You don’t really have to be a scientist to know the answer; no one likes to have dead silence in bed or to be the only one talking/screaming. It just feels wrong.
But there’s more to that for men and how they feel about loud women in bed, so we decided to gather some thoughts and ‘words of wisdom’ on this subject. What is it with men and loud women?
It’s a sure-fire way to turn them on
By cranking up the volume or spicing up your dirty talk, you can actually make a change without even trying too hard.
And let’s be honest, nothing gets us going like a well-timed groan or expression of excitement and pleasure.
If you’re not yet comfortable with being loud, just remember that anything is better than being silent.
Start with small things; moaning and heavy breathing will do the trick, until you unleash your sexual power. And trust me, you have it in you, more than you could ever imagine.
No one likes the feeling of fucking a silent monk
Or a corpse. I’m sorry ladies, but if you don’t want to make your man feel uncomfortable about making love to you or to make him turn soft instantly, turn up the volume.
No one likes the feeling of having a starfish in bed, lying motionless with splayed limbs while your partner goes to town.
You don’t have to scream like adult movie stars, a simple groan and, “Yeah baby,” will do the trick until you get comfortable being loud.
And once you get the hang of it, once you realize that there’s nothing to be ashamed of (unless you’re making love somewhere you shouldn’t), you’ll notice the difference yourself.
Loud women are confident
Every woman who’s not ashamed of her body, who’s not ashamed of her sexuality and isn’t embarrassed or scared to admit that she enjoys what she’s doing, is a woman everyone admires and wants to have.
Confidence is one sexy trait that never gets old or fades, especially in bed.
And you don’t have to look like a movie star, you don’t have to have the perfect gym body, just own whom you are and what you do.
Show them that you love yourself and you’re not scared to show it, show them how to love you properly and, well, how to make you scream louder. No man could ever resist that challenge.
It can create a kinky fantasy
Dirty talk, heavy breathing, moaning and screaming set up a certain atmosphere in the bedroom which then leads to a lot of different kinky fantasies they can experience, without you even trying so hard.
Maybe he dreams about being the best man you ever had, and now you can assure him that he is (even if he’s not).
And for some people, it’s exhibitionistic—like the thrill of getting caught or letting others know you’re having sex.
It shows them what you really enjoy
Men are insecure about their lovemaking skills and often seek approval from their partners.
Letting them know that they’re doing something good or maybe not so good is something that will bring joy to both of you.
He needs to hear that he’s good, so telling him, “Harder. Don’t stop,” or simply moaning a little harder when they hit the spot is enough for him to take the hint.
And, well, it’s in your best interests that he knows what turns you on and what sure as hell doesn’t.
They feel like an adult movie star
Ah yes, this one is a favorite of all of them, and to us, to be honest. We all love to feel like sex gods and what better way to make them feel like that then being loud?
Especially when you know that talking and screaming helps you to breathe during intercourse, which then helps you to relax and to climax more easily.
Get carried away in the moment, don’t think about the consequences.
If you’re constantly worried, trying to keep silent, there’s no way you can completely experience lovemaking and that’s a punishment no one should ever suffer.
You’re connected with your sexuality, thus making them connected to it too
We’re all sexual freaks, in some way or another. Hiding our desires, burying them deep down, does not do us any good.
Unleash your inner sexual beast, scream if you want to, moan and move around.
Be the woman he will never forget, because you already have it in you.
You just have to let go of the fear and shyness, because no great sex story ever started, “He/She was so sweet and calm.” Feeling in touch with your body is a contagious aphrodisiac.
One of the ways to get in touch with your sexuality is to take time and get to know yourself, get to know what you like, what gets your engine revving.
We don’t need a man to climax, but it sure feels good when we have one by our side, but what’s the point of having him there if we don’t know what to do with him?
Couples who scream together stay together
This one is proven to be right. Couples who match their lovemaking expressions, whether it’s moaning, talking or screaming, develop a deeper intimate bond than those who don’t.
Finding someone who fulfills your needs and matches your ‘screaming level’ is something you don’t run into every day.
Because without words, without much of a philosophy, you simply know that you have chemistry, because your bodies react to each other and there are no words stronger than that.
Getting caught is half the fun
Katy Perry said it right; “Let them hear you roar.” Seriously, there’s nothing like feeling like you’re on the edge, like you’re doing something you shouldn’t, because there’s a good possibility that everyone around you will know what you’re doing. And so what if they do?
We all do it, what’s the big deal with it? So, next time you hear someone screaming, just tell them, “Go girl!” and move on.
Because they learned how to have the time of their life, what’s stopping you from doing the same?