what to say and convince you of his story.
He didn’t even flinch. He is so good with words and it didn’t faze him at all when you confronted him with his lies.
Isso deve-se ao facto de ele se ter tornado um mestre no seu ofício. São precisos anos de experiência para se ser tão bom e convincente como ele.
It doesn’t just happen overnight. People get nervous and anxious when they’ve been faced with their wrongdoings, so the fact that he didn’t says a LOT.
Só Deus sabe quantas vezes ele já lhe mentiu (e quantas vezes vai mentir-lhe no futuro).
It all starts with a little white lie. And when he sees how easy it is to blind you with his BS, he’s only going to become more crafty and more eager to push the limits. Don’t let him.
A maior parte da vossa relação é de natureza física
He doesn’t appear to be interested in you outside of the bedroom. You don’t really talk much but not because you don’t want to.
It’s because he never seems to be in the mood for a conversation. He is very convincing when he wants sex but when you seek more, he becomes another person.
Uma relação que gira apenas em torno do sexo e sem qualquer ligação emocional está condenado ao fracasso.
When one partner is severely emotionally neglected and the other one doesn’t even care to remedy it, it’s a sign of a toxic relationship.
You are not his puppet and you are more than what your body can offer. Don’t let good sex leave you with him.
He is merely using you and if you don’t sense he cares about you as a person, you’re probably right.
He doesn’t want you to meet his family and friends
Sempre que sugeria que se encontrasse com alguém da vida dele, ele opunha-se terminantemente.
Either they’re not in town or they’re busy or it’s simply not the right time. It is always something and he doesn’t seem to be running low on excuses.
This one’s a no-brainer. If you were important to him and he cared about you at all, eventually you would meet some of his family and friends.
That’s just how relationships work. But when he’s constantly against it, all you can presume is that he’s not really seeing you as a part of his life.
You are somebody he spends time with but when it comes to serious matters, you’re suddenly invisible.
Don’t put up with this for much longer. If he keeps you from his life—walk away from his.
There’s a reason he’s keeping you from his family and it’s probably not a good one. Leave and don’t look back.
