6 sinais de que ele ainda te ama mesmo depois de terem terminado
Apesar de terem terminado a relação, ainda tem a sensação de que ele lhe está a enviar mensagens confusas?
There is one part of you that is sure you’re done and nothing can happen to change that, but there is also a part of you that still hopes things will get back on track.
Him sending mixed signals after you’ve finally accepted it’s over doesn’t help very much, does it?
Já bastava ter de passar pela fase de cura, chorar a sua quota-parte de lágrimas e forçar-se a esquecê-lo, sem que ele também lhe desse falsas esperanças.
Depois de acabar com alguém, a vossa relação pode ir em muitas direcções. You can stay friends, you can still hook up from time to time, or you don’t want to hear his name ever again.
It’s very hard to know exactly where your relationship is heading because men usually don’t spell out clearly what they want.
Heck, maybe even they don’t know what they want—whether to keep you in their life or to pretend like the two you never happened.
Como saber o que ele quer? Como saber se ele quer voltar para ti porque ainda te ama?
Breaking up is hard. You have to deal with the fact that you’ll never again be in his arms. He will never again kiss you when you meet, like he hasn’t seen you for months.
Só temos de o aceitar e passar pelo processo de o esquecer e de esquecer o que tínhamos.
But, just as you were ready to move on, you get the feeling he still has some feelings for you. It’s like he knows that you finally found peace and then he comes back and ruins everything by sending you mixed signals.
You could get back with him, but that’s usually not a good idea. Just think back on your relationship and try to exclude all the good memories you have and just think about the bad ones.
Se acabaram a relação, é provável que tenham tido mais momentos maus e feios do que aqueles que foram felizes.
No entanto, é muito bom sentir a falta de alguém em vez de sentir a falta de alguém, para variar.
Aqui estão os sinais de que o seu ex ainda o ama e provavelmente o quer de volta:
He calls you when he’s drunk
It is said that when they get drunk, people speak about what’s really on their minds, they are completely honest and they will say things that they would never say sober.
O álcool diminui as suas inibições, pelo que ele dirá o que tem estado a esconder de si.
When he gets drunk, the rational part of his brain tells him it’s over and there is no point in calling you, but on the other hand, that other part of the brain gets much stronger and louder when he’s drunk and it’s shouting: “You have to call her, maybe there is still hope for the two of you!!!”
When he calls you drunk, remember that you have to be careful. Don’t say something you might regret and don’t give him any hope.
Se ele ainda tiver coragem de falar consigo amanhã sobre o mesmo assunto, então pense melhor sobre esta situação.
Ele ainda não está a sair com ninguém
If he isn’t dating anyone and it’s been a while since you broke up, he probably ainda tem alguns sentimentos por tiPor isso, decidiu esperar para ver se a sua sorte mudava.
Even if he goes out with someone, he will do it under the radar because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and he himself is unsure about it too.
But in case he is dating someone…
A namorada dele sente-se ameaçada por si
She can’t stand to look at you or hear anything about you, let alone be in your presence.
This is an obvious sign that he has been talking about you a lot; that’s why she feels threatened.
She has the feeling that he hasn’t moved on completely (and she’s probably right) or he’s second-guessing himself about his current choice.
Quem sabe, talvez ele tenha chamado o teu nome durante o sexo? Não admira que ela ainda sinta que tu és mais importante para ele do que ela.
He’s sending you mixed signals
Num momento, ele está completamente interessado em si e dá-lhe uma atenção que a assusta e, no momento seguinte, fecha-se sobre si como se fosse a sua arqui-inimiga.
This behavior has to be super-confusing to you, which is more than normal, but it’s exactly the way he feels.
He is still confused about you. Maybe even he doesn’t know whether he still loves you or if he is ready to move on.
You can’t wipe out all the feelings you had for someone in a day just because you broke up. That is a process that is usually very painful and long.
After a break-up, you should stay strong. If he sends you texts and then stops, don’t send him any either, play it cool like you really don’t care.
Don’t let his confusion freak you out or give you false hope.
He’s a completely different person all of a sudden
He starts acting completely different around you once you’ve broken up. He becomes extremely friendly and all his bad qualities suddenly disappear, leaving him heavenly beautiful and just perfect.
Don’t fall for it. He knows how to be good when he wants to, and right now, he wants to get you back, so he is playing you by acting perfectly.
Se concordam em ficar amigos se ele fala consigo suavemente e sussurra coisas doces ao seu ouvido, ou faz praticamente tudo o que ultrapassa a linha da amizade, ele ainda sente algo por si e está longe de ultrapassar o facto de terem acabado.
Ele quer fazer-te ciúmes
If he is acting too involved with his new girlfriend or an upcoming date, or if he is bombarding social networks with announcements that he’s meeting someone, he is doing all that on purpose to mess with you.
But what he doesn’t get is that he is not coming across as a badass who has moved on; he is actually revealing the fact that he still loves you and that he wants any kind of response from you to see if you feel the same.
Ele preocupa-se mesmo com o que pensas dele. O comportamento dele está a tentar fazer com que o queiras de volta.
Mais uma vez, esta não é normalmente uma boa ideia. Mas se o seu instinto lhe diz para o aceitar de volta, tente.
