7 frases que os psicopatas e os manipuladores usam para o quebrar numa relação

Existem vários tipos de indivíduos extremamente problemáticos (tais como narcisistas, psicopatas e manipuladores) que se esforçará por quebrar o seu espírito, chantageando-o, humilhando-o e destruindo a sua autoestima.

Têm medo de o perder e dizem que o amam. Fazem qualquer coisa só para manipular os teus sentimentos.

If you notice that he uses some of the following sentences, you should see that as a red flag. Unfortunately, these kind of people can make huge damage in your life and that’s why it’s so important to see the signs as early as possible.

Se me deixares, eu mato-me.

GRANDE SINAL DE ALERTA. Este tipo de gente demente usa a chantagem porque sabe que normalmente funciona durante algum tempo.

This will be useful until the moment when you realize you don’t really give a shit what would he do—that there is nothing worse than putting up with him. Well, that’s one of the ways to destruir um psicopata.

Look what you have done, you made me…

Isto é muito perigoso porque ele está a usar truques mentais. Ele quer mostrar que tudo o que é mau é culpa sua.

Ele gritou porque tu o provocaste. Bateu-te porque o merecias.

He’s acting like a complete asshole, but he wants to convince you that you made him like that.

Does this sound familiar? If yes—RUN!!!

Don’t piss me off!

This is a situation in which he is openly showing you that you’re inferior to him.

He reminds you what happens when he’s angry, and he wants you to know you are about to pay the price for it.

Don’t let fear overcome you, and get rid of him ASAP!

Se me amas, farás isso por mim.

He’s a selfish bastard. He is giving you ultimatums because he knows your weakest point.

Por mais loucas que sejam as exigências dele, tens de as satisfazer para provar o teu amor.

Girl, this is SICK. Nobody should make you do things you don’t want to do, because that is defined as abuse.

Ver também: 6 sinais de alerta de que você está em um relacionamento emocionalmente abusivo

My ex used to do that like this…

Provavelmente, ele ainda está ligado à ex que o deixou porque, obviamente, percebeu o quão louco ele era.

He constantly compares you to her and he openly shows you that you’re not good enough.

The truth is—he’s not interested in you, you’re there just to fill some empty place in his life.

You don’t want me to be happy.

This one usually comes with some crazy demand you don’t want to do. He is obviously excited and happy about some crazy things that you don’t like.

He doesn’t care about your opinion, he wants what he wants, and that’s why he is subtly blackmailing you by this sentence.

Ver também: 5 Upsetting Signs You’re With a Selfish Person

You’re too weak to be alone.

He knows you’re not strong enough to ditch him right now, because you’re probably afraid to end up alone.

Ele quer convencer-te de que mais ninguém te quer.

Ele esforça-se muito por abalar a sua autoestima, porque quanto mais fraca for, mais fácil é para ele manipulá-la.

But, in the end, one thing is absolutely true—being single is way better than a relationship with a maniac!