Se a afastares, não te perguntes onde é que ela foi

Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she’ll be there when you decide you need her. She won’t.

Não importa quantas vezes ela decida escolher-te, o facto de não a escolheres vai afastá-la. She won’t stand for that.

She doesn’t have a place in her heart for people who decide to care for her only when it’s convenient for them.

She won’t be able to put up with you having time for her when you feel like it and then choosing to ignore her when she’s not the best option for you.

She simply won’t stand sharing all of herself with you and you running from her like she’s the one doing something wrong.

Pode pensar que ela voltará para si, por mais que a afaste.

You might believe that she’ll be right there where you left her when you suddenly feel like being with her again. Trust me, she won’t.

You’ll wonder what happened. You’ll think, at first, that she changed and did something so that the two of you drifted apart.

That’s not true and you know it. Day by day, you did things that not even her could ignore. She left you to protect herself.

She didn’t change. She simply decided she no longer wanted to deal with you.

Ela tentou agarrar-se a ti com tudo o que tinha. Deu-te o benefício da dúvida e continuou a pensar que, assim que derrubasse as tuas muralhas, tudo seria perfeito.

Dia após dia, provaste-lhe o quão errada ela estava em tentar. Ela era-te leal e tu deixaste-a tão farta de tudo que ela decidiu ir-se embora.

Já paraste para pensar como as coisas que fazes a afectam?

O facto de não saber qual era o lugar dela na sua vida deixava-a cada dia mais entorpecida.

Foi uma morte emocional lenta: quanto mais ela se agarrava a si, mais indiferente se sentia.

Some day, out of the blue, you’ll send her a message. That day she’ll finally have the strength to ignore it. You pushing her away has made her so much stronger.

You didn’t call her – she understood. You didn’t text her – she understood. You made no place for her in your life – she understood.

Now she’s moved on and wants nothing to do with you and you need to understand that.

If you’re still with her and starting to become aware of how little time you have left, know this:

Por muito que ela o ame e por muita coragem e força que lhe seja necessária para se afastar de si, ela vai fazê-lo na mesma.

Só porque o seu coração é grande e ela já te perdoou no passado doesn’t mean she’ll be there forever no matter how you act towards her.

If you continue to push her a bit further each day, one day she’ll be gone.

Don’t accept her running to you whenever you need her and then ensure you are nowhere to be found if she needs you.

Don’t let her spend sleepless nights taking care of you and nurturing you when you’re feeling low and then disappear when she’s the one who needs healing.

Don’t talk to her when you feel like it and then ignore her when something more fun happens in your life, with the expectation that she’ll reappear whenever you want her to.

If you pushed her away once and she came back, you should know to appreciate this. It’s rare for anyone to do that, no matter the amount of love they feel for you.

Agarre-a e nunca, nunca a deixe ir. Mostra o teu apreço e carinho. She might just be the only one who’ll come back for you.

She’s a keeper. Make sure you’re the one to keep her.