A bondade não era a sua fraqueza, era a sua força
Escolheu-a porque ela era bem sucedida, gregária e empática por natureza. O mesmo nível de altruísmo que ela demonstrava para com os outros era o mesmo que tinha para consigo. Sabias que ela era especial, sabias que ela era única, mas escolheste tirar partido da sua natureza carinhosa.
Your perception of her compassion and kindness as some sort of personality flaw or deficit drove you to pass up on what could have been the ‘real deal’. Instead, you settled for much less.
Quando estiveres na tua cama, sozinho, estarás assombrado by the innumerable acts of kindness bestowed upon you. Those ‘no-strings-attached’ acts of kindness will eco no teu cérebro e assombram a tua mente.
· You will remember SHE was the kind of girl who gave of herself endlessly and who expected nothing in return.
· You will remember ELA estava lá para si quando precisavas de um ombro para chorar.
· You will remember SHE was the girl who nursed you back to health when you were sick.
· You will remember SHE was the girl who gave you late-night back rubs because she knew you needed them.
· You will remember SHE was your number one cheerleader, who constantly motivated you with her fiery spirit.
· You will remember even after working long hours and after taking care of others, SHE always made sure dinner was ready for you when you walked in the door.
· You will remember the time SHE purchased Mother’s Day flowers for your mother because you could not be bothered.
· You will remember those sweet letters SHE hid in your suitcase when you traveled on business.
· You will remember HER inspiring words and speeches she shared with you prior to your job interviews.
· You will remember how SHE listened to your every word and how she would try to understand your outlandish behavior—never being judgmental but instead gracious and understanding.
· You will remember SHE knew her kindness was rare in this world of selfishness—she was selfless.
· You will remember how SHE told you how handsome you were and you responded by telling her she wore too much make-up.
· You will remember the many nights SHE spent crying on the bathroom floor out of frustration for you. Frustration that you could not understand what it meant to be kind.
· You will remember SHE knew that in order to make relationships work, kindness, a simple act of humanity, should be practiced daily.
· You will remember SHE was kind because she loved you.
· You will remember how aproveitou-se dela bondade e tratou-a como seu capacho.
· You will remember SHE encouraged you to show kindness to others.
· You will remember her face when she told you she loved you and you said nothing in return.
· You will remember what healing powers come from kindness.
· You will remember after a long day at work you were happy to see her face and hear those words of encouragement.
· You will remember SHE was never disrespectful when responding to your negativity.
· You will remember that you are so misguided for seeing a sua bondade como uma fraqueza.
Acontecerá quando passares por ela na rua e ela sorrir para ti. Lembrar-se-á que não passa de um desperdício de espaço lamentável por encontrar prazer em deitar abaixo uma pessoa genuína como ela. Verás que não passas de um ser humano deplorável. ELA, por outro lado, será mais compreensiva e vê-lo-á como alguém que ainda tem potencial para ser bom.
Lembrar-se-ão que nunca encontrarão outra como ela. ELA é uma raça rara neste mundo egoísta em que vivemos atualmente. Pessoas como ela demonstram força, graciosidade e compaixão. Pessoas como ela merecem o MELHOR numa parceria igualitária. Pessoas como você, que vêem a sua bondade e compaixão como fraquezas, não têm qualquer direito de fazer parte da vida dela.
“Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see”- Mark Twain.
