9 motivi per cui gli uomini amano le donne rumorose a letto

You don’t really have to be a scientist to know the answer; no one likes to have dead silence in bed or to be the only one talking/screaming. It just feels wrong.

But there’s more to that for men and how they feel about loud women in bed, so we decided to gather some thoughts and ‘words of wisdom’ on this subject. Cosa c'è tra gli uomini e le donne rumorose?

It’s a sure-fire way to turn them on

Alzando il volume o rendendo più piccante il vostro turpiloquio, potete davvero cambiare le cose senza nemmeno sforzarvi troppo.

And let’s be honest, nothing gets us going like a well-timed groan or expression of excitement and pleasure.

If you’re not yet comfortable with being loud, just remember that anything is better than being silent.

Iniziate con piccole cose: gemiti e respiri pesanti andranno bene, fino a quando non libererete il vostro potere sessuale. E credetemi, ne avete dentro, più di quanto possiate immaginare.

A nessuno piace la sensazione di scoparsi un monaco silenzioso

Or a corpse. I’m sorry ladies, but if you don’t want to make your man feel uncomfortable about making love to you or to make him turn soft instantly, turn up the volume.

A nessuno piace la sensazione di avere una stella marina a letto, che giace immobile con gli arti distesi mentre il partner si dà da fare.

You don’t have to scream like adult movie stars, a simple groan and, “Yeah baby,” will do the trick until you get comfortable being loud.

And once you get the hang of it, once you realize that there’s nothing to be ashamed of (unless you’re making love somewhere you shouldn’t), you’ll notice the difference yourself.

Le donne rumorose sono sicure di sé

Every woman who’s not ashamed of her body, who’s not ashamed of her sexuality and isn’t embarrassed or scared to admit that she enjoys what she’s doing, is a woman everyone admires and wants to have.

La fiducia in se stessi è un tratto sexy che non invecchia e non svanisce mai, soprattutto a letto.

And you don’t have to look like a movie star, you don’t have to have the perfect gym body, just own whom you are and what you do.

Show them that you love yourself and you’re not scared to show it, show them how to love you properly and, well, how to make you scream louder. No man could ever resist that challenge.

Può creare una fantasia perversa

Parlare sporco, respirare pesantemente, gemere e urlare creano una certa atmosfera in camera da letto che porta a molte diverse fantasie perverse che possono essere sperimentate, senza che voi vi sforziate più di tanto.

Maybe he dreams about being the best man you ever had, and now you can assure him that he is (even if he’s not).

And for some people, it’s exhibitionistic—like the thrill of getting caught or letting others know you’re having sex.

Mostra loro cosa vi piace davvero

Gli uomini sono insicuri delle loro capacità amatorie e spesso cercano l'approvazione delle loro partner.

Letting them know that they’re doing something good or maybe not so good is something that will bring joy to both of you.

He needs to hear that he’s good, so telling him, “Harder. Don’t stop,” or simply moaning a little harder when they hit the spot is enough for him to take the hint.

And, well, it’s in your best interests that he knows what turns you on and what sure as hell doesn’t.

Si sentono come una star del cinema per adulti

Ah sì, questo è il preferito di tutti loro, e anche di noi, a dire il vero. A tutti noi piace sentirci dei del sesso e quale modo migliore di farli sentire tali se non facendo rumore?

Soprattutto quando si sa che parlare e urlare aiuta a respirare durante il rapporto sessuale, il che aiuta a rilassarsi e a raggiungere l'orgasmo più facilmente.

Get carried away in the moment, don’t think about the consequences.

If you’re constantly worried, trying to keep silent, there’s no way you can completely experience lovemaking and that’s a punishment no one should ever suffer.

You’re connected with your sexuality, thus making them connected to it too

We’re all sexual freaks, in some way or another. Hiding our desires, burying them deep down, does not do us any good.

Scatenate la bestia sessuale che è in voi, urlate se volete, gemete e muovetevi.

Siate la donna che non dimenticherà mai, perché lo avete già dentro di voi.

You just have to let go of the fear and shyness, because no great sex story ever started, “He/She was so sweet and calm.” Feeling in touch with your body is a contagious aphrodisiac.

Uno dei modi per entrare in contatto con la propria sessualità è quello di prendersi del tempo per conoscere se stessi, per sapere cosa vi piace, cosa vi fa girare il motore.

We don’t need a man to climax, but it sure feels good when we have one by our side, but what’s the point of having him there if we don’t know what to do with him?

Le coppie che urlano insieme restano insieme

This one is proven to be right. Couples who match their lovemaking expressions, whether it’s moaning, talking or screaming, develop a deeper intimate bond than those who don’t.

Finding someone who fulfills your needs and matches your ‘screaming level’ is something you don’t run into every day.

Perché senza parole, senza molta filosofia, sapete semplicemente che c'è chimica, perché i vostri corpi reagiscono l'uno all'altro e non ci sono parole più forti di queste.

Farsi beccare è metà del divertimento

Katy Perry said it right; “Let them hear you roar.” Seriously, there’s nothing like feeling like you’re on the edge, like you’re doing something you shouldn’t, because there’s a good possibility that everyone around you will know what you’re doing. And so what if they do?

We all do it, what’s the big deal with it? So, next time you hear someone screaming, just tell them, “Go girl!” and move on.

Because they learned how to have the time of their life, what’s stopping you from doing the same?