6 señales de que te sigue queriendo incluso después de romper

Aunque hayáis roto, ¿sigues teniendo la sensación de que te envía mensajes contradictorios?

There is one part of you that is sure you’re done and nothing can happen to change that, but there is also a part of you that still hopes things will get back on track.

Him sending mixed signals after you’ve finally accepted it’s over doesn’t help very much, does it?

Ya era suficiente con que tuvieras que pasar por la fase de curación y llorar tu ración de lágrimas y obligarte a olvidarle, sin que él también te diera falsas esperanzas.

Después de romper con alguien, tu relación puede ir en muchas direcciones. You can stay friends, you can still hook up from time to time, or you don’t want to hear his name ever again.

It’s very hard to know exactly where your relationship is heading because men usually don’t spell out clearly what they want.

Heck, maybe even they don’t know what they want—whether to keep you in their life or to pretend like the two you never happened.

¿Cómo saber lo que quiere? ¿Cómo saber si quiere volver contigo porque todavía te quiere?

Breaking up is hard. You have to deal with the fact that you’ll never again be in his arms. He will never again kiss you when you meet, like he hasn’t seen you for months.

Sólo tienes que aceptarlo y pasar por el proceso de olvidarte de él y de lo que tuvisteis.

But, just as you were ready to move on, you get the feeling he still has some feelings for you. It’s like he knows that you finally found peace and then he comes back and ruins everything by sending you mixed signals.

You could get back with him, but that’s usually not a good idea. Just think back on your relationship and try to exclude all the good memories you have and just think about the bad ones.

Si rompisteis, probablemente tuvisteis más momentos malos y feos que felices.

Sin embargo, para variar, sienta muy bien que te echen de menos en lugar de echar de menos a alguien.

Éstas son las señales de que tu ex aún te quiere y probablemente quiera que vuelvas:

He calls you when he’s drunk

It is said that when they get drunk, people speak about what’s really on their minds, they are completely honest and they will say things that they would never say sober.

El alcohol disminuye sus inhibiciones, así que dirá lo que te ha estado ocultando.

When he gets drunk, the rational part of his brain tells him it’s over and there is no point in calling you, but on the other hand, that other part of the brain gets much stronger and louder when he’s drunk and it’s shouting: “You have to call her, maybe there is still hope for the two of you!!!”

When he calls you drunk, remember that you have to be careful. Don’t say something you might regret and don’t give him any hope.

Si todavía tiene cojones de hablarte mañana de lo mismo, entonces plantéate esta situación.

Todavía no está saliendo con nadie

If he isn’t dating anyone and it’s been a while since you broke up, he probably todavía siente algo por tiAsí que decidió esperar a ver si su suerte cambiaba.

Even if he goes out with someone, he will do it under the radar because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and he himself is unsure about it too.
But in case he is dating someone…

Su novia se siente amenazada por ti

She can’t stand to look at you or hear anything about you, let alone be in your presence.

This is an obvious sign that he has been talking about you a lot; that’s why she feels threatened.

She has the feeling that he hasn’t moved on completely (and she’s probably right) or he’s second-guessing himself about his current choice.

Quién sabe, ¿quizás pronunció tu nombre durante el sexo? No me extraña que aún sienta que eres más importante para él que ella.

He’s sending you mixed signals

En un momento está completamente colado por ti y te presta una atención que te pone los pelos de punta, y al siguiente, te deja de lado como si fueras su archienemiga.

This behavior has to be super-confusing to you, which is more than normal, but it’s exactly the way he feels.

He is still confused about you. Maybe even he doesn’t know whether he still loves you or if he is ready to move on.

You can’t wipe out all the feelings you had for someone in a day just because you broke up. That is a process that is usually very painful and long.

After a break-up, you should stay strong. If he sends you texts and then stops, don’t send him any either, play it cool like you really don’t care.

Don’t let his confusion freak you out or give you false hope.

He’s a completely different person all of a sudden

He starts acting completely different around you once you’ve broken up. He becomes extremely friendly and all his bad qualities suddenly disappear, leaving him heavenly beautiful and just perfect.

Don’t fall for it. He knows how to be good when he wants to, and right now, he wants to get you back, so he is playing you by acting perfectly.

Si usted de acuerdo en seguir siendo amigos y te habla en voz baja y te susurra cosas dulces al oído, o hace prácticamente cualquier cosa que traspase la línea de la amistad, todavía siente algo por ti y está lejos de superar el hecho de que hayáis roto.

Quiere darte celos

If he is acting too involved with his new girlfriend or an upcoming date, or if he is bombarding social networks with announcements that he’s meeting someone, he is doing all that on purpose to mess with you.

But what he doesn’t get is that he is not coming across as a badass who has moved on; he is actually revealing the fact that he still loves you and that he wants any kind of response from you to see if you feel the same.

Le importa mucho lo que pienses de él. Su comportamiento intenta que vuelvas a quererle.

Una vez más, no suele ser una buena idea. Pero si tu instinto te dice que vuelvas con él, inténtalo.