I know that you are overwhelmed with everything that happened to you. I know that it is hard to let go of the one you love.
But trust me, sometimes it is better to let things go so we can be ready for new, better things to come.
I know that your heart is broken and only one man is guilty of that. The one you still love and the one you keep calling every night in your dreams.
You see, darling, he is just a jerk who didn’t know what kind of woman he had next to himself. And if you think that it will be hard without him, you are so wrong. It will be hard only until you realize that he was toxic.
It will hurt you only until you see that you are much better on your own.
Because he is not the man you deserve. And he is definitely not the one who will complete you. Can’t you see that you are enough? Can’t you see that you are worthy? And believe me, you don’t need a man to be happy. That is something that you can accomplish by yourself, by doing things you like, by spending time with the people you love. So, don’t think that you lost something valuable when he left.
It is not your fault he left and you don’t need to stress out about that.
By leaving you he just showed how much of a coward he was. He just showed you that he can’t make it for two. That’s not the life he wants. He wants something else and you can’t provide him with that. And you shouldn’t because you are not someone who should make his dreams come true when he didn’t even ask you about yours.
Please, don’t cry over a man who never treated you like a priority. You were always the one who waited and the one he went to when it was convenient. If I were you, I would be so sick and tired of that kind of behavior. So, you are allowed to leave the past where it belongs.
And whatever you do, always keep in mind that you are enough just the way you are.
You don’t need a man to mold you into something he wants. You are a person who can stand up for yourself. And I know that you will. Next time when he comes to you to beg you to come back, I expect you to remember how he treated you.
And I want you to tell him that he already lost you once and that you don’t want to get back with him. You are like a diamond he never knew to cherish. And he can be sorry for everything he did to you but that is not a valid reason to take him back. He didn’t know what he had.
He hurt you once, and he will do it again.
The first time you say something that he doesn’t like, he will leave and cheat on you again. Don’t let him get away with that. Don’t think that you need him. Darling, love is what you need, not a toxic ex. He is not the man who can complete you.
That is something that only you can do for yourself. And when the right one comes along, he will never try to change you. He will never ask you to change for him.
He will just be there, to love you and to accept you completely, but never try to make you complete!