6 cosas sorprendentes que hacen que un chico te pierda el respeto

Si crees que los chicos pueden perderte el respeto sólo si te acuestas con ellos demasiado pronto, te equivocas.

Hay otras cosas mucho más importantes a las que deberías prestar atención.

Presta atención a cómo te comportas delante de él y qué mensajes le estás enviando.

If your actions show that you’re too available, too giving or you don’t have a life of your own, he will lose respect for you and you will not know why he is acting so distant all of a sudden.

Y si te pierde el respeto, instantáneamente perderá también la atracción por ti.

Si quieres evitar que esto ocurra, debes evitar hacer estas 6 cosas, a partir de ahora.

Estás de acuerdo con todo lo que dice

It is really rare to find a person who resembles our way of thinking to that level that we’re simply nodding all the time, without even listening to them anymore.

Es prácticamente imposible estar de acuerdo con todo lo que dice si uno tiene sus propias opiniones.

And if you never interrupt him or say that you don’t agree with him, he will label you as someone who doesn’t have their own opinions and he will lose respect for you.

Don’t be afraid to say what you really mean and contradict him if necessary because these are the indicators that you have your own opinions and that you don’t care if he disagrees.

It means you’re confident in yourself and you don’t just nod to everything he says to you.

You’re too available

Por demasiado disponible me refiero a que siempre estás en alerta máxima, esperando su llamada o sus mensajes de texto y los contestas en el mismo instante en que oyes sonar tu teléfono.

If you do this, he will think that you have no life and the only thing you’re doing is waiting next to your phone for him to call or text you.

Also, if he asks you out and you reply to him instantly that you’re excited about it and can’t wait to see him, you’ll become too available.

Even if you’re always available for a date night, don’t reply to him two seconds after he invites you.

Pretend, if you need to, that you have to check your schedule or just leave him to wait for some time so that he thinks you’re contemplating whether you should go with him or not.

That way you’re creating mystery and he will respetarte si tienes otras prioridades además de él.

You don’t have boundaries

If he says something that annoys you or if he hurts your feelings voluntarily and you’re not letting him know, he will think that you’re too tolerant and he will know that he can do whatever he wants with you.

Y entonces es cuando le pierdes el respeto.

Always have boundaries and stick to them. Don’t tolerate his bullshit only because you like him and you want to be the best for him.

You’re too nice all the time

No hay una sola persona que pueda actuar amablemente todo el tiempo, independientemente de las situaciones y las circunstancias.

Está en nuestra naturaleza volvernos locos a veces o cabrearnos por alguna razón desconocida.

And if you’re being too nice all the time just because you think he’s expecting you to be that way or that he will abandon you if you’re not nice, you’re making a huge mistake.

Ser demasiado amable todo el tiempo es agotador y hará que se cuestione tu personalidad.

He will know that you’re trying hard to be liked by him and because of that, he will lose his respect for you as well as his attraction.

You’re making him your only priority

Si siempre estás ahí para él y siempre te esfuerzas por sorprenderle y demostrarle tu afecto, sabrá que él es tu única prioridad y eso hará que te pierda el respeto.

You can never be 100% devoted to one thing that makes you happy because it’s not healthy.

You have to find a way to balance your love life with your friends and family and you should never only stick to one thing because that way you’re neglecting others who are equally important to be treated the same way.

Le das el tratamiento de silencio

If you’re constantly behaving in a manera pasivo-agresivaEsto le desanimará y le hará perder el respeto por ti.

Si algo te cabrea and the only thing you do is go silent and ignore him for a little while and then act like nothing happened, he will know that something is bothering you but you’re not willing to share it with him.

This passive-aggressive treatment will annoy him and he’ll see you as weak because you don’t have the strength to say to him immediately if something is bothering you.

El tratamiento silencioso es el mayor asesino de la atracción y el respeto y esto es algo que querrás evitar a toda costa.