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O que é um homem "a sério"? A nossa definição de um homem de verdade pode ser diferente, mas há algumas qualidades que podem ajudar a reconhecer um homem de verdade.
Um homem de verdade não tem agendas ocultas, coloca todas as suas cartas na mesa.
He has no time for playing games. He doesn’t resort to manipulation or mind games.
Numa relação com um homem a sérioA partir de agora, sentirá segurança, amor, respeito e apoio, que é o que todos nós precisamos na vida.
Um homem de verdade vai pôr um sorriso no seu rosto e vai encher o seu coração de amor.
Os homens bons são raros, mas quando se encontra um, tudo é diferente.
1. Ele confia em si o suficiente para se abrir consigo
You are his best friend and he’ll show that by telling you his darkest thoughts and secrets. And you really must appreciate it.
This is very hard for every man because they don’t like to show their vulnerable side. He’ll be comfortable around you and he’ll show how much he trusts you.
That is a whole new level of closeness. Don’t betray him, keep his secrets and show him that he can always trust you.
2. Ele cumprirá sempre as suas promessas
It’s important that he values honesty and integrity. He’ll be careful with his words and he won’t make promises he can’t keep.
He’ll take the time he needs to do it right, he won’t rush and make a bad job of it. However, he will follow through on a promise as soon as he can.
If he notices that something’s bothering you or that someone from his family doesn’t accept you the way they should, he will be bold enough to tell them that.
3. Ele sabe que as acções falam mais alto do que as palavras
Sure, he’ll tell you many times that he loves you but words can never compete with actions.
He’ll try to surprise you with something in the middle of the day. He’ll remind you every day how much he loves you.
Se ele disser que vai levar o lixo para fora porque você está demasiado cansada para o fazer, ele fá-lo-á imediatamente.
If you get sick, he’ll be your personal doctor and he’ll take the best care of you.
If you mentioned once that you want to read a specific book but you can’t find it in a city bookstore, he’ll look for it for days but eventually he’ll find it and give it to you.
4. Um verdadeiro homem será o seu protetor
He won’t let anyone hurt you. He’ll protect you emotionally and physically.
You can stick up for yourself but it’s always good ter alguém que te apoie. Um homem de verdade estará sempre atrás de ti, caso alguém te tente apunhalar pelas costas.
He’ll always be there for you, no matter what happens. If he is a real man, your pain will become his.
5. He’ll know his priorities
Mesmo que ele tenha outros interesses como ler, escrever ou jogar futebol, a vossa relação será sempre a prioridade dele.
He has to work but he’ll never stay late at work if you said that you are making dinner for him. He’ll never let you wait.
His social life may be great but he’ll always prefer a quiet night at home with you over going out with his friends.
6. Ele vai apreciar-te
Ele demonstrará gratidão por tudo o que fizeres, seja grande ou pequeno.
He realizes all the sacrifices you make every day for your relationship. He won’t let a day occur where you’ll feel unappreciated.
A real man will appreciate you as a person and every time he hurts you, he’ll apologize and try to change himself.
7. Ele tenciona apresentar-te à sua família
No man will introduce a girl to his family if he doesn’t have sincere intentions with her. If he never before took a girl to meet his parents, then his family will know that you mean something special to him and they will try to accept you as a part of the family.
That is also how you’ll be sure that he doesn’t play with you. He’ll do everything to make you feel like you are a part of the family.
He will not be ashamed of you and he’ll be proud to present you as his girlfriend to his closest friends and family.
8. Ele vai tentar ganhar a confiança da sua família
He knows how important your family is to you and he’ll try to become closer to them. By appreciating them, he’ll show how he respects you.
Além disso, isto prova que ele é um homem de família e que a família está no topo da sua lista de prioridades.
If you have a younger brother or sister, he will always give them presents or take them to the park because he’ll try to earn their sympathies first.
9. Ele tem um lugar para ti nos seus planos futuros
Maybe at the beginning of your relationship, he used ‘I’ whenever he talked about something but soon enough he’ll start using ‘we’ more often.
He’ll mention you in all of his plans for the future. Every day, he will try to find out your thoughts about the future and living together.
He will ask you when you want to marry, where you want your wedding to be, how many kids you would like to have…
And that won’t be just mind-wandering. He’ll ask you these questions because he needs to know where you both stand on these important things and what kind of a future you would have together.
