7 coisas com as quais só uma mulher autossuficiente pode realmente se identificar

At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve really got! Nobody will come to save you unless you learn to do it yourself, and that’s the rule she lives by.

She counts on herself, and whatever inner demons plague her, she isn’t waiting on anyone else to come wave a magic wand and make them disappear.

This way, it’s easier for her to live her life the way she’s used to. She is never disappointed because she doesn’t expect much from people.

A única forma de nunca ficarmos desiludidos é não darmos às pessoas a oportunidade de o fazerem.

Nada supera a sua liberdade emocional e financeira

Knowing that nobody can take anything away from her because she has worked for everything she’s got is priceless. Every dime she has, she earned herself.

O facto de saber que ninguém lhe pode tirar nada da cabeça dá-lhe tranquilidade emocional.

This is not something that just happens—it’s something you work for.

E trabalhou muito e incansavelmente para chegar onde chegou.

Nenhuma quantia de dinheiro pode comprar a paz de espírito que ela tem devido à sua liberdade emocional e financeira.

After everything she’s passou porEla valoriza isso acima de qualquer outra coisa na sua vida, e nunca vai pedir desculpa por isso.

She appreciates what she’s got more than others because nothing was ever put in her lap

Uma vez que foi ensinada a depender de si própria para tudo o que quisesse e precisasse, valoriza-o mais profundamente do que qualquer outra pessoa talvez o fizesse.

She wasn’t showered with love, and good things didn’t just appear at her doorstep, so when she succeeds in something, it means that much more to her.

But the things she was never given in life are the things which make her who she is today: a self-sufficient, resilient, and kind-hearted woman, with a good moral compass, and the ability to achieve whatever she sets her mind to…which is what she’s been doing her whole life.

Being a self-sufficient woman isn’t always a matter of choice

Por vezes, a vida não nos dá outra opção senão aprender a depender apenas de nós próprios.

Claro que esta é uma qualidade admirável, mas, por vezes, desejamos ter alguém em quem possamos confiar tanto como em nós próprios.

For some women, this is a matter of survival, and if this woman wasn’t as independent and self-sufficient as she is, life would be significantly harder.

A vida ensinou-a a viver assim e ela adaptou-se. Ela pode ser perfeitamente feliz por si só, but that doesn’t mean she is always pleased about it.

She has her priorities straight and knows what’s not worth stressing over

She had to learn to live this way and for that reason, she didn’t have time for bullshit and trivial things to preoccupy her.

She learned really fast what mattered in life and what didn’t, so she never took things para ser concedido. O que quer que ela precisasse, tinha de se desenrascar sozinha.

Nunca houve outra pessoa a ajudá-la em nada, por isso aprendeu a fazer tudo sozinha

This helps her stay grounded. If she has a problem, she finds a way to fix it. She doesn’t stress about stuff like clothes and shopping because she knows there’s so much more to life than that.

If she has a roof over her head and a few good people around, she’s good.

She knows it’s not selfish to put herself first

She isn’t ashamed to put her own needs first.

She knows that she is her number one priority, and if she doesn’t take care of herself, nobody else will.

In order to lead a happy and fulfilling life, she needs to be at peace with herself, and that’s exactly what she is.

As suas intenções são sempre puras e é bondosa com as pessoas que a rodeiam.

Just because she puts herself first doesn’t mean she doesn’t value other people’s needs. All it means is that she’s picky with who she lets in.

It’s hard for her to find a partner who can appreciate and handle her independence

She has learned that men don’t typically choose women who are capable of taking care of themselves.

But she has no interest in playing the ‘’damsel in distress’’ for anyone either.

It’s a struggle letting a guy get close to her because she is so used to being on her own.

The idea of being let down—or even worse hurt—by a man seems like too much of a risk.

But she’s willing to take that risk for the right man—one who can handle her exactly for the mulher forte que ela é.

Alguém que a deixe brilhar e que a edifique em vez de a deitar abaixo.

Ela não está à espera que alguém a salve

At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve really got! Nobody will come to save you unless you learn to do it yourself, and that’s the rule she lives by.

She counts on herself, and whatever inner demons plague her, she isn’t waiting on anyone else to come wave a magic wand and make them disappear.

This way, it’s easier for her to live her life the way she’s used to. She is never disappointed because she doesn’t expect much from people.

A única forma de nunca ficarmos desiludidos é não darmos às pessoas a oportunidade de o fazerem.

Nada supera a sua liberdade emocional e financeira

Knowing that nobody can take anything away from her because she has worked for everything she’s got is priceless. Every dime she has, she earned herself.

O facto de saber que ninguém lhe pode tirar nada da cabeça dá-lhe tranquilidade emocional.

This is not something that just happens—it’s something you work for.

E trabalhou muito e incansavelmente para chegar onde chegou.

Nenhuma quantia de dinheiro pode comprar a paz de espírito que ela tem devido à sua liberdade emocional e financeira.

After everything she’s passou porEla valoriza isso acima de qualquer outra coisa na sua vida, e nunca vai pedir desculpa por isso.

She appreciates what she’s got more than others because nothing was ever put in her lap

Uma vez que foi ensinada a depender de si própria para tudo o que quisesse e precisasse, valoriza-o mais profundamente do que qualquer outra pessoa talvez o fizesse.

She wasn’t showered with love, and good things didn’t just appear at her doorstep, so when she succeeds in something, it means that much more to her.

But the things she was never given in life are the things which make her who she is today: a self-sufficient, resilient, and kind-hearted woman, with a good moral compass, and the ability to achieve whatever she sets her mind to…which is what she’s been doing her whole life.