A melhor vingança é seguir em frente

He did this to you. He turned you into an empty shell, with eyes full of tears and a scream in your throat that you’re not able to let go.

He made your thirst for revenge bigger—so big, in fact, that no reasonable conversation could change your mind. You have made your decision.

Mas pára! Por favor, pára com esses pensamentos que te estão a comer vivo. Nem sequer te deixam dormir bem.

Those thoughts are turning you into the monster that he wanted to make out of you, but don’t let him. Believe me, the best revenge is to move on.

The best revenge is self-love. Don’t give him the pleasure by showing him that he made you doubt yourself.

Walk around with your head held high and your heart in its place. Take care of yourself and don’t ever make the same mistake again of thinking that you’re not good enough or that you are unworthy of love.If he wasn’t able to love you, it doesn’t mean that you are unlovable.

Ama-te plenamente. With everything you’ve got. Forget about getting even and forget about having the upper hand.

Forget about all those times you figured out a strategy to show him what he lost. Just don’t. He will be more than sorry when he sees you happy, like he never meant a thing to you.

A melhor vingança é deixar ir. Let go of everything that has happened because you can’t change your past now. You can’t influence what happened and you can’t hold on to something that’s not there anymore.

So, learn to let go. Learn to free yourself from everything that doesn’t serve you—and your past probably doesn’t, does it?

A melhor vingança é ser feliz. Quando ele a deixou, a enganou ou o que quer que tenha feito para a quebrar, provavelmente queria vê-la cair. Agora deixa-o ver-te prosperar! Sorria, ria, dance e divirta-se muito.

You only have one life and this one is yours, so don’t spend it dwelling over someone who doesn’t even care about your tears because if he did, he wouldn’t have done this to you.

Seja feliz e mostre ao mundo que pode erguer-se de novo depois de ter sido atirado ao chão.

You can rise and become wiser from your mistakes. There is no one holding you down anymore except yourself. Don’t let it continue this way.

A melhor vingança é o perdão. Podem pensar que sou louco por dizer isto, mas o perdão é algo tão sagrado que nem toda a gente tem a capacidade de o praticar.

If you forgive, you will be better than most of us, so forgive. Don’t hold grudges because they will poison your mind and your heart, and you will become just like him. I’m pretty sure you don’t want that.

Não é um pessoa tóxica. You are a wonderful human being who needs love and affection. He wasn’t able to give you that and that’s why you need to forgive him. He didn’t know better.

A melhor vingança é cuidar de si próprio. To know when you’ve had enough and when you want to take a day off from all the chaos in this world is a blessing.

You need to have time for yourself in which you’re going to relax and forget about the rest of the world because no one is more important than you now—especially in this time when precisa de se reerguer.

A melhor vingança é curar. When you show him that the wounds he inflicted are healing or already healed, then there’s nothing more that will bother him.

Ele queria quebrar-te e tu mostraste-lhe como é uma alma mais pura e como é importante para ti curares-te adequadamente.

A melhor vingança é seguir em frente. Para seguir em frente e nunca olhar para trás.

Não se esqueça que foi uma lição valiosa que teve de acontecer para que se tornasse mais sábio e para lhe mostrar que é muito mais forte do que alguma vez pensou.