7 Lembretes de poder para uma rapariga que está a curar-se de uma separação tóxica

Terminou uma relação pouco saudável num passado recente?

Are you in the middle of the recovery process? In the middle of an emotional crisis from which you think you’ll never manage to get out?

Well, you’ve come to the right place because you’re about to read some of the most important reminders que todas as raparigas que estão a passar por uma separação difícil deviam ouvir.

1. It’s NOT your fault

Honey, no matter what he might be telling you, you’re not to blame for this.

You gave your best to the man who didn’t see it as enough and you tried your hardest to repair a relationship that was condenado ao fracasso.

You’re not stupid and you’re not a fool. You were just a girl standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.

E não há nada de vergonhoso e humilhante nisso.

2. You’re not alone

Let me tell you that almost every woman has been through all of the things you’re going through.

Millions and millions of girls have fought the same battle you’re fighting right now and experienced the same pain you’re feeling.

You’re not alone in your suffering. You have your friends and your family. You have the people who truly love you and will help you.

Most importantly – you have yourself. You have a bright future and a better tomorrow that awaits you.

Tens o teu coração carinhoso e gentil que te mostrará sempre o caminho.

Tens a tua fé e tens Deus a segurar-te a mão e a guiar-te.

E que mais pode uma rapariga querer?

3. Perder este tipo foi a melhor coisa que te aconteceu

Eu sei que, neste momento, vês esta separação como a maior tragédia da tua vida.

You’re convinced that this overwhelming pain will never end and you’ll never recover.

Neste momento, vê a perda deste homem como a pior coisa que lhe poderia acontecer.

Well, I promise you that in no time, you’ll realize that it was actually the best.

You’ll understand that this was not a curse but a uma bênção disfarçada.

Que este foi o momento mais feliz da sua vida e que deve estar grato por isso.

Don’t think that I’m telling you all of this just to comfort you.

You don’t have to trust me, but everything does happen for a reason and for some bigger cause, and time will show you that this man leaving your life is for your own good.

4. It’s better to be single than with the wrong man

You might see this as an empty phrase, but the truth is you’re way better off single than beside a toxic man who keeps dragging you down to his level.

It’s always better to be alone than with someone who isn’t cut out for you.

So, instead of lamenting the fact that you’re no longer a part of a couple, embrace your single life and make the best out of it.

Sim, acertou em cheio: ser solteiro pode ser o melhor período da sua vida, se decidir encará-lo dessa forma.

5. He’ll be sorry

Trust me when I tell you one thing: this guy will regret all he’s done to you.

Sooner or later, he’ll try to come crawling back into your life, begging for your forgiveness and asking fora second chance.

It doesn’t matter if you’re into revenge or not, I bet it is nice to know that one day, someone who broke your heart will feel everything you felt.

That he’ll cry the same tears you cried because of him and he’ll be sorry once he sees that he can’t have you back.

Because he’s the one who needed you. He’s the one who lost a lot while losing you.

6. Sobreviverás

No matter the hell you’re going through right now, tomorrow morning, the sun will shine – I can guarantee you that.

No matter the despair you’re feeling, the light at the end of the tunnel always exists, even if you don’t see it.

Basically, what I’m trying to tell you is that you will survive. This will pass and you’ll make it on your own.

You will move on from your previous relationship, you will get over your toxic ex, you will stop loving him, you will forgive him for all the harm he’s done, and you will forget him.