Ela está a afastá-lo porque está a tentar proteger o seu coração

Não, ela não é insensível. Eu sei que ela parece ser dura. E a verdade é que ela é muito mais forte do que se possa pensar.

Mas, ao mesmo tempo, continua a ter uma rapariga sensível e pequena escondida no seu íntimo.

You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and she isn’t ready to put up with you if you are not the man for her.

She had her heart broken more than once and she was hurt multiple times in the past. But this doesn’t mean she has ever allowed herself to take on the role of a victim.

Em vez disso, tomou o assunto nas suas próprias mãos e decidiu que era a única pessoa que se podia proteger.

Ela percebeu que o seu coração é a coisa mais preciosa do mundo e que ela é a única que o pode curar. A única que pode garantir que nunca mais será magoada.

Mas, no fundo, ela ainda tem medo de que o seu coração seja novamente partido.

E é só por isso que ela construiu estas paredes grossas e altas à sua volta. A única razão ela tornou-se cautelosa.

Ela está a afastá-lo porque está aterrorizada. Terror de amar novamente e ter o seu coração despedaçado mais uma vez.

She is doing it because she’s used to being on her own. Because life has taught her that she shouldn’t count on anyone and that people will betray her sooner or later.

This girl will never give you a place in her life until she sees that you really deserve it. Because she’s done settling for less.

And because she’d rather remain alone, in case you turn out to be a man who isn’t right for her.

You see, she doesn’t plan on wasting years of her life, waiting for you to change. Waiting for you to see her true value and waiting for you to love her for real.

This girl hasn’t lost her faith in love. She just knows it is a risk and you’ll have to try hard and prove it to her that it’s a risk worth taking with you.

The truth is that deep down, she is afraid of getting too attached because she doesn’t want to end up giving you her entire self while you don’t give her anything back.

She doesn’t want to be the only one putting all the effort in while you couldn’t care less.

She isn’t letting you in because she doesn’t believe you just yet. Because she is positive that you’ll end up hurting her, the same way every other man in her life did.

That you’ll end up taking advantage of her love and that you’ll just use her.

She isn’t showing you the depths of her heart and she isn’t showing you her love because she is afraid that you won’t love her back the way she expects to be loved. The way she deserves to be loved.

She isn’t showing you her vulnerabilities and insecurities because she’s been keeping them hidden inside for far too long. Because she doesn’t want to give you a chance to use them against her.

She doesn’t trust you because she had her trust violated multiple times before. She doesn’t rely on you because she learned that she is the only person she can count on.

This girl doesn’t give you her entire heart because she is afraid that she’ll end up losing herself if she does something like this once again.

Ela está a afastá-lo porque está a tentar defender-se. Está a tentar proteger os seus sentimentos, agindo como se não os tivesse.

Tenta proteger-se de todas as lágrimas e de toda a dor emocional que lhe pode causar se ela o permitir.

She isn’t making you a priority because she is scared that you’ll put her last.

That you’ll start taking her for granted and that you’ll stop trying, the moment you see you have her. That you’ll start thinking that she’ll always stay by your side, no matter what. Because trust me—she won’t.

Ela vai virar-lhe as costas no momento em que vir que não é o homem que merece ficar com ela. No segundo em que vir que a está a maltratar.

Ela vai afastar-se de si no momento em que notar uma falta de apreço, uma falta de respeito ou uma falta de amor nesta relação.

Por outro lado, se provar-lhe que é digno do seu amor then trust me—this girl will love you like no other. You just have to be patient.