8 Sinais de que ele traiu, mesmo que não admita
We always try to analyze men and their behaviors, but how wouldn’t we? When you have an unexplainable feeling that something isn’t as it used to be, you turn to analyze their behavior.
Já fomos enganadas tantas vezes por homens que nos traíram e nunca o admitiram, para depois o descobrirmos demasiado tarde.
Mas deixem-me dizer-vos agora que há alguns sinais subtis ele traiu-a que se pode ver muito claramente nele.
Utilize este conhecimento para nunca mais se deixar enganar por um homem.
1. He’s going out more
He somehow always has something coming up. Whether he’s going out with his friends more than usual or he’s always telling you that he has a ‘family dinner’, chances are he’s cheating on you.
This doesn’t mean that if he goes out two nights in a row looking fabulous he really is cheating, but if he does it the third night, I would consider talking with him about it.
2. Preocupa-se mais com a sua higiene
You know that when you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’ll get to the point where you know your partner to the core and you know the way he cares about himself.
Então, porque é que de repente ele começa a preocupar-se com o seu aspeto? Porque é que ele toma banho todos os dias? Estará a tentar impressioná-la depois de todo este tempo? As hipóteses são baixas.
3. Ele tem mudanças de humor
There’s no real reason for him to leave, so he has to create one. He gets irritated easily with stupid things and he’s nervous because he’s trying to find new excuses all the time.
Simplesmente esgota-o e este esgotamento manifesta-se em mudanças de humor não naturais.
He’s probably going out all the time and when you ask him about it, he’s throw a tantrum just so he avoids your question.
4. De repente, ele precisa de muita privacidade
You’ve known him for so long and you two have always talked about everything that’s happening in your lives. But now?
He simply doesn’t want to tell you what he’s up to, always telling you that you’re too curious and that you need to back off.
He gets mad when you’re asking him whom he’s texting and so on.
5. Ele mantém o telemóvel longe de si
It doesn’t matter if you had free access to his phone before and now he’s keeping it away or if you were never intimate enough to check each other’s phones, but if he suddenly starts to keep it away from you and doesn’t want you near his phone, he’s probably hiding something.
He doesn’t even allow you to look at what he’s so smiling about on his phone, right?
Bem, deve haver algo muito mais interessante do que manter uma conversa consigo.
6. Ele põe a culpa em si
When you ask him about him cheating, he’s automatically putting the blame on you, accusing you of cheating.
Pode ser algo tão simples como culpá-lo por não ter feito a cama esta manhã ou por ter deixado a loiça de ontem à noite no lava-loiça, mas ele quer, de alguma forma, fugir a falar do pecado que cometeu, culpando-o a si por algo.
7. He doesn’t make love with you anymore
The man you weren’t able to keep away from yourself is now totally uninterested in any fun activities in the bedroom.
Now, when you want to have fun, you get all ready – what does he do? He rejects you.
O que é que acha que isso significa? Outra pessoa está a certificar-se de que as suas necessidades estão a ser satisfeitas.
8. You’re feeling weird
Uma mulher pode simplesmente perceber quando um homem deixa de a amar ou se ele se envolveu com outra mulher.
It’s not insecurity—it’s rather the way his behavior changes that makes you feel weird and the way that you doubt his every move.
As mulheres são conhecidas pelo seu instinto never being wrong and that’s why you should trust your heart when it says that something is off.
