7 dicas para conseguir que um jogador se comprometa consigo

So, you’ve met this guy who makes you feel so special and he’s cute, caring and kind.

Mas ele diz-lhe que nunca teve uma relação séria e isso faz-nos pensar se ele tem ou não problemas de compromisso.

Also, he doesn’t show any signs that he wants to start a relationship with you.

He’s surrounded by beautiful girls who make you feel uncomfortable and awkward and you get to the point where you see that you’ve been dealing with a player.

Of course, this doesn’t change the fact that you still want to show him how relationships are a wonderful thing.

Mas, antes de se atirar diretamente para esta confusão, deixe-me dar-lhe algumas dicas sobre how to get a so-called ‘player’ to commit para si em 7 passos simples:

1. Mostre-lhe o seu valor

There is nothing sexier than a confident woman who knows what she wants in her life and she’s eager to get it.

Sabe o quanto é inteligente, atraente e também o quanto é um bom partido.

He’s not going to play with you that easily. And even if he does play with you a bit, it’s because you let him.

You are a busy woman who doesn’t have time to wait around for him forever, so make sure that he knows that.

Se ele lhe enviar uma mensagem de texto para sair, vocês combinarem um plano e ele cancelar tudo à última da hora, diga-lhe que é uma mulher com atitude.

“You know what, dear, how about you figure out what you want and then you can text me?” This is a way of making his ego run into the corner crying, because you didn’t break, but you played the player.

2. Know what you deserve and don’t settle for anything less

Sabes o que queres numa relação e não há nada que te faça mudar de ideias.

You have high standards and you don’t need to settle for anything less.

The thing with ‘players’ is that they need to have the woman they have their eye on, so they will do some crazy sh*t to get her.

So, you know what you want in a relationship (a best friend, someone who’s there for you, someone who respects and appreciates you), then he will become all that you want.

You will show him that it’s not that bad to be with someone who loves you dearly and he will get addicted to it.

3. Não falar sobre o futuro

Vais assustá-lo se começares a falar de um futuro juntos. Ele vai-se passar e esconder-se num canto. Em vez disso, divirta-se e aproveite o momento.

Make him think that you are as easy-going as he is and don’t scare him by talking about how you two could be a cute couple or something like that.

Queres saber porquê? Bem, vais assustá-lo de morte se ele começar a pensar que serás a única pessoa com quem ele vai foder para o resto da vida.

4. Fazer com que a família e os amigos dele te amem

Se ele a apresentar ao seu grupo de amigos próximos ou à sua família, certifique-se de que causa uma boa impressão.

Queres ser o irmão feminino entre os amigos dele, mas também a mulher perfeita perante os pais dele.

Provavelmente, já és suficientemente fixe e maravilhosa para ambos os cenários, mas certifica-te de que estás ciente do facto de que os homens adoram que a namorada se dê bem com as pessoas de quem ele gosta e com quem passa mais tempo.

Also, his friends will put in a good word for you if you chug down that beer—just sayin’.

5. Divertir-se

Most men don’t want to hear a word about a committed relationship because they are afraid that the fun will be over and that they will turn their life into everything they didn’t want it to be.

They certainly don’t want someone who is boring and doesn’t have any fun in their life.

So go out and dance like there’s no tomorrow, because there isn’t. All you have is the right here and right now, so have fun!

Esqueça os compromissos e as relações e divirta-se verdadeiramente. Ele virá até si mais depressa do que pensa.

6. Não ter relações sexuais com ele

At least not until you’re sure that there is an emotional connection coming together with the physical.

Saiba que os homens adoram fazer sexo e que farão tudo o que for preciso para entrar nas suas calças. Assim abrandar e esperar um pouco.

Ele verá que não és como as outras raparigas e mostrar-lhe-ás que ele precisa de melhorar o seu jogo se quiser ver as tuas cuecas.

7. Tudo o que ele precisa é de comida e sexo (e talvez uma cerveja)

Men are very simple creatures. They don’t think about stuff as much as we do and they don’t complicate things.

There is a saying that a man will never cheat on you if you don’t let him out of the house horny and/or hungry.

So hand him a sandwich when he doesn’t have a boner and he’s yours for good.

This is the point where he will also do anything he can to please you, because he has finally realized that relationships and love aren’t scary, but rather fun. But only with the right person. And you? You are his right person.