Non hai bisogno di un uomo per essere completa

So che siete sopraffatti da tutto quello che vi è successo. So che è difficile lasciare andare chi si ama.

Ma credetemi, a volte è meglio lasciar perdere le cose per essere pronti per quelle nuove e migliori che verranno.

So che il tuo cuore è spezzato e solo un uomo è colpevole di questo. Quello che ami ancora e che continui a chiamare ogni notte nei tuoi sogni.

You see, darling, he is just a jerk who didn’t know what kind of woman he had next to himself. And if you think that it will be hard without him, you are so wrong. It will be hard only until you realize that he was toxic.

Vi farà male solo finché non vedrete che state molto meglio da soli.

Perché non è l'uomo che meriti. And he is definitely not the one who will complete you. Can’t you see that you are enough? Can’t you see that you are worthy? And believe me, you don’t need a man to be happy. That is something that you can accomplish by yourself, by doing things you like, by spending time with the people you love. So, don’t think that you lost something valuable when he left.

It is not your fault he left and you don’t need to stress out about that.

By leaving you he just showed how much of a coward he was. He just showed you that he can’t make it for two. That’s not the life he wants. He wants something else and you can’t provide him with that. And you shouldn’t because you are not someone who should make his dreams come true when he didn’t even ask you about yours.

Please, don’t cry over a man who never treated you like a priority. You were always the one who waited and the one he went to when it was convenient. If I were you, I would be so sick and tired of that kind of behavior. So, you are allowed to leave the past where it belongs.

E qualunque cosa facciate, tenete sempre presente che siete sufficienti così come siete.

You don’t need a man per plasmarvi in ciò che vuole. Tu sei una persona che sa difendersi da sola. E so che lo farai. La prossima volta che verrà da te per implorarti di tornare, mi aspetto che ti ricordi come ti ha trattato.

And I want you to tell him that he already lost you once and that you don’t want to get back with him. You are like a diamond he never knew to cherish. And he can be sorry for everything he did to you but that is not a valid reason to take him back. He didn’t know what he had.

Ti ha ferito una volta e lo farà di nuovo.

The first time you say something that he doesn’t like, he will leave and cheat on you again. Don’t let him get away with that. Don’t think that you need him. Darling, love is what you need, not a toxic ex. He is not the man who can complete you.

È qualcosa che solo voi potete fare per voi stessi. E quando arriverà quello giusto, non cercherà mai di cambiarvi. Non vi chiederà mai di cambiare per lui.

Egli sarà semplicemente lì, per amarvi e accettarvi completamente, ma non cercherà mai di completarvi!