Não precisas de um homem para te completar

Eu sei que estás muito abalado com tudo o que te aconteceu. Eu sei que é difícil deixar de lado quem amamos.

Mas acreditem em mim, às vezes é melhor deixar as coisas irem embora para que possamos estar prontos para coisas novas e melhores que estão para vir.

Eu sei que o teu coração está partido e que só um homem é culpado disso. Aquele que ainda amas e a quem continuas a telefonar todas as noites nos teus sonhos.

You see, darling, he is just a jerk who didn’t know what kind of woman he had next to himself. And if you think that it will be hard without him, you are so wrong. It will be hard only until you realize that he was toxic.

Só te vai magoar até veres que és muito melhor sozinho.

Porque ele não é o homem que tu mereces. And he is definitely not the one who will complete you. Can’t you see that you are enough? Can’t you see that you are worthy? And believe me, you don’t need a man to be happy. That is something that you can accomplish by yourself, by doing things you like, by spending time with the people you love. So, don’t think that you lost something valuable when he left.

It is not your fault he left and you don’t need to stress out about that.

By leaving you he just showed how much of a coward he was. He just showed you that he can’t make it for two. That’s not the life he wants. He wants something else and you can’t provide him with that. And you shouldn’t because you are not someone who should make his dreams come true when he didn’t even ask you about yours.

Please, don’t cry over a man who never treated you like a priority. You were always the one who waited and the one he went to when it was convenient. If I were you, I would be so sick and tired of that kind of behavior. So, you are allowed to leave the past where it belongs.

E, faças o que fizeres, lembra-te sempre de que és suficiente tal como és.

You don’t need a man para te moldar em algo que ele quer. És uma pessoa que sabe defender-se. E eu sei que o farás. Da próxima vez que ele vier ter contigo para te implorar que voltes, espero que te lembres de como ele te tratou.

And I want you to tell him that he already lost you once and that you don’t want to get back with him. You are like a diamond he never knew to cherish. And he can be sorry for everything he did to you but that is not a valid reason to take him back. He didn’t know what he had.

Ele magoou-te uma vez e vai voltar a fazê-lo.

The first time you say something that he doesn’t like, he will leave and cheat on you again. Don’t let him get away with that. Don’t think that you need him. Darling, love is what you need, not a toxic ex. He is not the man who can complete you.

Isso é algo que só tu podes fazer por ti. E quando o homem certo aparecer, ele nunca tentará mudar-te. Ele nunca te pedirá que mudes por ele.

Ele apenas estará lá, para te amar e te aceitar completamente, mas nunca tentará tornar-te completa!