6 coisas surpreendentes que fazem um homem perder o respeito por si

Se pensa que os homens podem perder o respeito por si apenas se dormir com eles demasiado cedo, está enganada.

Há outras coisas que são muito mais importantes e às quais deve prestar atenção.

Preste atenção à forma como se comporta à frente dele e às mensagens que lhe está a enviar.

If your actions show that you’re too available, too giving or you don’t have a life of your own, he will lose respect for you and you will not know why he is acting so distant all of a sudden.

E se ele perder o respeito, também perderá instantaneamente a atração por si.

Se quiser evitar que isto aconteça, deve evitar fazer estas 6 coisas, a partir de agora.

Concorda com tudo o que ele diz

It is really rare to find a person who resembles our way of thinking to that level that we’re simply nodding all the time, without even listening to them anymore.

É praticamente impossível concordar com tudo o que ele diz se tivermos as nossas próprias opiniões.

And if you never interrupt him or say that you don’t agree with him, he will label you as someone who doesn’t have their own opinions and he will lose respect for you.

Don’t be afraid to say what you really mean and contradict him if necessary because these are the indicators that you have your own opinions and that you don’t care if he disagrees.

It means you’re confident in yourself and you don’t just nod to everything he says to you.

You’re too available

Por demasiado disponível, quero dizer que está sempre em alerta máximo, à espera de uma chamada ou de uma mensagem de texto dele e que responde no mesmo instante em que ouve o telefone tocar.

If you do this, he will think that you have no life and the only thing you’re doing is waiting next to your phone for him to call or text you.

Also, if he asks you out and you reply to him instantly that you’re excited about it and can’t wait to see him, you’ll become too available.

Even if you’re always available for a date night, don’t reply to him two seconds after he invites you.

Pretend, if you need to, that you have to check your schedule or just leave him to wait for some time so that he thinks you’re contemplating whether you should go with him or not.

That way you’re creating mystery and he will respeitar-vos se tiveres outras prioridades para além dele.

You don’t have boundaries

If he says something that annoys you or if he hurts your feelings voluntarily and you’re not letting him know, he will think that you’re too tolerant and he will know that he can do whatever he wants with you.

E é aí que se perde o respeito por ele.

Always have boundaries and stick to them. Don’t tolerate his bullshit only because you like him and you want to be the best for him.

You’re too nice all the time

Não há uma única pessoa que consiga agir sempre bem, independentemente das situações e circunstâncias.

Faz parte da nossa natureza que, por vezes, nos tornemos selvagens ou nos irritemos por alguma razão desconhecida.

And if you’re being too nice all the time just because you think he’s expecting you to be that way or that he will abandon you if you’re not nice, you’re making a huge mistake.

Ser demasiado simpática a toda a hora é desgastante e fará com que ele questione a sua personalidade.

He will know that you’re trying hard to be liked by him and because of that, he will lose his respect for you as well as his attraction.

You’re making him your only priority

Se estiver sempre presente e se se esforçar por surpreendê-lo e mostrar-lhe afeto, ele saberá que é a sua única prioridade e isso fá-lo-á perder o respeito por si.

You can never be 100% devoted to one thing that makes you happy because it’s not healthy.

You have to find a way to balance your love life with your friends and family and you should never only stick to one thing because that way you’re neglecting others who are equally important to be treated the same way.

Dá-lhe o tratamento do silêncio

If you’re constantly behaving in a modo passivo-agressivoIsso será um grande desestímulo para ele e fará com que ele perca o respeito por si.

Se algo o irrita and the only thing you do is go silent and ignore him for a little while and then act like nothing happened, he will know that something is bothering you but you’re not willing to share it with him.

This passive-aggressive treatment will annoy him and he’ll see you as weak because you don’t have the strength to say to him immediately if something is bothering you.

O tratamento de silêncio é o maior assassino da atração e do respeito e é algo que deve evitar a todo o custo.