9 razões pelas quais os homens adoram mulheres barulhentas na cama

You don’t really have to be a scientist to know the answer; no one likes to have dead silence in bed or to be the only one talking/screaming. It just feels wrong.

But there’s more to that for men and how they feel about loud women in bed, so we decided to gather some thoughts and ‘words of wisdom’ on this subject. O que é que se passa com os homens e as mulheres barulhentas?

It’s a sure-fire way to turn them on

Se aumentar o volume ou apimentar a sua conversa porca, pode realmente fazer uma mudança sem sequer se esforçar demasiado.

And let’s be honest, nothing gets us going like a well-timed groan or expression of excitement and pleasure.

If you’re not yet comfortable with being loud, just remember that anything is better than being silent.

Comece com coisas pequenas: gemidos e respiração pesada são suficientes, até libertar o seu poder sexual. E confie em mim, você tem isso dentro de si, mais do que alguma vez poderia imaginar.

Ninguém gosta da sensação de foder um monge silencioso

Or a corpse. I’m sorry ladies, but if you don’t want to make your man feel uncomfortable about making love to you or to make him turn soft instantly, turn up the volume.

Ninguém gosta da sensação de ter uma estrela do mar na cama, deitado imóvel com os membros esticados enquanto o seu parceiro se diverte.

You don’t have to scream like adult movie stars, a simple groan and, “Yeah baby,” will do the trick until you get comfortable being loud.

And once you get the hang of it, once you realize that there’s nothing to be ashamed of (unless you’re making love somewhere you shouldn’t), you’ll notice the difference yourself.

As mulheres barulhentas são confiantes

Every woman who’s not ashamed of her body, who’s not ashamed of her sexuality and isn’t embarrassed or scared to admit that she enjoys what she’s doing, is a woman everyone admires and wants to have.

A confiança é uma caraterística sexy que nunca envelhece ou desvanece, especialmente na cama.

And you don’t have to look like a movie star, you don’t have to have the perfect gym body, just own whom you are and what you do.

Show them that you love yourself and you’re not scared to show it, show them how to love you properly and, well, how to make you scream louder. No man could ever resist that challenge.

Pode criar uma fantasia perversa

Conversas obscenas, respiração pesada, gemidos e gritos criam uma certa atmosfera no quarto que leva a muitas fantasias perversas diferentes que eles podem experimentar, sem que você se esforce muito.

Maybe he dreams about being the best man you ever had, and now you can assure him that he is (even if he’s not).

And for some people, it’s exhibitionistic—like the thrill of getting caught or letting others know you’re having sex.

Mostra-lhes o que realmente gosta

Os homens são inseguros quanto às suas capacidades de fazer amor e procuram frequentemente a aprovação das suas parceiras.

Letting them know that they’re doing something good or maybe not so good is something that will bring joy to both of you.

He needs to hear that he’s good, so telling him, “Harder. Don’t stop,” or simply moaning a little harder when they hit the spot is enough for him to take the hint.

And, well, it’s in your best interests that he knows what turns you on and what sure as hell doesn’t.

Sentem-se como uma estrela de cinema para adultos

Ah sim, este é o favorito de todos eles, e de nós, para ser sincero. Todos nós gostamos de nos sentir como deuses do sexo e que melhor maneira de os fazer sentir isso do que fazer barulho?

Especialmente quando se sabe que falar e gritar ajuda a respirar durante o ato sexual, o que depois ajuda a relaxar e a atingir o clímax mais facilmente.

Get carried away in the moment, don’t think about the consequences.

If you’re constantly worried, trying to keep silent, there’s no way you can completely experience lovemaking and that’s a punishment no one should ever suffer.

You’re connected with your sexuality, thus making them connected to it too

We’re all sexual freaks, in some way or another. Hiding our desires, burying them deep down, does not do us any good.

Liberta a tua fera sexual interior, grita se quiseres, geme e mexe-te.

Seja a mulher que ele nunca esquecerá, porque já o tem em si.

You just have to let go of the fear and shyness, because no great sex story ever started, “He/She was so sweet and calm.” Feeling in touch with your body is a contagious aphrodisiac.

Uma das maneiras de entrar em contacto com a sua sexualidade é dedicar algum tempo a conhecer-se a si próprio, a saber do que gosta, o que faz o seu motor acelerar.

We don’t need a man to climax, but it sure feels good when we have one by our side, but what’s the point of having him there if we don’t know what to do with him?

Os casais que gritam juntos permanecem juntos

This one is proven to be right. Couples who match their lovemaking expressions, whether it’s moaning, talking or screaming, develop a deeper intimate bond than those who don’t.

Finding someone who fulfills your needs and matches your ‘screaming level’ is something you don’t run into every day.

Porque sem palavras, sem grande filosofia, sabem simplesmente que têm química, porque os vossos corpos reagem um ao outro e não há palavras mais fortes do que isso.

Ser apanhado é metade da diversão

Katy Perry said it right; “Let them hear you roar.” Seriously, there’s nothing like feeling like you’re on the edge, like you’re doing something you shouldn’t, because there’s a good possibility that everyone around you will know what you’re doing. And so what if they do?

We all do it, what’s the big deal with it? So, next time you hear someone screaming, just tell them, “Go girl!” and move on.

Because they learned how to have the time of their life, what’s stopping you from doing the same?