O que ela precisa é de um homem de ação, não de um homem de palavras

Por muito agradável que seja ouvir essas três palavras mágicas e cobiçadas do seu homem, o que é ainda mais agradável é vê-lo prová-las com as suas acções!

Saying “Eu amo-te“ doesn’t cut it if he’s going to be aloof, uninterested, and half present.

It’s not a joke when they say that actions speak louder than words, it’s a universal truth.

Podes falar o que quiseres, mas se podes falar, deves saber como andar!

And she damn well deserves a man who can take the initiative and show her that he’s not all about empty words and zero action.

Ela quer que ele se esforce e a faça ver que nem todos os homens são iguais.

She needs to know that when she hears him say those three words, it’s not lip service or with ulterior motive, but rather an honest, genuine sentiment that will translate into his future actions.  

And she’s really not asking for that much.

She needs a man who will not only tell her that she’s a huge part of his world, but prove it by including her in his life and his dreams.

It’s not enough just to say that she means the world to you and you couldn’t imagine living without her.

Mostre-a! Mostre-a aos seus amigos e familiares e fazer um esforço para que ela se sinta amada e bem-vinda lá.

She won’t believe that you’re serious about her unless you show her with your actions.

As palavras têm pouco significado quando não se faz nada para as tornar realidade.

So, don’t say something unless you mean to stick to it. She no longer cares for that.

Ela precisa de um homem que não diga apenas que os seus sentimentos são importantes, mas que o prove ouvindo e prestando atenção.

Look, it’s easy saying that what she feels matters to you and that you’ve got her back no matter what.

But what’s tricky is actually making the time to listen to her vent when she’s having a tough time and paying attention because you genuinely care.

She doesn’t need you to say that you care and then listen to her with one ear while watching a basketball game intently at the same time.

Desligue a televisão, esqueça os jogos de vídeo e os desportos e preste atenção à sua mulher.

She’s the one who does the exact same for you! If you can’t reciprocate, she’ll find someone who can.

She needs a man who will not only tell her he’ll call her back, but actually do it as soon as he’s off work.

When you’re too busy to pick up the phone, ser um homem and tell her you’ll call her back as soon as you can – and follow through! She needs to know she’s that important to you.

If you keep making excuses by letting shit get in the way, soon, you’re going to be without your girl.

Por isso, mantenha as suas prioridades sob controlo porque this girl won’t wait for too long.

She’s going to give you the benefit of the doubt a few times. But if you keep proving her wrong, she’s going to prove to you just how sorry you’ll be if you gamble her away.

She needs a man who will not only tell her she’s his favourite thing in the world, but prove it by making the time to be with her.

She’s farto e cansado de conversa fiada e gestos vazios.

There’s only so many times she can hear the sweetest words and then see them vanish into thin air as soon as push comes to shove.

If you truly love her, you’ll make time to be with her. We’ve all got jobs, hobbies, friends, and passions.

And guess what? It’s totally possible to juggle it all if you REALLY care!

Anything else is just a poor excuse to get out of something you’re really not into.

She’d much rather you tell her how it is to her face, then waste her time and never show up.

Planeie uma noite de encontro e surpreenda-a. Reservem uma escapadela romântica num fim de semana e deixem os telemóveis em casa.

Apareça no trabalho dela inesperadamente durante a pausa para almoço e passe essa hora a fazer-lhe carinhos.

It’s that easy! You just need to be there. She knows you’ve got shit to do. She does too!

But when you’re really invested, you make the time, because you can’t imagine it otherwise.

Por isso, se te preocupas, mostra-lhe. Se a amas, diz-lhe. Certifica-te apenas de que o provas de vez em quando.

It’s not about grand gestures and outdoing your last big thing. Just give her your time and she’ll be the happiest girl in the universe.