5 sinais seguros de que o seu amor à primeira vista vai durar

I didn’t even believe in love at first sight. How? How can you possibly know someone enough to love them without having any direct knowledge of who they are as a person?

It doesn’t make sense. It’s merely attraction on overload…

You look at someone, they get you going in all the right ways, you’re feeling things in all the right places, endorphins start rushing around, and BAM, you think you’re in love.

But you can’t possibly be in love… Or can you? Until it happened to me… I would have said no. Impossible.

It doesn’t make sense. It really doesn’t, even now, knowing what I know, and loving how I love. I still can’t explain how I came to love him from the moment he said, “Hello.”

O que sei com certeza é que o fiz.

E cada momento desde então tem sido uma série de confirmações de que o amor à primeira vista não só é possível, como é a melhor coisa que alguma vez me aconteceu!

Então, como é que se pode saber if it’s love at first sight? You can’t! O que pode fazer é seguir em frente e confiar nos seus próprios instintos. Se o sente, siga esse sentimento e veja onde ele o leva.

Pode acabar por se enganar, mas pode acabar por ser feliz para sempre. Aqui estão apenas alguns sinais a que pode estar atento ao longo do caminho para confirmar o que já sabe.

You feel like you’ve known each other forever.

Maybe it’s because you have? If it feels like your souls have been aligned since the beginning of time, it’s possible that they have.

Pode não saber exatamente quem é essa pessoa hoje, ou os acontecimentos específicos que levaram a este encontro.

But that feeling that you have been with this person before and now that you are with them again, you feel complete – it’s okay to trust that.

You don’t seem to get sick of each other.

Whether it’s love, lust, or infatuation, who cares?! Enjoy it.

Passem todo o vosso tempo a conhecer tudo sobre o outro e a descobrir todas as coisas que têm em comum e todas as coisas que vos tornam diferentes.

Descobrir o que vos atraiu um ao outro e descobrir que há muito mais para além disso é fantástico.

Ele faz-nos sentir seguros.

Tudo é novo e excitante, mas ao mesmo tempo familiar.

That little voice in the back of your head that always tells you when you’re about to do something stupid? Suddenly she is silent.

She has no red flags to throw up, no tales of caution to whisper in your ear. You start to wonder if she’s okay… She is.

She just doesn’t need to tell you anything. O instinto de que encontrámos algo real e maravilhoso é muito acertado.

Trust yourself, and if you immediately trust him, there’s probably a good reason for that.

Even when you don’t agree, you still respect each other.

The first time you don’t agree can easily snap you out of your reverie and leave you questioning your life choices.

If it doesn’t, that is a very good sign. How you are able to handle disagreements is a fundamental marker of what kind of relationship you will have.

If you find yourselves trying to understand each other’s differences and work through them, you are on a lasting track.

Todos os seus amigos e familiares aprovam.

Se as pessoas mais próximas de si conseguem ver o que você vê, o que mais procura?

Cupid is not going to show up and give you an actual sign, so at some point you’ve gotta stop looking for one.

This is not to say if your people aren’t on board right away, it’s not love…

It very well may be and they just need a little time to see what you see. But if they see it as soon as you do, that’s outta the ballpark!

por Tia Grace