5 segni sicuri che l'amore a prima vista durerà

I didn’t even believe in love at first sight. How? How can you possibly know someone enough to love them without having any direct knowledge of who they are as a person?

It doesn’t make sense. It’s merely attraction on overload…

You look at someone, they get you going in all the right ways, you’re feeling things in all the right places, endorphins start rushing around, and BAM, you think you’re in love.

But you can’t possibly be in love… Or can you? Until it happened to me… I would have said no. Impossible.

It doesn’t make sense. It really doesn’t, even now, knowing what I know, and loving how I love. I still can’t explain how I came to love him from the moment he said, “Hello.”

Quello che so per certo è che l'ho fatto.

E da allora ogni momento è stato una serie di conferme che l'amore a prima vista non solo è possibile, ma è anche la cosa migliore che mi sia mai capitata!

Come si fa a capire if it’s love at first sight? You can’t! Quello che potete fare è andare avanti e fidarvi del vostro istinto. Se lo sentite, seguite quella sensazione e vedete dove vi porta.

Potreste sbagliarvi, ma potreste anche ritrovarvi felici e contenti. Ecco alcuni segnali da tenere d'occhio lungo il percorso per confermare ciò che già sapete.

You feel like you’ve known each other forever.

Maybe it’s because you have? If it feels like your souls have been aligned since the beginning of time, it’s possible that they have.

Potreste non sapere esattamente chi sia questa persona oggi, o gli eventi specifici che hanno portato a questo incontro.

But that feeling that you have been with this person before and now that you are with them again, you feel complete – it’s okay to trust that.

You don’t seem to get sick of each other.

Whether it’s love, lust, or infatuation, who cares?! Enjoy it.

Dedicate tutto il vostro tempo a conoscere tutto dell'altro e a scoprire tutte le cose che avete in comune e quelle che vi rendono diversi.

Capire cosa vi ha attratto l'uno verso l'altro e scoprire che c'è molto di più è fantastico.

Ti fa sentire al sicuro.

Tutto è nuovo ed eccitante, ma allo stesso tempo familiare.

That little voice in the back of your head that always tells you when you’re about to do something stupid? Suddenly she is silent.

She has no red flags to throw up, no tales of caution to whisper in your ear. You start to wonder if she’s okay… She is.

She just doesn’t need to tell you anything. L'istinto di aver trovato qualcosa di vero e di meraviglioso è azzeccato.

Trust yourself, and if you immediately trust him, there’s probably a good reason for that.

Even when you don’t agree, you still respect each other.

The first time you don’t agree can easily snap you out of your reverie and leave you questioning your life choices.

If it doesn’t, that is a very good sign. How you are able to handle disagreements is a fundamental marker of what kind of relationship you will have.

If you find yourselves trying to understand each other’s differences and work through them, you are on a lasting track.

I vostri amici e la vostra famiglia approvano tutti.

Se le persone più vicine a voi possono vedere quello che vedete voi, cos'altro state cercando?

Cupid is not going to show up and give you an actual sign, so at some point you’ve gotta stop looking for one.

This is not to say if your people aren’t on board right away, it’s not love…

It very well may be and they just need a little time to see what you see. But if they see it as soon as you do, that’s outta the ballpark!

di Tia Grace