7 sinais de que ele não está terminando com você (é tudo coisa da sua cabeça)

Normalmente, é o contrário. Normalmente, toda a gente escreve sobre os sinais de que ele quer mesmo acabar consigo.

You’re reading through it, hoping that what you read is wrong.

E se passássemos ao nível seguinte para nos livrarmos da sua paranoia de uma vez por todas?

What if I manage to prove it to you that it’s all in your head, and he is perfectly happy with you?

Sei que, sempre que está numa relação, teme que ele acabe consigo. Sabe porque é que se sente assim?

Because you’re not confident, and you believe you’re not good enough.

Por isso, em vez de ficar com medo e imaginar o pior cenário possível, acalme-se um pouco e acredite que, por uma vez, ele não a vai abandonar.

Usually, when you start panicking, your panic reflects on your body language, and in that way, you’re scaring the poor guy off.

Your body is showing what your mind thinks which gets him thinking you want out. And the end result of that is – he dumps you!

Make it different this time around. Don’t work up the worst case scenario in your head when things get a bit bumpy.

No relationship is perfect, and sooner or later, you are going to go through some stuff which won’t go away overnight.

So, instead of thinking he will break up with you, think about what you could do to make things better and solve whatever it is that’s bothering you.

In the meantime, check out the signs that will calm you down a bit – signs he is not going to break up with you nor ever intended to.

1. He’s open about his feelings

It’s another thing that you don’t believe him. It’s so normal to have doubts and to question your own decisions.

It’s like you’ve been put to a test, and you have to pass it. But with you, it’s different.

You’re questioning yourself because you don’t believe in yourself.

Even after you’ve asked your boyfriend upfront whether he wants to break up with you and he’s told you upfront he doesn’t, you still don’t believe him.

Sometimes it’s better to get out of your head and trust someone for a change. Try not to think that the whole world is against you.

Porque se continuarmos a viver com essa mentalidade, as pessoas vão começar a abandonar-nos.

2. Ele ouve-te quando falas

A man who doesn’t give a damn about you doesn’t give a damn about what you’ve got to say either.

He, on the other hand, remembers everything you say. He remembers you’ve said what your favorite food is; he knows your favorite song.

Ele lembra-se das histórias de quando eras pequeno. Ele ouve-te mesmo quando falas.

How can it cross your mind that a man who has a genuine interest in everything about you would leave you? It doesn’t make any sense.

3. He doesn’t walk away from problems

Qualquer casal que se preocupe com a sobrevivência da sua relação fará tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para manter a relação viva.

If you are experiencing problems and your partner doesn’t want to do anything about them and even avoids talking about your problems in general, then you can be sure he doesn’t care about your relationship.

Se, por outro lado, ele estiver interessado em descobrir qual é o problema e como o pode resolver, então até pensar no facto de ele querer acabar é uma loucura.

It’s definitely all in your head.

4. O sexo continua a ser bom

E o mais importante é que continuam a ter sexo, o que significa que a química continua viva.

For as long as you attract each other and feel the sexual connection between you, you don’t have to worry.

Sex is like half of the relationship. If something’s wrong in the bedroom department, your relationship might be questionable.

If you don’t want a relationship, the last thing you want is to have sex with that person. Actually, you don’t want to have anything to do with them.

If anything, you’ll try to spend as little time as you can with them. You’ll try to avoid them.

5. Ele muda por tua causa

Ele abandona os maus hábitos que tinha apenas porque lhe pediste.

If you’re dealing with a man who doesn’t give a damn about you, he won’t move a finger for you.

As suas boas intenções podem ser interpretadas como um incómodo.

But a man who loves you and wants your relationship to succeed will listen to you because he knows you want only what’s good for him. He will try to change.