8 maneiras de perder o interesse de um homem sem sequer se aperceber

Já alguma vez se perguntou porque é que alguns homens se esforçam tanto no início e, de repente, deixam de tentar?

Embora na maioria dos casos a razão seja o facto de eles serem idiotas, há também algumas situações em que VOCÊ pode ser o culpado de tal comportamento.

É que os homens têm praticamente a mesma forma de pensar e seguem sempre o mesmo padrão: PERSEGUIR-GANHAR. E se perturbar esse padrão, vai acabar com o interesse deles sem sequer se aperceber.

So, if you’ve noticed that your guy has been acting distant and different lately, there’s a chance that you’ve killed his interest in chasing you by doing one or more of the following 8 things unwittingly.

8 ways you’re killing a guy’s interest without even realizing it

Começou a persegui-lo

If you chase him, he will no longer chase you. It’s that simple.

If you’re constantly texting him, initiating date nights, complimenting him and doing everything to make him feel special, it means you’ve started a persegui-loe deveria ser ao contrário.

You should be the one enjoying all of these privileges without any pressure and the need to prove to him that you’re worthy.

Concordou em fazer Netflix e relaxar demasiado cedo

It’s every guy’s dream to manage the transition from “going to the restaurant dates” to “Netflix and chill dates at his place”.

If he suggests this to you, it is because he likes more casual date options where he will not feel that much pressure to impress you and because it is easier to convince you to sleep with him (if you haven’t already).

Whatever the reasons be, you shouldn’t agree to come to his place too early because once you’re into casual dating, he will think that his job here is done, and he will slowly stop chasing you.

Dormiste com ele demasiado cedo

Yup. If you sleep with them too soon, men have this tendency to think that you’re an easy catch, and they didn’t have to try hard to win you because you are satisfied with much less.

Eles querem uma mulher que eleve os seus padrões, que se mantenha fiel a eles e que os faça trabalhar arduamente para a conquistar.

You’ve been an open book

There’s nothing wrong with being honest about your whereabouts and life in general, but you need to find the balance.

If he knows everything about your life from A-Z, your habits, every pet you’ve ever had, family, friends and even your plans for the next ten years, he will stop being interested in you.

É preciso manter algum mistério e deixá-lo perguntar-se de vez em quando onde está e o que está a fazer.

That way, he’ll see that he has so much to learn about you yet, and he will not stop chasing you until he knows every single detail about you (and you’ll give him everything bit by bit).

You’re too available

If you jump the same second he calls you out and start dressing, you’re being too available.

If you discard your plans only because he wants to see you, you’re being too available.

E foi por isso que ele também começou a perder o interesse. Desfrute da sua própria vida e diga-lhe que, por vezes, ele terá de esperar um pouco para passar algum tempo consigo.

You don’t have boundaries

If you’re accepting everything he gives you, if you’re absorbing all of his words without ever contradicting him, it means you don’t have boundaries.

E quando um homem sabe que pode dizer-lhe tudo e fazer tudo sem que você proteste ou se zangue com ele, perderá o respeito por si, o que, a par da perda de interesse, também o fará.

Set strict boundaries, stick to them, and you’ll be in control of the game.

You don’t ask for what you want

Pedir o que se quer é algo que todas as mulheres devem procurar fazer hoje em dia.

If you’re not satisfied with something but you’re having problems telling him that, you’re deliberately denying yourself happiness only to make him feel good which is totally unsexy.

Peça sempre o que quer e exija que ele lho dê. Essa é a única forma de manter o interesse dele.

You don’t give him ultimatums

Has it ever happened that he’s disappointed you somehow by not arriving on time or something else more serious, and you didn’t say a word?

Continuou a ser simpático, apesar de estar a morrer por dentro para lhe contar tudo.

If you don’t give him ultimatums and make him think about what he’s done, he will tomá-lo por garantidoe ele deixará de estar interessado em perseguir-te.

Assim, a melhor aposta é reconhecer os seus esforços ou castigar o seu comportamento quando necessário, e garanto-lhe que ele continuará a persegui-lo.